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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all horny fookers who love a little BDSM play with their partners.
If you are in the SW it would be great to hear from you xxx
However- we’re open to chatting with fellow kinksters from far and wide.... so hellllllo to you too
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"We're in SW and a D/s couple. We don't bring it into swing play.
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May i ask why?
Mrs P x"
We are in a full time D/s relationship. Have been for 5 years. We have worked hard on our proticles and boundries. It's not somthing that can cross over into swing with in 5 mins. We are in the bdsm community and play at a high level. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're in SW and a D/s couple. We don't bring it into swing play.
Snap
May i ask why?
Mrs P x
We are in a full time D/s relationship. Have been for 5 years. We have worked hard on our proticles and boundries. It's not somthing that can cross over into swing with in 5 mins. We are in the bdsm community and play at a high level. "
We totally get those choices
This fun is easy to enjoy quickly but for me personally I open my soul bare to mr P when we play with BDSM... to me, that can’t be achieved for me with anyone else |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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This was discussed previously when another kinky couple put up a thread about kink and playing.
People rightly pointed out no one was laying even a finger or control by way of kink in regard to their subs at an one off meeting.
It was a different matter if:
each played with their own (to use a phrase) and got together with the other couple afterwards (taking into account time for aftercare), or
there was double domming but only after full previous discussion, at least one social, tuition from the dom and the laying down of clear limits.
The question being "Would another couple invest the time and emotion in getting to know and understand another person's sub, such as to earn the consent and trust of the sub and dom?"
That being said I did (once) attend a private house party where I flogged some people. But I was recommended by the person throwing the party and she was a domme. So I imagine at some parties where they know each other well light weight to serious kink play with each other's sub may occur before sex.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This was discussed previously when another kinky couple put up a thread about kink and playing.
People rightly pointed out no one was laying even a finger or control by way of kink in regard to their subs at an one off meeting.
It was a different matter if:
each played with their own (to use a phrase) and got together with the other couple afterwards (taking into account time for aftercare), or
there was double domming but only after full previous discussion, at least one social, tuition from the dom and the laying down of clear limits.
The question being "Would another couple invest the time and emotion in getting to know and understand another person's sub, such as to earn the consent and trust of the sub and dom?"
That being said I did (once) attend a private house party where I flogged some people. But I was recommended by the person throwing the party and she was a domme. So I imagine at some parties where they know each other well light weight to serious kink play with each other's sub may occur before sex.
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Very interesting and I can see the points raised
Have you a link please |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"This was discussed previously when another kinky couple put up a thread about kink and playing.
People rightly pointed out no one was laying even a finger or control by way of kink in regard to their subs at an one off meeting.
It was a different matter if:
each played with their own (to use a phrase) and got together with the other couple afterwards (taking into account time for aftercare), or
there was double domming but only after full previous discussion, at least one social, tuition from the dom and the laying down of clear limits.
The question being "Would another couple invest the time and emotion in getting to know and understand another person's sub, such as to earn the consent and trust of the sub and dom?"
That being said I did (once) attend a private house party where I flogged some people. But I was recommended by the person throwing the party and she was a domme. So I imagine at some parties where they know each other well light weight to serious kink play with each other's sub may occur before sex.
Very interesting and I can see the points raised
Have you a link please"
Unfortunately I can't find the thread. Someone else might find the link it was back in February. |
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