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over a year ago
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I'm curious to know if there is a specific definition of soft swap? My partner and I are looking to play with couples, but do not want to engage in full swap. Penetration is for us only
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"As we understand it, it's anything but penetration, but as with everything in life you should only do what your comfortable with. X
This would appear to be the generic definition.  "
That's also our definition  |
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We always took it as any sexual activity except penetration, when it was time to fuck we'd swap back to our own partners for that but were happy to do it alongside the other two.
We have also heard that some people regard soft-swinging as having sex with your own partner in the same room, or on the same bed as another couple, without any sexual contact.
It's probably best to make sure what you and the others mean before arranging a soft-swing meet. |
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Not sure if you can a such? Seems to mean slightly different things to different people in terms of the specific wills and will nots. For example some couples don't do kissing (We love kissing btw, it's key for us). We describe our self as a soft swap couple at the moment when playing with couples. We will swap partners but playing all together in the same space. The only thing we won't do is have penetrative sex with any one but our own partner.
I think in the broadest sense soft swap is the swapping of partners for everything but penetrative sex. But ever one has their on caveats on that. |
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"We are currently soft swap couple and for us that means sexual contact with others but penetrative sex is just for us with our own partners. B x "
it is good with people you connect with x
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"We are currently soft swap couple and for us that means sexual contact with others but penetrative sex is just for us with our own partners. B x it is good with people you connect with x "
For us there has to be connection otherwise we don’t play! |
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"We are currently soft swap couple and for us that means sexual contact with others but penetrative sex is just for us with our own partners. B x it is good with people you connect with x
For us there has to be connection otherwise we don’t play! "
Totally we see it as dating as such for example we wouldn’t play with someone we wouldn’t date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soft swap , is maybe for beginners, to ease yourself into the life style..We has hardened swingers would not meet any one if it's soft swap..it would be totally boring and unsatisfying. |
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I would suggest you don't focus on terminology as much as communication. If your profile says you want soft-swap not full-swap then nobody should expect meets with you to involve penetrative sex. What level of interaction your play does involve is down to a conversation between you and interested parties. |
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