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Gushing thread, with a twist

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ok ok i know the qushing/squirting subjects been done to death but i just wanted a honest opinion from women who do this

Was having a convosation last night with a guy i meet and after he commented on me cumming and i said that i hadnt cum, well because i hadnt lol and he was shocked at this as i had gushed a few times while playing with him and he saw this as me cumming

Now i really dont see gushing as having a orgasum, because i truely believe its not, when i gush i get not feeling or sensation of cumming at all, infact it feels of nothing really except a hand moving rapidly down there and a feeling of wetness, my orgasums are always clit stimulated, not g spot and i loose no fluid when i cum

I think this is a common thought of men tho that when you gush you have cum so they then dont bother trying to make you really cum as they think you already have

We got into a bit of a heated debate about this as he was sure that when you gush you was having a orgasum etc but as i do not get any pleasurable feeling from gushing i dont see how it is

So i guess my question is, is gushing an orgasum? am i wierd and do other women get this great sensation when they gush? or do other women, like me not really see gushing as cumming and not get any real sensation from it at all?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My FB gushes loads, but that doesn't mean she's cumming. i've got to work a bit harder for that lol.

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By *ub bbwWoman over a year ago

oldbury

i can gush when i cum but not very often its normally a very different sensation i have had guys in clubs be convinced they have made me cum when i gush but me and Sir know other wise

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

NN Ive seen you post on this before and I agree completely. What you describe is exactly the same for me.

And I do wish guys wouldnt see it as a job well done and think thats it

Very occasionally it happens at the same time - and I mean rarely...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" do other women, like me not really see gushing as cumming and not get any real sensation from it at all?

I gush, and yes it feels good when it happens but absolutely nothing like an orgasm. An orgasm for me has always been a full body experience, leaving me very sensitive all over and quite often shaking for some time after, but I get none of these feelings from gushing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well i've actually stopped guys from making me gush as they seem to put so much more into it when i dont

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gushing/ squirting doesn't necessarily mean that your lady has cum - agree with that, but it does differ from lady to lady.

I've found some ladies shake, shudder, have giggling fits and their bodies are all tingly and sensitive because they have cum, but some get on top and keep going.

Be interesting to see the results of this survey.

Lol, instead of family fortunes, fabulous fortunes - of 100 ladies surveyed, how many said they haven't cum having gushed/ squirted - over to you Bob, Max, Les and Vernon

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By *enithWoman over a year ago

closer than you think

Totally with you on that one NN ... I can gush for England but it takes a lot more work to make me cum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only squirt/gush when i cum, but some women dont cum when they gush.. all women are different... i hope he accepted it and finished the job he started :P

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had orgasms that result in a gush and also just gush without orgasms so figure that one out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ok ok i know the qushing/squirting subjects been done to death but i just wanted a honest opinion from women who do this

I think this is a common thought of men tho that when you gush you have cum so they then dont bother trying to make you really cum as they think you already have

We got into a bit of a heated debate about this as he was sure that when you gush you was having a orgasum etc but as i do not get any pleasurable feeling from gushing i dont see how it is

I'm completely with you about the gushing not being an orgasm, I'm exactly the same, I do gush lots with the right stimulation but it is definitely not the same feeling as an orgasm. I enjoy it but all my orgasms are through clim stim and they are very different!! And I want both, gush and orgasms lol. So guys work a bit harder and you will be rewarded

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By *otswbabeCouple over a year ago

north cornwall

These a two different things which can coincide... Some guys haven't a clue have they? Bless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm quite stunned that there was a heated argument over the fact he insisted he knew mire about your body and the way it was feeling than you did

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am incredibly sensitive, I do come when I squirt/gush. Although I never use to squirt at all. I still came. But a clitoral orgasm is a very diffrent sensation to a g spot orgasm. But put the two together and I am in heaven. That leaves me thoroughly satisfied! Although my husband does have to work hard for it. A slow steady build up is best I find. But if I don't squirt/gush it is not the be all and end all. It does not mean that I haven't cum or enjoyed myself. I don't make a point of mentioning that I do squirt/gush. I like the idea of men finding out for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also.

I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure

Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm quite stunned that there was a heated argument over the fact he insisted he knew mire about your body and the way it was feeling than you did

well to be honest thats why i started the thread as ive heard a few people say gushing means you have cum, so i just wondered if i had something wrong with me and the not feeling you have cum when you gushed was something only i experienced, but seems not seems most women feel the same way as me

I was genuinly interested to know how it felt for other women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also.

I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure

Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time"

PS She never gushed or squirted either just got wet and then something about a deep orgasm or something what ever the fook one of those is?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also.

I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure

Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time

PS She never gushed or squirted either just got wet and then something about a deep orgasm or something what ever the fook one of those is?????"

i dont gush when i orgasum, when i have a proper orgasum, which takes lots of tongue to clit stimulation lol i never gush, i get wet but not like when im g spot stimulated where i just flood, tho most guys would sooner see that as they can see the fruits of their work it does not feel like having a orgasum, im not actually sure what it is to be honest, still yet to work that one out lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's 6,000 nerve endings round a clitoris, contrast that with about 600 on a guys gear! Where they're wired up to is different on every woman. Not every woman has a Vaginal orgasm, and there are women that don't have clitoral orgasms too (usually because the clitoris is skewed or retracted somehow). From what feedback I've heard, the sensation of gushing is more of a surge than an orgasmic sensation, but again this depends on the size of the G spot area - a large G spot has more nerves and erectile tissue to engorge, which makes things more sensitive.. and so on.

To gush or squirt involuntarily is great, but I prefer a lady to have that, and a full body orgasm - I'm greedy like that

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

tbh i think all lads think if they can make you gush then thats it sorted an out the way , they never do realize that we dont orgasm lol sometimes an only once have i really had an orgasm when gushing.

this lad really knew what he was doing tho

so come on lads spending all your time making us gush does NOT mean we CLIMAX

little more effort in that department an ul will have us begging for more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also.

I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure

Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time

PS She never gushed or squirted either just got wet and then something about a deep orgasm or something what ever the fook one of those is?????

I aint worked out the answer my self on that one yet hun. I was nearly there with it last week but the strong wind blew the tent down and she lost interest after that and was more concerned about chasing after her new shoes through the park instead

Grrrr some people hey its all me me me me me aint it! haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ok ok i know the qushing/squirting subjects been done to death but i just wanted a honest opinion from women who do this

I think this is a common thought of men tho that when you gush you have cum so they then dont bother trying to make you really cum as they think you already have

We got into a bit of a heated debate about this as he was sure that when you gush you was having a orgasum etc but as i do not get any pleasurable feeling from gushing i dont see how it is

no i don't i can gush but actually not keen on sensation and prefer an orgasm xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gushing is very diffrent to cumming nothing like each other ..... and i never do the same together . For me i gush loads ... after i may cum .. but not the same time .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Gushing is very diffrent to cumming nothing like each other ..... and i never do the same together . For me i gush loads ... after i may cum .. but not the same time ."

nor do i to gush i need very rapid hand movement to cum i ned very rapid tongue movment and not many can do both at the same time for long enough lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Gushing is very diffrent to cumming nothing like each other ..... and i never do the same together . For me i gush loads ... after i may cum .. but not the same time .

nor do i to gush i need very rapid hand movement to cum i ned very rapid tongue movment and not many can do both at the same time for long enough lol"
I would know if i did both at Same time as feel so diffrent ... it somthing i may now have to work on after reading this post ,

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

i always orgasm when i gush or squirt...but dont always squirt when i orgasm...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am a lucky girl, since sexual maturity I have orgasmed through clitoral and vaginal stimulation. During the sexual act and nearing and during the point of orgasm I am very wet because I am aroused. This is perfectly natural and normal.

I have never gushed or squirted.

The reason men don't bother trying to bring a woman to orgasm and only roughly thrust their fingers in and out until a rush of fluid appears and then that's job done, is because a large majority of women on these forums tell them that's an orgasm.

I've noticed that in clubs more and more men are favouring this rough type of fingering, coupled with pressing down on the outside of the vagina in an attempt to get her to gush.

They seem to think all women gush or want to. All down to either the porn they've watched and they've mistakenly attributed porn sex to real life sex, in which case I feel great pity for them, or because they've heard it said on forums and in clubs that all women try to gush and the sign of a good lover is being able to get a woman to do that.

My advice is try and brush up on real sexual technique on how to stimulate the clitoris and g spot.

Women on here seem to be obsessed with gushing. Lots seem to find it an achievement to squirt the highest, be the messiest, need the most rubber sheeting.

Men learn from women, if there are those who continually tell them squirting is an orgasm, when it absolutely isn't, then they won't bother trying to stimulate in any other way.

Ill carry on with my tried and tested but seemingly old fashioned non gushing/squirting but lots of clitoral and gspot stimulation cos I'm having a great time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"no i don't i can gush but actually not keen on sensation and prefer an orgasm xxx"

Same here. Too many chaps seem to think they 'have to' make a girl gush. I now give advance notice not to try (Katy)

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"These a two different things which can coincide... Some guys haven't a clue have they? Bless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men learn from women, if there are those who continually tell them squirting is an orgasm, when it absolutely isn't, then they won't bother trying to stimulate in any other way.

This thread doesnt really support that though - out of the 10 or so women that have posted only one says that it is the same as having an orgasm.

And I personally can confirm I have never said to anyone that it was "

They watch too much porn and get it confused with real sex!

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By *ap AdgeMan over a year ago

Wirral

love the feeling when pumping away the lady gushes very nice but it does not mean they have cum that's another level guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am a lucky girl, since sexual maturity I have orgasmed through clitoral and vaginal stimulation. During the sexual act and nearing and during the point of orgasm I am very wet because I am aroused. This is perfectly natural and normal.

I have never gushed or squirted.

I've noticed that in clubs more and more men are favouring this rough type of fingering, coupled with pressing down on the outside of the vagina in an attempt to get her to gush.

My advice is try and brush up on real sexual technique on how to stimulate the clitoris and g spot.

Women on here seem to be obsessed with gushing. Lots seem to find it an achievement to squirt the highest, be the messiest, need the most rubber sheeting.

Men learn from women, if there are those who continually tell them squirting is an orgasm, when it absolutely isn't, then they won't bother trying to stimulate in any other way.

Ill carry on with my tried and tested but seemingly old fashioned non gushing/squirting but lots of clitoral and gspot stimulation cos I'm having a great time

you are as usual right lol

I have read it many times where women say how great gushing is and for years i kept my gob shut because i thought my body was wierd in that i didnt get all these sensations women tell you they do

As i said i know gushing threads have been done to death and i didnt want to bore you all with another i genuinely was interested if other women, like me, found gushing no big deal really and found proper clit stimulation better than having some guys thtusting his fingers about in you

It seems i am not alone and im glad i have asked as now i know its not just me i will get more assertive with guys who think that they have done their bit lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ok just a question for the ladies ,

i know you are all different so

can a lady gushing be an orgasm as my wife floods like a pee as she cums and says it was a orgasm

so is she faking it , ? or can some ladies cum as they gush this is different to the clitorial cum she sometimes has

from confused dot hubby

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"ok just a question for the ladies ,

i know you are all different so

can a lady gushing be an orgasm as my wife floods like a pee as she cums and says it was a orgasm

so is she faking it , ? or can some ladies cum as they gush this is different to the clitorial cum she sometimes has

from confused dot hubby"

when you say floods like a pee is the fluid coming from her vagina or where she pees from?

confused too lol

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By *stwoforfun2Couple over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

"Gushing is very diffrent to cumming nothing like each other ..... and i never do the same together . For me i gush loads ... after i may cum .. but not the same time ."

For me Jo, I usually gush after I have cum, but there has been occassions when I have had the absolute pleasure of both at the same time. I think alot depends on how sexually aroused you are at the time and the situation you may find yourself in, especially for me anyway.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"ok just a question for the ladies ,

i know you are all different so

can a lady gushing be an orgasm as my wife floods like a pee as she cums and says it was a orgasm

so is she faking it , ? or can some ladies cum as they gush this is different to the clitorial cum she sometimes has

from confused dot hubby"

I can gush like a tsunami when I cum, depending on the man and/or position.

There are everal different tyopes of female orgasm (aint we lucky?), one being clitoral, and one being vaginal. They feel different. I don't gush with clitoral orgasms, but usually do with vaginal orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i gush and squirt depending on where and how ......

i can from Clitoral gush loads totally flood everywhere

and also from insertion that acts like a plug then when withdrawn lots of flooding ............

and yes both different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am exactly like you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" do other women, like me not really see gushing as cumming and not get any real sensation from it at all?

That happens to me too! It feels great, and makes me want to keep very still, but a orgasm from clit stimulation and having my partner in me and me on top makes me shake all over for ages! And I love it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women 'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this." quoted from NetDoctor.

I googled it because I could see no real purpose to a woman "coming". True we produce natural lubricants and I too gush on the rare occasion.

However, cum is a mechanism for delivering the sperm which will fertilise the egg. There is no logical reason for a female humanoid to produce a contra-flow to interfere with this.

Orgasm is a feeling experience for women. So, gents, please do not ask "Did you cum?" .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to say i gush/squirt and orgasm at the same time thru clit stimulation and vaginal,we are all different and i for one since meeting my oh have had the great pleasure in orgasming/gushing and alot of out of body orgasms too i become very sensitive and get the shaking knee syndrome,awesome feeling and leaves me in sheer bliss.But like i said we are all different ,so enjoy and to the oh go get em girl and make em sit up and listen....not all ladies have orgasmed when they gush.....if all else fails maybe a huge sign in bold writing.....they may learn one day.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also.

I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure

Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time"

I've had that and you're right it was a wondeful experience and so intimate to show ones emotions after so much pleasure, and I'd only known her for a couple of hours too....

But back to the original post, I adore gushers, but if anyone supposes I'm going to sit back and light a cigar after bringing about a nice healthy gush, they can think again. One gush-coated beautiful sex is all the sweeter to eat....in fact sometimes after actual orgasm I have to be coaxed away from licking as it becomes to sensitive...

It just so happens that one of a lady's greatest pleasures is also one of my greatest pleasures and I have every intention of taking full advantage of that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Orgasm is a feeling experience for women. So, gents, please do not ask "Did you cum?" .

no cause the last guy who asked me that got told no and this thread was born lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"These a two different things which can coincide... Some guys haven't a clue have they? Bless

And it's smug patronising attitudes like that which don't really help at all.

As has been said by numerous women here, you're all different, which means that us guys have to watch, listen and attempt to perceive what is happening with the lady we're with, while she simply lies back and decides whether the ceiling needs doing again!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Well i've actually stopped guys from making me gush as they seem to put so much more into it when i dont

I too tell guys to stop trying to make me gush... it's not an orgasm.

I have gushed and not felt a thing and they seem to think it's all over and they have done a top notch job.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

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There are some medical types who believe gushing is the body trying to get rid of something irritating a bit of your body which normally wouldn't be rubbed so much.

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