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By *Mabzero OP Man
over a year ago
Mid-Ulster |
I think dirty thoughts when I'm having sex. I think about people I've had sex with before, the sexual acts,about sexy people I've seen,parts of people like sexy ankles or smiles, about women who seem really plain or dull but I imagine them being really dirty.
And my latest partner, she said she didn't. She only thinks about me or us and the sex we're doing.
Yes I too think about the sex and feeling and sensations but it's mostly in my head.
90% imagination, 10% friction, but that changes all the time.
I'm still not sure I've described what my way of thinking is - it's very difficult to capture the concept.
What about you? Dies this make sense, or totally different?
Really curious, as it's not something commonly discussed.
Apologies if there's a thread on this already
Note - not interested in discussing what scenes you fantasise about, but how, if that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on mood, but sometimes i think of things i have done and the people.
Mostly though its things id like to do, and/or people i like joining in. Often extreme ridiculous situations too. |
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Mostly think about my wife and the sex were having at the time but often fantasise about another guy fuckingbher from behind as she sucks my cock with her arse in the air and that makes me wanna cum |
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By *Mabzero OP Man
over a year ago
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When you drift away, do your thoughts stop? Do you think of anything?This is the question I'm seeking an answer to ...
I guess your answer means you don't think snything.
I've never envisaged such a thing except in meditation. Is it common? More common in women? |
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Great question 
When with someone I'll tend to be there with them psychically, in that dance of the souls, it's a feeling thing. That may be all in my head but usually it's shared on some level at least.
Down the line in long term relationships, fantasy time does tend to happen but I'll try and talk about it and bring it to who I'm with, which usually helps turn up the heat for both of us - though occasionally it can stop things dead following her saying "WTF!?" 
Something like that anyway. |
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