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By *enniEssex OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Thurrock area |
Hi all.
After being on the site now for a few years as myself male profile and this profile. I am trying to work some of you people out.
So the question is.
What's more important to you. Is it looks or the personality of the person you plan to meet?
I ask this because on my guy profile I get nothing. I message both women and couples. I get no reply. Just deleted.
But yet as a girl I get messages sent to me. People actually reply to me.
Which usually tells me people go off looks. But if anything as you can see by my veris I am a nice friendly person. Which also shows through when I am in male mode.
It is very difficult for a guy on this site. I do know and understand why this is. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Without seeing your male profile it's difficult to say, but remember that male profiles are hugely in the majority here by around 10:1 so that will be a factor in the difference between the responses you get from this profile to the other. You can't really say that just because you get attention from this profile it should logically follow that your male profile should too - they're actually chalk and cheese. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple, we both have to find a person attractive, there is the problem. May not be looks that attract, may be personality or humour. But personally (woman here)I have to find the person attractive in every way. But really fed up of single straight men pretending to be bi to try get a shag! They boil me x |
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By *enniEssex OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Thurrock area |
I do agree that there has to be some kind of attraction. But it's not like I'm some really ugly guy or the type would never appeal to women or couples.
Yes unfortunately the ratio of men to others on here is 10:1 of not more than that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initial attraction is visual, but personality draws me in.
For isntance if im out and approach a group of women bee lining to one i fancy, i always end up with one of her mates purely on personality traits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks mainly. Then personality. I’m not on here to date so looks are deffo way more important than anything else. Though of course I wouldn’t meet someone that I didn’t have any chemistry with |
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I think for me what your missing out is the element of sexuality some of us are programmed with.
For example I am streight. I consider myself very openned minded and very much a fancier of the mind rather than the body. But however I rationalise things out my sexuality overrides the theory and thus I find I have no desire for anyone who is not 100% physically a woman however beautiful their mind is. I could very realistically fall for a trans man but as soon at there started to physically transition I'd lose any sex desire. Likewise I would never desire a transwoman even though logically I know inside they are a woman. My sexuality trumps my logic and reasoning everytime however beautiful some ones mind is or how hot they are for the sex they mainly manifest in. Simply I can't help my sexual wiring, it's how I come. We fancy who we fancy.
So I don't think it's always a crude case of looks v mind. I think sexuality is a factor. Maybe some people are attracted to TVs and not men maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the kind of meet.
If it's literally just sex...physical attraction is most important.
If I want a little social interaction as well as playtime, I need to be able to get on and have a laugh with them first and foremost.
Chemistry is always a must. |
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