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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
I don’t know if this has happened to anybody else....I’ve come back from a swingers’ club near my neighbourhood....I was looking forward to meeting a couple whom I’ve met before. So, I met them. I enjoyed chatting to them. It all soon escalated and they vanished into one of the rooms without me lol
Anyhow, that’s by the by. I went to the hot tub for a bit....this woman who was with her boyfriend started touching me (not sexually) and I kept getting intermittently a raging hardon! But.....for some reason, all along, I wasn’t sure that I wanted to have sex with anybody. Not because I was turned off by people’s looks or anything like that....I just wasn’t sure I wanted sex....I left the club wondering what I have done wrong. I certainly hope I haven’t turned one of my favourite couples off with my nerves...(maybe it was nerves?)
Has anybody felt like that in a similar situation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't been to the club as I'm not interested. But I've met a guy out for a drink, played some pool, was a fun evening. We came back to mine, carried on chatting then he started to kiss me but I didn't feel like kissing him back. Mutual chemistry just wasn't there. I apologised, he was gutted but understood and he went home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because they've played with you before doesn't mean they are obliged to play with you each time you meet up. I can't speak for them but I imagine that you haven't done anything wrong, you just weren't what they were looking for on that particular night. I don't know how you'd ask them without looking offended, needy or entitled though...but they will be the only ones who will be able to tell you |
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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
They didn’t refuse to play with me. That’s not the issue....the issue is more with me. For some reason I wasn’t “feeling” it. Or maybe I was too nervous; but I’ve been to other swingers’ clubs and they were twice as much “in your face” (e.g. German ones). Maybe I should have brought my own alcohol to loosen me up a bit....I honestly don’t know  |
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