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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton

Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No i know im a fatty who no one looks twice at when out....so all good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

10 percent are perfect

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

And why would you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection..........

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By *ub_lad6Man  over a year ago

Basildon


"No i know im a fatty who no one looks twice at when out....so all good"

Don't be silly KK! I'm sure you've broken a few necks with guys spinning round to get a cheeky peek!

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... "
not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think ."

Not all of us are looking for mister...

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Op has someone pissed on your chips?

Please don't judge all women, we are not the same.

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Op has someone pissed on your chips?

Please don't judge all women, we are not the same.

"

never said you were all the same! excuse me.

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Not all of us are looking for mister... "

oh yeah sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is a degree of truth here, some women are up their own arses. With the ratio of men on here next to women.... Well they can afford to be cant they

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe it’s because there sick of bull shit

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"There is a degree of truth here, some women are up their own arses. With the ratio of men on here next to women.... Well they can afford to be cant they "
that's true yeah

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By *uenevereWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Not all of us are looking for mister... "

We're obviously part of the 90%.

OP is also a day early...Thursday is rant day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to think I’m one of the 10% but specking to men I agree the attention goes to some women’s heads.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Aww diddums

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Maybe it’s because there sick of bull shit "
so true

So why ask for the perfect man in such a pack of bull shit then

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple  over a year ago

Bradford


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Not all of us are looking for mister...

We're obviously part of the 90%.

OP is also a day early...Thursday is rant day. "

Reading your profile you seem quite... Nice and it's definitely not as pompous as many on here.... It's quite a nice and clear profile

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Not all of us are looking for mister...

We're obviously part of the 90%.

OP is also a day early...Thursday is rant day. "

your not at all no way

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's really nice up my arse, so why wouldn't I go there?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it’s because there sick of bull shit so true

So why ask for the perfect man in such a pack of bull shit then "

Truthfully....would you settle for less than you wanted? So why should anyone else? If they want Mr/Miss/Ms/Mrs/Dr/Professor/Sir/Lady (delete as appropriate) Perfect then let them worry about chasing them and you do your own thing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thank goodness I’m in the 10%, I know I’m perfection

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By *uenevereWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Not all of us are looking for mister...

We're obviously part of the 90%.

OP is also a day early...Thursday is rant day.

Reading your profile you seem quite... Nice and it's definitely not as pompous as many on here.... It's quite a nice and clear profile "

I'm also not looking for men, which probably makes a difference. Thanks though

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think ."

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's nothing more attractive than moaning about other site users.

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By *ndrew CareyMan  over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

This will not end well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There's nothing more attractive than moaning about other site users. "

Actually there’s nothing more attractive than me x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No i know im a fatty who no one looks twice at when out....so all good"

Same I’m under no illusions

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

wow.... you must be some kind of "butthurt".......

I am guessing they rejected your "kind offer" to help them out...... after all, I am guessing you are "doing them a favour!" by throwing some attention their way......

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By *revaunanceCouple  over a year ago

Exeter


"Op has someone pissed on your chips?

Please don't judge all women, we are not the same.

never said you were all the same! excuse me. "

No, just 90% are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There's nothing more attractive than moaning about other site users.

Actually there’s nothing more attractive than me x"

True story!

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry you feel that way OP.

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine? "

because it's not true its Disney

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

He has sort of got a point, there's some spectacularly ranty profiles about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most of the men would be up their own arse if they could reach it

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By *uenevereWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Sorry you feel that way OP.

"

I do understand why men feel that way. They are heavily outnumbered so women can be very choosy.

The bombardment of messages some ladies seem to get, probably results in the sort of profiles that can come across as entitled.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No i know im a fatty who no one looks twice at when out....so all good"
You need to move then. I'd look more than twice!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine? because it's not true its Disney "

So people should fuck people they aren’t attracted to because it isn’t disney? Makes sense, can’t fault your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Imagine yourself to be in the same position OP. Never forget ‘don’t hate the player, hate the game’ it’s very true.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"No i know im a fatty who no one looks twice at when out....so all good"
you took the words right out of my mouth

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap .

wow.... you must be some kind of "butthurt".......

I am guessing they rejected your "kind offer" to help them out...... after all, I am guessing you are "doing them a favour!" by throwing some attention their way...... "

have not even asked for attention from any just reading their profile and thought just a bit to much. I'm guessing your also after attention !

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By *he witch returnsWoman  over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

I agree. Judging by some women's profiles and ranting they are full of themselves and should have a reality check.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

I guess you can't take rejection

You're a sensitive boy aren't you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m just me whether I’m on here or on another site or with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I should put my lottery numbers on. I have only ever chatted with and made friends with the 10%.

How can I spot the 90%? Is it part of the Platinum upgrade?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry you feel that way OP.

I do understand why men feel that way. They are heavily outnumbered so women can be very choosy.

The bombardment of messages some ladies seem to get, probably results in the sort of profiles that can come across as entitled. "

Funny thing about the scene thou... It's the one place where it's a woman's world. The one place where we write the rules and there's not much guys can do about it.

I can understand the profiles where there are list of rules.

I had a well written profile, but it was very evident that guys just don't read it. So I've changed it to the bare basics and none can message me unless their already talking to me or I approach them.

Less frustrating that way

Chin up op and just move on to the profiles where the ladies don't make you think that way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m just me whether I’m on here or on another site or with friends."

The Adam's Family

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The women you are targeting don't care, you do realise this don't you? I guess it's nice to have a little moan but what a waste of energy really.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think ."

I know what I want and make sure I get it. I choose to use the site and word my profile in a way that works well for me. If that makes me fall into that 90% category then so be it. I tend not to be too fussed on what others put on their profile, unless I intend on meeting them

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple  over a year ago

Cumbria


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

Little fish in a big pond feeling sorry for his self.

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By *lltogethernow OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton

I'm off

It's been fun I kinda was moaning but having fun and you have made me think and smile take care have fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm off

It's been fun I kinda was moaning but having fun and you have made me think and smile take care have fun "

You too x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm off

It's been fun I kinda was moaning but having fun and you have made me think and smile take care have fun "

Ohh jezzuz I was about to ask if you fancied a fuck ...oh well hasta luego.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine? because it's not true its Disney "

I've met plenty of people who are exactly my type and they aren't Disney princes. Did you get turned down by someone you think you're too good for?

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple  over a year ago

Bradford

I heard that 90 percent of percentage estimations are made up x

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I'm off

It's been fun I kinda was moaning but having fun and you have made me think and smile take care have fun "

you know that thing they always say

"you get one chance to make a great first impression"......

if people didn't have a scooby who you were..... what impression do you think this thread would leave them of you?

because i'm guessing "great guy... fun to be around... wow i have to meet him!" probably isn't high on that list....

you moaned, you whinged, you got called out for it.......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm off

It's been fun I kinda was moaning but having fun and you have made me think and smile take care have fun

Ohh jezzuz I was about to ask if you fancied a fuck ...oh well hasta luego. "

Can I take his place?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I already knew that.

I keep my head well away from my arse.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Alternative thread title:

Sex site makes 90% of men feel entitled to sex or recognition from women who owe them nothing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why should any one settle?!

I sure as fuck wouldn't! Regardless of what some stranger online thinks.

Don't concern yourself with what other people are looking for OP, if it ain't you, move on.

Don't be bitter.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

Interesting and informative profile. Says so much. Maybe not all are up their own arses. Mrs here. I like to look good. I love the compliments but always polite.

But we like to know about the persons persons wants so we would pass you by im afraid

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman  over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Alternative thread title:

Sex site makes 90% of men feel entitled to sex or recognition from women who owe them nothing"

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Alternative thread title:

Sex site makes 90% of men feel entitled to sex or recognition from women who owe them nothing"

Nail on head

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How NOT to make friends and influence people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am the 10%..

oi op are you perfect?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

Ahhh so that's why i chat so much shit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve been told that on many occasion.

Good job I like my own arse, it’s peachy

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By *irginieWoman  over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Yes, and your point?

V x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Oh I did smile when I spotted this thread, then made the OP connection.

I'm probably the least up my own arse person you'll ever meet, and the first to admit I'm far from perfect.

You should have replied... When you had the chance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My arse is an exit only gig, so there's no way I'm going up there.

I will however, continue to be as choosy as I like when it comes to who I fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are women on up their own arse on here or is it that whoever posted this hasn’t had the replies they wanted :/

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I must admit I love it up the arse

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Oh I did smile when I spotted this thread, then made the OP connection.

I'm probably the least up my own arse person you'll ever meet, and the first to admit I'm far from perfect.

You should have replied... When you had the chance

"

Lol so the OP didn't reply to you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think ."

Females aren't like many guys. We don't fuck anyone who offers. What you prefer to slant as seeking "perfection", is simply a case of a female not being desperate and looking for what suits her. It's a basic right and should be respected not ridiculed. If you want a woman who is less fussy, then source out your local dogging areas.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This just in: no one is required to meet/ have sex with anyone they don't want to, and they don't have to have a good reason to not want to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Females aren't like many guys. We don't fuck anyone who offers. What you prefer to slant as seeking "perfection", is simply a case of a female not being desperate and looking for what suits her. It's a basic right and should be respected not ridiculed. If you want a woman who is less fussy, then source out your local dogging areas."

so its just women that go dogging will fuck anything

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Females aren't like many guys. We don't fuck anyone who offers. What you prefer to slant as seeking "perfection", is simply a case of a female not being desperate and looking for what suits her. It's a basic right and should be respected not ridiculed. If you want a woman who is less fussy, then source out your local dogging areas.

so its just women that go dogging will fuck anything "

Not at all. You missed my subtle point. The guy in question "expects" women to be less fussy, which is a standard he presumably practices as preached. Therefore, as he is less fussy, i was simply suggesting he can meet females that can meet his expectations more readily at said dogging areas.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Females aren't like many guys. We don't fuck anyone who offers. What you prefer to slant as seeking "perfection", is simply a case of a female not being desperate and looking for what suits her. It's a basic right and should be respected not ridiculed. If you want a woman who is less fussy, then source out your local dogging areas.

so its just women that go dogging will fuck anything

Not at all. You missed my subtle point. The guy in question "expects" women to be less fussy, which is a standard he presumably practices as preached. Therefore, as he is less fussy, i was simply suggesting he can meet females that can meet his expectations more readily at said dogging areas. "

I think that you just stepped on a snowflake dearest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Females aren't like many guys. We don't fuck anyone who offers. What you prefer to slant as seeking "perfection", is simply a case of a female not being desperate and looking for what suits her. It's a basic right and should be respected not ridiculed. If you want a woman who is less fussy, then source out your local dogging areas.

so its just women that go dogging will fuck anything

Not at all. You missed my subtle point. The guy in question "expects" women to be less fussy, which is a standard he presumably practices as preached. Therefore, as he is less fussy, i was simply suggesting he can meet females that can meet his expectations more readily at said dogging areas.

I think that you just stepped on a snowflake dearest "

Then that snowflake should be warned i have rock salt on the bottom of my shoes haha. He is ok anyway, simply expressing his view as i am mine. I don't get offended by opposing views, i only get offended by those that can't debate politely and become rude and obnoxious.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

"

even those that are less blessed in the good looks lottery have the right to be picky lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 15/05/19 23:36:17]"

No need to be so arrogant though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 15/05/19 23:36:17]

No need to be so arrogant though. "

Who is being arrogant to whom and in what way?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"[Removed by poster at 15/05/19 23:36:17]

No need to be so arrogant though. "

It's not the most diplomatically put, but it's not necessarily arrogant. And news flash: guys say it too. Along with some insulting things about how they imagine my face or what they think of my bofy. I just laugh when they make demands of me, though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

"

So did you send her a face pic?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

"

If someone is rude like that then you just delete and move on. I have had some pretty nasty responses to a few rejection messages this week. They then blocked before I could respond. They are very rare but it just makes me glad I didn’t meet them and knew they weren’t right for me.

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By *elshsunsWoman  over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep tend to agree from speaking to some of the men I speak to and meet I’m just boring me ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 15/05/19 23:36:17]

No need to be so arrogant though.

Who is being arrogant to whom and in what way?"

She was and many are on this site

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?"

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone. "

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 15/05/19 23:36:17]

No need to be so arrogant though.

Who is being arrogant to whom and in what way?

She was and many are on this site "

The pit falls of communicating in the written word. The spirit of the message is interpreted by the receiver. One sees that particular message as arrogant, whilst another may have a sense of humour where they see it as playful sarcasm.

I also agree about the many being rude, both men and women. We receive the abuse from men. When my wife politely (as that is her personality) turns them down, they then fat shame her, call her ugly, tell her they are amazed anyone is attracted to her blah blah blah. All this after THEY have been attracted to her and THEY wanted to fuck her. We laugh our little socks off at the kindergarten behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted? "

I was just happy to chat with someone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone. "

So you were so offended by her original comment about could be a "minger", that you still sent a photo and chatted afterwards. You then said she suggested you fucking her, but it sounds like you didn't. Not because you thought she was a "minger" by any chance? Pot, kettle, black.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

ya your right on the money as they have all the luck hehe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone "

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thing is here, you say women are looking for "mr perfect" now I'm sure you're clever enough to work out for yourself that not every woman wants exactly the same thing, the same men, the same experience. Therefore your theory is flawed, as they aren't looking for Mr Perfect, SOME women are looking for "Mr Perfect for that scenario/Mr Perfect for them"

Everyone has different likes, dislikes and ideas of perfection.

P

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm regularly accused of being up myself. Notably not by anyone who's ever met me. The idea is actually quite laughable...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm regularly accused of being up myself. Notably not by anyone who's ever met me. The idea is actually quite laughable... "

It’s usually by people I would never connect with in any way. Us women get so many crude/abusive messages and unsolicited cock pics but we rarely start any threads about it. I see so many negative threads started by men saying that women are up themselves or I can’t get a meet etc. It’s a little tiresome sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

So you were so offended by her original comment about could be a "minger", that you still sent a photo and chatted afterwards. You then said she suggested you fucking her, but it sounds like you didn't. Not because you thought she was a "minger" by any chance? Pot, kettle, black. "

I thought it was rude but I sent a picture anyway yes. I would never say anything like that to anyone. There was a few other things she said and I didn't like her

attitude so no not the type of lady who I would rush to meet and sleep with.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

So you were so offended by her original comment about could be a "minger", that you still sent a photo and chatted afterwards. You then said she suggested you fucking her, but it sounds like you didn't. Not because you thought she was a "minger" by any chance? Pot, kettle, black.

I thought it was rude but I sent a picture anyway yes. I would never say anything like that to anyone. There was a few other things she said and I didn't like her

attitude so no not the type of lady who I would rush to meet and sleep with.

"

If someone had a bad attitude when messaging then I wouldn’t continue contact.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No i know im a fatty who no one looks twice at when out....so all good"

More fool them then Kelly cos I've looked at you a damn sight more than twice and if I wasnt so far away I'd be asking to do more than just look

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves. "

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm regularly accused of being up myself. Notably not by anyone who's ever met me. The idea is actually quite laughable...

It’s usually by people I would never connect with in any way. Us women get so many crude/abusive messages and unsolicited cock pics but we rarely start any threads about it. I see so many negative threads started by men saying that women are up themselves or I can’t get a meet etc. It’s a little tiresome sometimes. "

I do see threads about it sometimes. But the way I see it is, I'm not swinging my proverbial fist. I'm reacting to what I get, almost always with delete (and delete block if it's awful or persistent). I suspect what's interpreted as "up my own arse" is to some extent me being jaded or defensive given my experience so far. I'm not going to apologise for protecting myself.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

"

There's not a minimum amount of chatting to stay on Fab? If a conversation isn't working... don't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

Females aren't like many guys. We don't fuck anyone who offers. What you prefer to slant as seeking "perfection", is simply a case of a female not being desperate and looking for what suits her. It's a basic right and should be respected not ridiculed. If you want a woman who is less fussy, then source out your local dogging areas.

so its just women that go dogging will fuck anything

Not at all. You missed my subtle point. The guy in question "expects" women to be less fussy, which is a standard he presumably practices as preached. Therefore, as he is less fussy, i was simply suggesting he can meet females that can meet his expectations more readily at said dogging areas. "

yea ok I get ya

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Might I send a nuke into this topic?

If you’re a needy virgin or sexually repressed man: this website will not help you.

I’m here to have watersports, sex with both husband and wife (I enjoy corruption) and have all kinds of perverse kinds of activities. If you are here to lose you’re virginity, there are better websites. I’ve not even found what I’m looking for yet, I’m a hard man to please though.

Too much vanilla on a “non vanilla” site, sheesh.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

So you were so offended by her original comment about could be a "minger", that you still sent a photo and chatted afterwards. You then said she suggested you fucking her, but it sounds like you didn't. Not because you thought she was a "minger" by any chance? Pot, kettle, black.

I thought it was rude but I sent a picture anyway yes. I would never say anything like that to anyone. There was a few other things she said and I didn't like her

attitude so no not the type of lady who I would rush to meet and sleep with.

If someone had a bad attitude when messaging then I wouldn’t continue contact. "

Because you are a woman and you can get chat's easy! And whenever you feel like chatting.

For me it's very rare for a woman to engage in conversation, so I do put up with it.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan  over a year ago

Newcastle


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... "

It's astonishing how many people who respond to the Op miss the point.

The above is just one example.

This was a very early reply and he never said he'd been rejected.

Immature responses like this only vindicate him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

"

Of course you do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

"

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Might I send a nuke into this topic?

If you’re a needy virgin or sexually repressed man: this website will not help you.

I’m here to have watersports, sex with both husband and wife (I enjoy corruption) and have all kinds of perverse kinds of activities. If you are here to lose you’re virginity, there are better websites. I’ve not even found what I’m looking for yet, I’m a hard man to please though.

Too much vanilla on a “non vanilla” site, sheesh. "

Your**** f’ing iPhone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Might I send a nuke into this topic?

If you’re a needy virgin or sexually repressed man: this website will not help you.

I’m here to have watersports, sex with both husband and wife (I enjoy corruption) and have all kinds of perverse kinds of activities. If you are here to lose you’re virginity, there are better websites. I’ve not even found what I’m looking for yet, I’m a hard man to please though.

Too much vanilla on a “non vanilla” site, sheesh. "

Hey, don’t knock the vanilla. As much as I like pushing boundaries, I like good old missionary too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Might I send a nuke into this topic?

If you’re a needy virgin or sexually repressed man: this website will not help you.

I’m here to have watersports, sex with both husband and wife (I enjoy corruption) and have all kinds of perverse kinds of activities. If you are here to lose you’re virginity, there are better websites. I’ve not even found what I’m looking for yet, I’m a hard man to please though.

Too much vanilla on a “non vanilla” site, sheesh.

Your**** f’ing iPhone "

Haha, I nearly corrected you but guessed it was a typo.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P"

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

So you were so offended by her original comment about could be a "minger", that you still sent a photo and chatted afterwards. You then said she suggested you fucking her, but it sounds like you didn't. Not because you thought she was a "minger" by any chance? Pot, kettle, black.

I thought it was rude but I sent a picture anyway yes. I would never say anything like that to anyone. There was a few other things she said and I didn't like her

attitude so no not the type of lady who I would rush to meet and sleep with.

"

So what you are saying is, you have a selection criteria for who you are and are not attracted to? If the lady in question didn't intend her message to be humour, then i agree that it was unnecessary to respond it that way, but the intent was to no doubt check that she was attracted or not, to avoid wasting time. But rudeness aside, all of us on this site: male, female, short, tall, plus size, under size, black, white, god's gift, leper, all have and maintain the right to choose. Choice is not an offensive action, so chin up everyone and take it in. In the event of being unable to be capable of handling a polite "no thank you", take your pennies to the local sweet shop and buy yourself something to cheer you up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Might I send a nuke into this topic?

If you’re a needy virgin or sexually repressed man: this website will not help you.

I’m here to have watersports, sex with both husband and wife (I enjoy corruption) and have all kinds of perverse kinds of activities. If you are here to lose you’re virginity, there are better websites. I’ve not even found what I’m looking for yet, I’m a hard man to please though.

Too much vanilla on a “non vanilla” site, sheesh.

Your**** f’ing iPhone

Haha, I nearly corrected you but guessed it was a typo. "

You need to change your settings. I want you to aim a fountain towards my mouth, whilst I’m being fisted by a transvestite.

Vanilla sucks, if there’s no taboo my cock won’t play peak-a-boo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from. "

But you shouldn’t be so desperate to chat to people that you will put up with bad vibes. I would rather read a book. I only use the forums to chat really but I get messages occasionally that catch my attention and I may engage there. I don’t look for it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from.

But you shouldn’t be so desperate to chat to people that you will put up with bad vibes. I would rather read a book. I only use the forums to chat really but I get messages occasionally that catch my attention and I may engage there. I don’t look for it. "

I only message people I feel sorry for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from. "

It's got fuck all to do with gender and more about respecting oneself. You shouldn't feel it necessary to tolerate a shitty attitude off someone for the sake of having a chat. The internet is full of different websites with chat rooms and forums. If you were never gonna bone her anyway but were merely after someone to talk to then maybe look at a different platform, I dunno, online gaming or something where people really are there for the same thing, with the same interests.

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Might I send a nuke into this topic?

If you’re a needy virgin or sexually repressed man: this website will not help you.

I’m here to have watersports, sex with both husband and wife (I enjoy corruption) and have all kinds of perverse kinds of activities. If you are here to lose you’re virginity, there are better websites. I’ve not even found what I’m looking for yet, I’m a hard man to please though.

Too much vanilla on a “non vanilla” site, sheesh.

Your**** f’ing iPhone

Haha, I nearly corrected you but guessed it was a typo.

You need to change your settings. I want you to aim a fountain towards my mouth, whilst I’m being fisted by a transvestite.

Vanilla sucks, if there’s no taboo my cock won’t play peak-a-boo "

See, I love eye contact and sensual slow sex. It could be followed by me pegging that person but I like a nice balance of both.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from.

But you shouldn’t be so desperate to chat to people that you will put up with bad vibes. I would rather read a book. I only use the forums to chat really but I get messages occasionally that catch my attention and I may engage there. I don’t look for it.

I only message people I feel sorry for "

Only you sweetie. Love ya really. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from.

But you shouldn’t be so desperate to chat to people that you will put up with bad vibes. I would rather read a book. I only use the forums to chat really but I get messages occasionally that catch my attention and I may engage there. I don’t look for it. "

Well I spend most of my time alone in hotel rooms, so I guess it's made me desperate to talk with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from.

It's got fuck all to do with gender and more about respecting oneself. You shouldn't feel it necessary to tolerate a shitty attitude off someone for the sake of having a chat. The internet is full of different websites with chat rooms and forums. If you were never gonna bone her anyway but were merely after someone to talk to then maybe look at a different platform, I dunno, online gaming or something where people really are there for the same thing, with the same interests.

P"

Like I said just sign in male gender and try and get chat's... It's impossible most days.

Just talking reality

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from.

But you shouldn’t be so desperate to chat to people that you will put up with bad vibes. I would rather read a book. I only use the forums to chat really but I get messages occasionally that catch my attention and I may engage there. I don’t look for it.

Well I spend most of my time alone in hotel rooms, so I guess it's made me desperate to talk with someone. "

I’m a flight attendant so I know how that feels. I do have colleagues to mix with but don’t always want to. I do have many other apps to chat on so I don’t rely on fab. Don’t put up with bad attitudes just because you are lonely. Come on the forums. Like the other poster said, there are many other places to chat too.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Oh I did smile when I spotted this thread, then made the OP connection.

I'm probably the least up my own arse person you'll ever meet, and the first to admit I'm far from perfect.

You should have replied... When you had the chance

Lol so the OP didn't reply to you? "

We chatted, at length.

Sometimes real life shit, we have no control over, really does happen.

All someone can do is apologise & offer an alternative, if the other party then decides to cease communication, that's their choice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Might I send a nuke into this topic?

If you’re a needy virgin or sexually repressed man: this website will not help you.

I’m here to have watersports, sex with both husband and wife (I enjoy corruption) and have all kinds of perverse kinds of activities. If you are here to lose you’re virginity, there are better websites. I’ve not even found what I’m looking for yet, I’m a hard man to please though.

Too much vanilla on a “non vanilla” site, sheesh.

Your**** f’ing iPhone

Haha, I nearly corrected you but guessed it was a typo.

You need to change your settings. I want you to aim a fountain towards my mouth, whilst I’m being fisted by a transvestite.

Vanilla sucks, if there’s no taboo my cock won’t play peak-a-boo

See, I love eye contact and sensual slow sex. It could be followed by me pegging that person but I like a nice balance of both. "

If you allow me to spit on a wedding ring as I’m doing so - it may work

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is some truth in this. Some Of the women on this site are up their own arse and they think their shit don't smell.

One recently asked me for a face picture and she said..

"send me a face pic because I could be talking to a minger"

I have turned down better looking women than her in reality.. Yet she had the cheek to talk like that.

So did you send her a face pic?

I did and after chatting for awhile she said I needed to get verified to get meets and she said I should meet her and get fucked to get verified.

Wtf as if I would sleep with anyone.

Why send a pic if you knew you weren’t attracted?

I was just happy to chat with someone

Think you need to choose more wisely who you chat to or stop complaining about people being up themselves.

Do you really think I have a choice of who I can chat with lol.

Of course you do. If someone is giving you a bad vibe, you stop contact. Why chat with someone if the chat is unappealing?

P

Try signing in male gender and then maybe you will see where I am coming from.

But you shouldn’t be so desperate to chat to people that you will put up with bad vibes. I would rather read a book. I only use the forums to chat really but I get messages occasionally that catch my attention and I may engage there. I don’t look for it.

Well I spend most of my time alone in hotel rooms, so I guess it's made me desperate to talk with someone. "

And there's nowt wrong with that, what isn't gonna be good for you is talking to someone who's attitude will make you feel worse than if you didn't bleeding talk to them.

You didn't need to go down the private message route if you really did just wanna talk to someone. We're all talking to each other here, now, right? It's still talking, just that everyone can see what's being written..... which actually opens up more people to respond to and more people to respond to you!

P

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

It's now Thursday, so tho could be recycled from passive aggressive style into straight rant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/05/19 00:17:47]

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By *litterbabeWoman  over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

in my opiion, desperation in any form doesn't come across as attractive though, if it be better to go to the hotel bar or a club.

Feeling desperate often brings out other parts of personalities that don't necessarily give a good impression. No one's entitled to a response or meet on here regardless of gender.

If you're feeling desperate to talk to people I feel you should get out into the physical world and talk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 16/05/19 00:17:47]"

Ever thought of a flashlight and an e-gf before

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By *flamesMan  over a year ago

swansea

Well I know how u feel as I get the same on here to be honest. But would like to think some of these lovely ladys aren't like that. But I do think that because of the rude messages and cock pics they get I bet just get fed up with it.

But to be honest I think that they should give some off us less perfect people a change even if its not gonna be in a sexaul way. As it's not all about sex it's about meeting new people and making friends and going from their. But I personally think it would just be nice to even just chat. But one other things that does get on my tit is how clickie some people are on here and at socials.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's now Thursday, so tho could be recycled from passive aggressive style into straight rant"

are you really a slut?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 16/05/19 00:17:47]

Ever thought of a flashlight and an e-gf before "

FLESHlight

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Oh I did smile when I spotted this thread, then made the OP connection.

I'm probably the least up my own arse person you'll ever meet, and the first to admit I'm far from perfect.

You should have replied... When you had the chance

Lol so the OP didn't reply to you?

We chatted, at length.

Sometimes real life shit, we have no control over, really does happen.

All someone can do is apologise & offer an alternative, if the other party then decides to cease communication, that's their choice

"

Indeed, the silly sausage.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh I did smile when I spotted this thread, then made the OP connection.

I'm probably the least up my own arse person you'll ever meet, and the first to admit I'm far from perfect.

You should have replied... When you had the chance

Lol so the OP didn't reply to you?

We chatted, at length.

Sometimes real life shit, we have no control over, really does happen.

All someone can do is apologise & offer an alternative, if the other party then decides to cease communication, that's their choice

Indeed, the silly sausage. "

"silly sausage" love that phrase

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Right, i think my work is dome on this thread haha. I am going to have to toddle off and leave you all now, as i have an appointment to go and crawl up my own arse x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right, i think my work is dome on this thread haha. I am going to have to toddle off and leave you all now, as i have an appointment to go and crawl up my own arse x "

ouch,,my advice would be use plenty lube

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Oh I did smile when I spotted this thread, then made the OP connection.

I'm probably the least up my own arse person you'll ever meet, and the first to admit I'm far from perfect.

You should have replied... When you had the chance

Lol so the OP didn't reply to you?

We chatted, at length.

Sometimes real life shit, we have no control over, really does happen.

All someone can do is apologise & offer an alternative, if the other party then decides to cease communication, that's their choice

Indeed, the silly sausage.

"silly sausage" love that phrase "

I also call people dinky donuts lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m so far up my own arse I can only see when I open my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think ."

Whereas men never have deluded fantasies of course

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim

I think the OP is annoyed about being rejected by someone on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You are so right! I’ve met very attractive men on here who wouldn’t look at me twice in the street..... why shouldn’t I relish in that? It’s only sex after all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

The women you are targeting don't care, you do realise this don't you? I guess it's nice to have a little moan but what a waste of energy really. "

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By *areToBe43Man  over a year ago

Surrey

I give Her Majesty Queen Leviosa’s arse a very firm 10 out of 10 in that profile pic. (I got bored and only read half way down the thread before scrolling to the comments section.)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine? "

I don’t think they should, but why should their standards be unrealistic just because they are on a sex site? If people are not attracting the men they want in the ‘real world ‘ why will they attract them on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No i know im a fatty who no one looks twice at when out....so all good"

Kissing Kelly you look absolutely fantastic don't put your self down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You are so right! I’ve met very attractive men on here who wouldn’t look at me twice in the street..... why shouldn’t I relish in that? It’s only sex after all "

That is a very honest comment

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine?

I don’t think they should, but why should their standards be unrealistic just because they are on a sex site? If people are not attracting the men they want in the ‘real world ‘ why will they attract them on here "

Anyone can ask for anything. If they're not realistic, they won't get it, and the only person they'll hurt is themselves. I don't see the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think the OP is annoyed about being rejected by someone on here"

I don’t think he is, as men our profiles get ‘rejected’ about 95% of the time so it happens all the time . Remember though unless you meet people for a social etc it is only our profiles and pics that get rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine?

I don’t think they should, but why should their standards be unrealistic just because they are on a sex site? If people are not attracting the men they want in the ‘real world ‘ why will they attract them on here

Anyone can ask for anything. If they're not realistic, they won't get it, and the only person they'll hurt is themselves. I don't see the problem. "

Of course they can , but making unrealistic ‘demands’ can come across as being ‘up their own arses’ as the OP has suggested .

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine?

I don’t think they should, but why should their standards be unrealistic just because they are on a sex site? If people are not attracting the men they want in the ‘real world ‘ why will they attract them on here "

What makes it unrealistic? I'm fat and I want athletic males, I'm sure some people think I'm being unrealistic but I don't really care, I'm looking for a specific thing and nobody, especially someone I'm never going to meet, is going to try and make me think I'm not good enough. I'll damn well meet who I want and I will not feel guilty.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine?

I don’t think they should, but why should their standards be unrealistic just because they are on a sex site? If people are not attracting the men they want in the ‘real world ‘ why will they attract them on here

What makes it unrealistic? I'm fat and I want athletic males, I'm sure some people think I'm being unrealistic but I don't really care, I'm looking for a specific thing and nobody, especially someone I'm never going to meet, is going to try and make me think I'm not good enough. I'll damn well meet who I want and I will not feel guilty."

I know some super athletic guys who are really into BBW. I've met one a few times, and he's so into me. I think he might be disappointed that I'm losing weight though...

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine?

I don’t think they should, but why should their standards be unrealistic just because they are on a sex site? If people are not attracting the men they want in the ‘real world ‘ why will they attract them on here

What makes it unrealistic? I'm fat and I want athletic males, I'm sure some people think I'm being unrealistic but I don't really care, I'm looking for a specific thing and nobody, especially someone I'm never going to meet, is going to try and make me think I'm not good enough. I'll damn well meet who I want and I will not feel guilty.

I know some super athletic guys who are really into BBW. I've met one a few times, and he's so into me. I think he might be disappointed that I'm losing weight though... "

Exactly, it pisses me right off when people bitch about people 'punching above their weight', everyone likes different things, for different reasons.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Quite! I put myself out there. People approach me. It's entirely optional. Guys make out like Fab forces them to fuck ugly disgusting women. Err... You don't have to fuck anyone.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Quite! I put myself out there. People approach me. It's entirely optional. Guys make out like Fab forces them to fuck ugly disgusting women. Err... You don't have to fuck anyone. "

Yep, and neither do the women these men think they are too good for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Same old, same old. Both sexes defending there own like it’s some football game of men v women.

Here’s news. There’s twats in the world no matter what’s between their legs. Said twats from both sides have made an appearance in this thread.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS  over a year ago

Bedford

It's because women are the stronger sex, and make the rules. It's their perogative.

Women are only now starting to reach their full potential in the work place and the bedroom again after centuries of oppression.

When you read a women ranting and sounding a bit full of themselve you're hearing the lioness roar. Even in the jungle she rules.

Personally I love all types. Love the Nora Batty types, there's some hot bodies under them overalls.

Some men....they don't like it up em, oooo missus.

You're a nice guy, you'll meet the right ladies for you. Remember box o chocolates.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Same old, same old. Both sexes defending there own like it’s some football game of men v women.

Here’s news. There’s twats in the world no matter what’s between their legs. Said twats from both sides have made an appearance in this thread. "

They have now

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By *heEvilWithinWoman  over a year ago

Barnsley

I think it's unfair to put ALL women into one box. Yes there are the feminists and then there are normal people too who don't think that the world owes them anything.

As a woman I hate being labelled in the crowd where I feel entitled because I'm a woman.

If I get a message from someone who has made an effort regardless of whether I want to meet them or not they will receive a reply. But when you get 100 messages saying "hi" or "come fuck me" it gets a bit tedious so you tend to just not bother replying. I don't think that makes someone stuck up. I don't think women should be rude and not reply when a guy/couple/woman has made an effort to send them a nice message.

However because they're behind a keyboard /screen people feel like they can say whatever they want which is a shame. But trust me it's not just women

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine?

I don’t think they should, but why should their standards be unrealistic just because they are on a sex site? If people are not attracting the men they want in the ‘real world ‘ why will they attract them on here

What makes it unrealistic? I'm fat and I want athletic males, I'm sure some people think I'm being unrealistic but I don't really care, I'm looking for a specific thing and nobody, especially someone I'm never going to meet, is going to try and make me think I'm not good enough. I'll damn well meet who I want and I will not feel guilty."

unlike some , your profile doesn’t have any lists or demands, we all have preferences and it seems to work for you and I am sure you don’t moan and whinge when you don’t find what your looking for ? Unfortunately a lot of females on here do moan and do have liars if demands (yes I know men moan as well but this thread is about women)

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Whilst there are *some* out there who fit the OPs description, 90% is very wide of the mark and turns the OP into just another male whinging he can't get meets and looks for something other than himself to blame type post.

You also have to ask yourself which came first - the so called demanding women (although personally I'd suggest they are expressing preferences and desires as they are entitled to) or the entitled men that get butt hurt at rejection and whose expectations and attitude are all wrong? It's a never ending vicious circle.

I'd also question why worry about people that don't fit what you are looking for, including those you perceive to have their head up their arse? Wouldn't it be better to focus on those who are what you are looking for?

Bemoaning those that don't fit your criteria, just comes across as bemoaning rejection and looking for someone to blame where there is no blame to be attached

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just saying.

Oh and not all. 10 percent are perfect and dont fall in that trap . "

Nice tie, I could tie you to the bed with that if you lived a bit nearer x x

H

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Awww someone is getting fed up with rejection.......... not really I'm quite ok with rejection its normal. It's what they put on their profile makes me laugh.

They want mister perfect not all but most its deluded fantasy I think .

But why should they lower their standards so that other people don't whine?

I don’t think they should, but why should their standards be unrealistic just because they are on a sex site? If people are not attracting the men they want in the ‘real world ‘ why will they attract them on here

What makes it unrealistic? I'm fat and I want athletic males, I'm sure some people think I'm being unrealistic but I don't really care, I'm looking for a specific thing and nobody, especially someone I'm never going to meet, is going to try and make me think I'm not good enough. I'll damn well meet who I want and I will not feel guilty.

unlike some , your profile doesn’t have any lists or demands, we all have preferences and it seems to work for you and I am sure you don’t moan and whinge when you don’t find what your looking for ? Unfortunately a lot of females on here do moan and do have liars if demands (yes I know men moan as well but this thread is about women) "

I'm just asking you WHY they shouldn't be listing what they want?

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By *iffler 2019Woman  over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock

I'm not up my own arse I just know what I want and I have standards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Seeing as I haven't had much up my arse lately I might as well be up it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not up my own arse I just know what I want and I have standards "

I have low standards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ooh someones been rejected

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My profile is a guide to me and contacting me. Does it have requirements and wishes? Sure. But I'm still not going to meet someone who doesn't fit what I'm looking for. Who would? Those who read my profile can avoid wasting their time if they can't match the criteria.

Ooh. Giving a guide to help people. So demanding.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Eck ive got standards, a voice and control of my own body...best

Put me in 90% .. being in top 10% would surely put me further up my own ass???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People always whinge on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never lower your standards even if you don't know what they are.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would anyone REALLY want to get down n dirty with someone they knew was "settling" for them? I'd feel well uncomfortable being around someone who didn't particularly want to be spending time with me, but wanted a job doing so to speak.

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think the OP is annoyed about being rejected by someone on here

I don’t think he is, as men our profiles get ‘rejected’ about 95% of the time so it happens all the time . Remember though unless you meet people for a social etc it is only our profiles and pics that get rejected. "

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