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Didn’t realise it’s this hard!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Trying to arrange our first ever hotel meet for late tomorrow evening in Leeds for a bit of fun back at our room after we’ve been out and had some drinks with some vanilla friends. Couples only (sorry guys) and even have a fuck machine (see our pics) no interest... and there we were thinking it would relatively simple and easy lol...
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Are you heading out with swinging friends?
If they are not you could be out with them until the early hours until you part company.
It could be the timing is just generic as most couples have to plan ahead for nights out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not swinging friends no but would be back at hotel between 11 and 12 ish.. I know it’s not ideal with timings. However we’re free at the hotel in the morning until 3pm as well so could do a daytime meet too |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
OP, you're a young sexy couple, I'm also surprised that you haven't had any interest; are you expecting them to make a contribution to costs? Something like this can put some people off.
Maybe the people of Leeds are too choosy or have all lost their sex drive? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rushed and over planned maybe? Complete put off
Get social first, get comfy with the other couple on a social level and see where it leads."
Rushed? It’s been on our profile as a meet for nearly 6 weeks.
We have regular friends we do socials with and attend our regular club.. this is a one off hotel meet. Thanks for your input though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, you're a young sexy couple, I'm also surprised that you haven't had any interest; are you expecting them to make a contribution to costs? Something like this can put some people off.
Maybe the people of Leeds are too choosy or have all lost their sex drive?"
Wouldn’t ever dream of asking to split costs, who does that?
Lol, thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah the idea of meeting you at the end of the night when you'r"e pissed (assuming that you aren't having a great night and decide to stay out later) before leaving in the early hours when taxis are scarce and if anything like around here time and a half. It's such an appealing prospect I can't see why people aren't jumping at it
Maybe have a little more respect for the people you are looking to meet and meet them on an evening when you are actually free rather than expect them to make a late night booty call to finish off your night? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah the idea of meeting you at the end of the night when you'r"e pissed (assuming that you aren't having a great night and decide to stay out later) before leaving in the early hours when taxis are scarce and if anything like around here time and a half. It's such an appealing prospect I can't see why people aren't jumping at it
Maybe have a little more respect for the people you are looking to meet and meet them on an evening when you are actually free rather than expect them to make a late night booty call to finish off your night?"
1- wouldn’t be pissed
2 - we can meet day time as well
3- is 11pm really that late for a meet? When we go clubs the play rooms are just starting to fill up then.
4- another couple may want to finish there night with another hot couple and the fact we’re in town for the one night only it was worth mentioning.
5- were nothing but respectful. Never not shown up and we’ve been transparent enough on here with what we’re looking for.
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"Trying to arrange our first ever hotel meet for late tomorrow evening in Leeds for a bit of fun back at our room after we’ve been out and had some drinks with some vanilla friends. Couples only (sorry guys) and even have a fuck machine (see our pics) no interest... and there we were thinking it would relatively simple and easy lol...
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Perhaps many that were interested read your profile, looked at your pics, viewed the pics of those that verified you, and decided that aesthetically you wouldn't be interested in them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be wary of a meet like this.
You're going out with friends first so what if you got d*unk or got carried away and ended up staying out later than planned.
11 or 12 is quite late to start the night if you've not been out yourself, I know you said you could do the following daytime but people with families probably would find that hard.
The fact you only swap if it feels right at the time and the fact you haven't had a social previously means it might be a total waste of time for a couple looking to play, they'd be better off going to a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This all seems a bit harsh in terms of criticism. Young attractive couple, 11pm isn’t late in my opinion for a meet. If I was in Leeds I would be looking to meet you guys sounds ideal |
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You guys are incredibly hot (you're firmly on our hotlist  ) and you're looking for a hot couple. Most would probably think they were out of your league so wouldn't step up.
In a club, they might watch and try to catch your eye where a knock back would be easier to take.
Good luck with your search!  |
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"Are you heading out with swinging friends?
If they are not you could be out with them until the early hours until you part company.
It could be the timing is just generic as most couples have to plan ahead for nights out."
They wrote "vanilla friends" it's literally right there. |
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"I would be wary of a meet like this.
You're going out with friends first so what if you got d*unk or got carried away and ended up staying out later than planned.
11 or 12 is quite late to start the night if you've not been out yourself, I know you said you could do the following daytime but people with families probably would find that hard.
The fact you only swap if it feels right at the time and the fact you haven't had a social previously means it might be a total waste of time for a couple looking to play, they'd be better off going to a club. "
Agreed, as should the couple. Fab isn't for couples swapping its for singles shagging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rushed and over planned maybe? Complete put off
Get social first, get comfy with the other couple on a social level and see where it leads.
Rushed? It’s been on our profile as a meet for nearly 6 weeks.
We have regular friends we do socials with and attend our regular club.. this is a one off hotel meet. Thanks for your input though "
Ahh fair doos didnt realise. Theres a hell of alot of time wasters and dreamers on here. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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Def a couple we would jump at the chance of meeting but these things do have to planned in advance. We have tried before for the same kind of thing when we went to gigs up and down the country and with the late finish it’s just hard to do
Did you have the scope to meet before hand for a social drink? The maybe people wouldn't worry about the possibility of the spark not being there on a late night meet which can happen and be a bit disappointing |
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