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By *amie95 OP Man
over a year ago
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So, a few months ago I got chatting to a lovely woman on here. Lots of banter and we ended up having a great meet. The chat started to die off and shes since deleted her account.
Now... the past week I’ve been working a different shift and discovered that she works in the office next door!
Obviously I’m being respectful and wouldn’t approach her at all. I’m just worried what the situation might be like if she bumps into me 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spluk all honesty there must have been a reason maybe shes taken did the deed and guilty maybe somthing else.
Personally i wouldnt pry into it, go on as you do and if you bump into her treat her as a friend say morning/hi to her and pay a compliment/ask her how her weekend was ect and wait for her to bring it up if she does. Stay cool keep it comfortable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spluk all honesty there must have been a reason maybe shes taken did the deed and guilty maybe somthing else.
Personally i wouldnt pry into it, go on as you do and if you bump into her treat her as a friend say morning/hi to her and pay a compliment/ask her how her weekend was ect and wait for her to bring it up if she does. Stay cool keep it comfortable "
Yep what he said |
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By *amie95 OP Man
over a year ago
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Always one isn’t there   haha
Thanks guys, I wouldn’t ever confront her about the situation. I know she had a partner and possibly a kid so i presume it was the guilt thing.
It’s just a big shock and you don’t really want private life and work life mixing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think..........
You Should let it lie. As you say you had a good meet and know she is in a relationship. She might been dipping her toe in the water.
Trouble is you don't know how good or bad her relationship is with her partner. She may have decided that family is more important than she thought.
Mrs N told me when she was still with her ex she did a little dabbling, found she liked it and decided to leave her hubby as her marriage was just not worth saving. Maybe this lady is like that and will come to same conclusion and you might be a shoulder to lean on at some point. |
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