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"Can anyone tell me what is soft swap .is that like diving half of a hole .and I'm talking about a hole in the ground "
From what I know and it might not be loads on this subject, it's no full intercourse. So just hand, mouth touching etc x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have done both full and soft. But still enjoy soft swap, not being able to do full swap is by no means a deal breaker for us, like it is for some. All about having fun within peoples boundaries  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We still have soft swap fun with cpls who like soft fun. I don't think so that you have to do a hard swap.
It's fun at the end of the day you are looking for and we don't think that penetration is the ultimate fun. |
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"Are we alien? Are we the only soft swap couple (apart from one couple we’ve already met) on here? Would love to meet other soft swap couples if anymore exist.. "
You are certainly not alone in your preferences/boundaries. There are several threads on the Forum which may help you with your search. Maybe best to add your "definition " of soft swap to your profile? |
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"Soft swap in no intercourse but still oral touching etc etc "
In our case it isn't always oral. I don't like receiving although more than happy to give. In my opinion only its whatever the participants want it to be |
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"What is soft swing? Please forgive my ignorance "
The main feature is no penetration other than that it's agreed between the people participating. Some couples will have full sex with their own partners though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual.
Yes, quite a few guys are. "
It's something I enjoy. There's so much to enjoy without intercourse. |
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Pretty sure there are thousands of soft swap couples on here. Full swap couples should be able to play with soft swap couples too. You have to respect peoples boundaries. Also saves messing about with condoms  |
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"Pretty sure there are thousands of soft swap couples on here. Full swap couples should be able to play with soft swap couples too. You have to respect peoples boundaries. Also saves messing about with condoms "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are happy with either as its still exciting and fun. It's all in the definition of what is deemed soft we've found lots of different interpretations over the last 2 years from people. We never assume now we always have detailed conversations before we swing just so we don't push anyone's boundaries. It's about talking and everyone feeling comfortable also being honest. Male  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual."
No I am fine with a soft swop twosome or even threesome, it's all about the giving for me, sometimes just a sexual hands massage is fun. Male |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're happy to play soft or full swap, as it's been said by others before the most important that everyone should be comfortable in that certain situation then the fun is guaranteed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've done both and found we actually prefer soft swing. We're both bi and for us, it just seems to work better when all participants can play in one big heap rather than pairing off for ultimate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we alien? Are we the only soft swap couple (apart from one couple we’ve already met) on here? Would love to meet other soft swap couples if anymore exist.. "
There are other couples and singles looking for the same thing. Majority are soft swingers. Go at your own pace, and only do what suits you. X |
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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago
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We are soft but have done full on occasions. However we have to be comfortable with the other people. Just had someone chat to us on here, have been on more then a year and did not know what it was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with soft. The sensations from soft touch can be sublime! In my mind it can really help improve sensitivity and feeling. It's why I enjoy giving and receiving erotic massages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love soft swap, some of our most fun meets have been soft swap and always happy to play within those boundaries."
Same for us
Never liked the term “only soft swap” many soft swapmeet has been far more fun than full swap, it’s just a different type of play, with us if it’s mutual, equal and fair play it’s all cool xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.
How is this progression?? "
Actually experienced soft swappers seem to have far more imagination, appreciation of others and desire for mutual pleasure versus some full swappers with little imagination just swapping partners to fulfil a selfish desire, so maybe it is a progression, all of our soft swap meets have left us smiling and saying that was fun, not all our full swap have..... |
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"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.
How is this progression??
Actually experienced soft swappers seem to have far more imagination, appreciation of others and desire for mutual pleasure versus some full swappers with little imagination just swapping partners to fulfil a selfish desire, so maybe it is a progression, all of our soft swap meets have left us smiling and saying that was fun, not all our full swap have....."
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"Are we alien? Are we the only soft swap couple (apart from one couple we’ve already met) on here? Would love to meet other soft swap couples if anymore exist.. "
We’re happy with both soft swap and full swap, it’s getting couples to actually meet is the hard part lol. We’ve given up and just go to clubs now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everyone has to do as they want swinging is not to be like sheep and follow all swinging is about what you want and how you want it ..never feel pressured to do what you don't what or you'll take the fun out for yourselves.
our first couple meets over 20 years ago was soft meets with a fantastic dow to earth couple who put us on the right road they said never listen and do what other want always do what you want and there are no rules in swinging bar one and that's the word no..... no one knows yourseleves better than you do ...don't follow the sheep follow yourselves |
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"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.
How is this progression?? "
I'd forgotten about this thread and my response.
It's a progression along our particular swinging route. Progress as in moving forward to what suits us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.
How is this progression??
Actually experienced soft swappers seem to have far more imagination, appreciation of others and desire for mutual pleasure versus some full swappers with little imagination just swapping partners to fulfil a selfish desire, so maybe it is a progression, all of our soft swap meets have left us smiling and saying that was fun, not all our full swap have....."
^^ This 100% x |
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The thing about swinging is (and I think someone has said this further up) that nobody is better than anyone else because of the way they go about things. The person who meets just to watch other people without even touching is no better or worse than the person who is involved in multiple gang bangs weekly. It's an inclusive sport to my mind |
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"The thing about swinging is (and I think someone has said this further up) that nobody is better than anyone else because of the way they go about things. The person who meets just to watch other people without even touching is no better or worse than the person who is involved in multiple gang bangs weekly. It's an inclusive sport to my mind"
Very true we are all the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many soft swap couples on Fab. There are also many definitions of soft swap. We are always clear on what ours are.
What we have come across unfortunately is couples agreeing to our boundaries then trying to move them during a meet. This has been both the male and female.
Disappointing and disrespectful and we never meet them again.
Neither couple are on our veri’s btw!
Miss V x |
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We would love same room sex with other couples as it would be first time but on here people only want to know if you do swap soft or full we have to start somewhere then it might move on to soft and so on. finding a couple is very difficult ?? |
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"We would love same room sex with other couples as it would be first time but on here people only want to know if you do swap soft or full we have to start somewhere then it might move on to soft and so on. finding a couple is very difficult ??"
Nothing wrong with that it's how we started 2 years ago and we still do the voyeur meet sometimes. It's the variety of meets which stimulate us as much as the variety of respectful people we meet. Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer soft swing, at the very least until we know the people enough to consider them friends.
Then it may change.
But on the whole. Soft swing is our choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're as soft as it gets !!"
What you like is not soft swing at all, it’s voyeurism, this is why confusion reigns, soft swing is swapping partners but no penetration, watching others in the same room is voyeurism x |
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"We're as soft as it gets !!
What you like is not soft swing at all, it’s voyeurism, this is why confusion reigns, soft swing is swapping partners but no penetration, watching others in the same room is voyeurism x "
Voyeurism plus the ladies playing with each other, to be accurate |
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"We're as soft as it gets !!
What you like is not soft swing at all, it’s voyeurism, this is why confusion reigns, soft swing is swapping partners but no penetration, watching others in the same room is voyeurism x
Voyeurism plus the ladies playing with each other, to be accurate "
Still not soft swing, just causes confusion... |
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"We're as soft as it gets !!
What you like is not soft swing at all, it’s voyeurism, this is why confusion reigns, soft swing is swapping partners but no penetration, watching others in the same room is voyeurism x
Voyeurism plus the ladies playing with each other, to be accurate
Still not soft swing, just causes confusion... "
That's why we avoid confusion by making things very clear on our profile. |
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By *erigregCouple
over a year ago
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We have been soft swap for many years. Had loads of fun met lots of lovely people.
Had mind blowing nights/weekends and even
met single guys for 3 some fun that have respected our limits. Been very close to
the limits but overall everybody has had a very erotic experience and believe it or not still in touch with many of the folks we have met.
Full on sex is great with you partner but many erotic experiences can be had on a soft swing basis. |
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