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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wen u invite guys to ur house, do u give them ur address straight away? Or do u tell them to wait somewhere?
I've never given out my address untill I know they are close by, and never had a problem doing it this way, till last nite. |
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I give the road name, but house number once they've parked up.
I do hide my knives, purposely don't wear stockings, or anything that could be used to harm me. Tell a friend what I'm up to, as a bit of safety |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Wen u invite guys to ur house, do u give them ur address straight away? Or do u tell them to wait somewhere?
I've never given out my address untill I know they are close by, and never had a problem doing it this way, till last nite. "
seems sensible and reasonable  |
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I very very very rarely meet at my home and never on a first meet. I would just be careful getting to know the person first as best you can. There are no guarantees but just be as safe as you can.
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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago
lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham |
"I very very very rarely meet at my home and never on a first meet. I would just be careful getting to know the person first as best you can. There are no guarantees but just be as safe as you can.
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You do need to be cautious as a single women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I very very very rarely meet at my home and never on a first meet. I would just be careful getting to know the person first as best you can. There are no guarantees but just be as safe as you can.
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This |
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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago
lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham |
"I very very very rarely meet at my home and never on a first meet. I would just be careful getting to know the person first as best you can. There are no guarantees but just be as safe as you can.
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How are you ? |
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"We do but we only meet females so not so bad 
Why cant females be rapists, thief's and murderers too "
Of course they can but less likely
Also we do chat for a bit so there is a level of trust already.we wouldn't give our address freely,that would be asking for trouble,always make sure they're genuine first |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we wouldn't give our address freely,that would be asking for trouble,always make sure they're genuine first "
The amount of addresses some guys send is amazing ... Whether they're true is another thing but I've been sent names, phones, snaochats and house numbers and postcodes from random lads in the first message and I'm like wow no bigger turn off  |
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"we wouldn't give our address freely,that would be asking for trouble,always make sure they're genuine first
The amount of addresses some guys send is amazing ... Whether they're true is another thing but I've been sent names, phones, snaochats and house numbers and postcodes from random lads in the first message and I'm like wow no bigger turn off "
Oh god yes.
First message: mine, an hour from now 123 Example Street, Pretendville AB1 2CD.
Blocked on the grounds of stupidity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there..."
I always say public places or would want to chat a lot before considering giving my own address and probably a facetime chat so I can check the person's real...
Also live with a 6ft7 friend who looks scary so he can play the bouncer haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we wouldn't give our address freely,that would be asking for trouble,always make sure they're genuine first
The amount of addresses some guys send is amazing ... Whether they're true is another thing but I've been sent names, phones, snaochats and house numbers and postcodes from random lads in the first message and I'm like wow no bigger turn off
Oh god yes.
First message: mine, an hour from now 123 Example Street, Pretendville AB1 2CD.
Blocked on the grounds of stupidity. "
Usually sent with three pictures from well known pornstars that are oddly cropped and one murky screenshot of a mildly overweight bald lad who insists the pics are less than 6 months old  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there..."
In total agreement about that. I don’t understand why someone would go for that arrangement. Is it common? I’d just know I’d be wandering the streets of Pontefract for hours looking for the address. I can’t find my way into buildings even when I have the right address! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there...
I always say public places or would want to chat a lot before considering giving my own address and probably a facetime chat so I can check the person's real...
Also live with a 6ft7 friend who looks scary so he can play the bouncer haha"
absolutlely agree with you.... the speed that people are willing to give out address in hindsight can be scary...
saying that I have been given addresses straight away by couples they have made me think "you know don't if i am a axeman or not! (not by the way)
i get that some people want a quick hook up... but i'd still want to talk to someone for a bit first... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there...
In total agreement about that. I don’t understand why someone would go for that arrangement. Is it common? I’d just know I’d be wandering the streets of Pontefract for hours looking for the address. I can’t find my way into buildings even when I have the right address!"
the simple answer is at that stage that are thinking with their cocks rather than their brains.... 
and then you hear stories on here where people think they have had their time wasted when they have fallen afoul of these things... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have guys in my home, ever. Too many risks. Too high risk in my opinion.
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Me too I have teenagers and I don't want any Hassel do never meet at home, always in a public place first .. |
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"I don't have guys in my home, ever. Too many risks. Too high risk in my opinion.
Me too I have teenagers and I don't want any Hassel do never meet at home, always in a public place first .."
I don't have kids, but if things go wrong, I don't want people knowing exactly where I live. |
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Don't think I'd be comfortable going straight to someone's house, it would be better to meet up somewhere for a drink first and see how we are both feeling before heading back to theirs or mine and not on the first time meeting each other either. |
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"Wen u invite guys to ur house, do u give them ur address straight away? Or do u tell them to wait somewhere?
I've never given out my address untill I know they are close by, and never had a problem doing it this way, till last nite. "
I never give out my address to anyone |
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"conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there...
I always say public places or would want to chat a lot before considering giving my own address and probably a facetime chat so I can check the person's real...
Also live with a 6ft7 friend who looks scary so he can play the bouncer haha"
Agreed, good to talk lots first as I think this will cut out a lot of nutters and time wasters. Meeting in a public place is also a good idea, good move. Depending how things go, you can then make the right decision.
I'm really surprised there are a lot of untrustworthy people out there, it makes it really difficult for single women but don't be put off as there are some very nice genuine blokes on here. |
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"conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there...
I always say public places or would want to chat a lot before considering giving my own address and probably a facetime chat so I can check the person's real...
Also live with a 6ft7 friend who looks scary so he can play the bouncer haha
Agreed, good to talk lots first as I think this will cut out a lot of nutters and time wasters. Meeting in a public place is also a good idea, good move. Depending how things go, you can then make the right decision.
I'm really surprised there are a lot of untrustworthy people out there, it makes it really difficult for single women but don't be put off as there are some very nice genuine blokes on here. "
Going to a stranger's house to do things you don't want to admit in polite company?
Predator's dream.
Fortunately most of us know this. |
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"conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there...
I always say public places or would want to chat a lot before considering giving my own address and probably a facetime chat so I can check the person's real...
Also live with a 6ft7 friend who looks scary so he can play the bouncer haha
Agreed, good to talk lots first as I think this will cut out a lot of nutters and time wasters. Meeting in a public place is also a good idea, good move. Depending how things go, you can then make the right decision.
I'm really surprised there are a lot of untrustworthy people out there, it makes it really difficult for single women but don't be put off as there are some very nice genuine blokes on here.
Going to a stranger's house to do things you don't want to admit in polite company?
Predator's dream.
Fortunately most of us know this. "
Good point, so is it best to meet at a club so you can get to know the person or does this still attract predator's? |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I've only had one bloke to mine that I didn't know that well, he's a policeman if he got funny with me is be straight to his boss!
That was when I was a naive newbie, I wouldn't do it any more.
What happened last night OP? |
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"conversly.,... as a single bloke, i would never leave the house for a meet unless i knew exactly where i was going.....
that has a "catfish" feel to it otherwise....
I have been given addresses and asked to text when i get there...
I always say public places or would want to chat a lot before considering giving my own address and probably a facetime chat so I can check the person's real...
Also live with a 6ft7 friend who looks scary so he can play the bouncer haha
Agreed, good to talk lots first as I think this will cut out a lot of nutters and time wasters. Meeting in a public place is also a good idea, good move. Depending how things go, you can then make the right decision.
I'm really surprised there are a lot of untrustworthy people out there, it makes it really difficult for single women but don't be put off as there are some very nice genuine blokes on here.
Going to a stranger's house to do things you don't want to admit in polite company?
Predator's dream.
Fortunately most of us know this.
Good point, so is it best to meet at a club so you can get to know the person or does this still attract predator's? "
There's no foolproof way or guarantee. Although clubs, you have witnesses and help nearby, worst case. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, in general, I am doing the rite thing? I rarely get chance to do a social meet first, or obvs I wud. And I talk to the guys loads in various ways b4 I even consider a meet. If anything sounds dodgy with them, I don't meet them. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
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Good point, so is it best to meet at a club so you can get to know the person or does this still attract predator's? "
the two good things i will always ay about meeting people in a club are:
1) its a neutral setting......
2) you get to see what people are actually like in "the wild" (try before you buy!)
some single guys will always feel like you are trapping them by suggesting going into a club and spending money with no guarentee of anything happening.... my arguement would be "are they the type of people you would want to meet anyway?"
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"So, in general, I am doing the rite thing? I rarely get chance to do a social meet first, or obvs I wud. And I talk to the guys loads in various ways b4 I even consider a meet. If anything sounds dodgy with them, I don't meet them. "
in all honestly... there is no right/wrong answer..
you stick to your principles... if the people who want to meet you don't like them, say hi and bye....
don't compromise, your body, your rules.... |
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