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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hy all,Mrs here,i would like to find out from other couples(married or in a long relation)if any of you (specially F) felt any jealousy on the begining,guilt,pleasure..all combined?(mfmf)
Some couples told us that they jump straight in to it with out looking back,but i dont buy it,that's why i need youre opinion girls  |
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Female half of us felt a little jealousy... Male half not so much...
Different now tho. We both enjoy watching the other and obviously with her being bi she gets other attention... It's actually the females in our opinion who have the power in swinging...
But maybe if your worried about jealousy just take it a step at a time. Theres no need to rush full swap or to rush ahead and jump in with 2 feet... To us it's about the social aspect of everything too and meeting new people. X |
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I was quite worried about feeling jealous but actually in reality it was just super sexy!
We decided it was important that everyone was involved and no one was just watching the other and I think that stopped any feelings of jealousy. |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
Haven't been there yet, but have spent a lot of time thinking about it and I can't say currently that I'd be jealous. I'm the one he married. It's just sex. And what we have is different to him having sex with another women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It does turn me on when im thinking about it,its just that i dont know how i will react and how i will feel after..we had done mmf only and with couples we had just some social meets |
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"It does turn me on when im thinking about it,its just that i dont know how i will react and how i will feel after..we had done mmf only and with couples we had just some social meets"
You will never know for sure until it happens.
The right couple will accept that you may decide it's not for you. |
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It’s perfectly possible to take things very very steadily, and it’s one of the things we think is best about going to clubs, that you (both / either of you) can choose how far you go, maybe without the slight “pressure” of a pre arranged meet, where you might feel a bit more obliged to play. |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
walsall |
"It does turn me on when im thinking about it,its just that i dont know how i will react and how i will feel after..we had done mmf only and with couples we had just some social meets"
Hi this is exactly the position we're in at the moment but I think as long as you keep talking about it and explain any worries you might find that when the right couple comes along you'll know if it's for you both xT  |
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We have been swinging over 10 years and sometimes depending on our moods we do on occasion feel pangs of jealousy
It’s normal and healthy it has never interrupted or stopped us playing at the time it happens but I have to say those times tend to make for the horniest when looking back
We love swinging for the claim back sex and the reminiscing of what we got up to |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"It’s perfectly possible to take things very very steadily, and it’s one of the things we think is best about going to clubs, that you (both / either of you) can choose how far you go, maybe without the slight “pressure” of a pre arranged meet, where you might feel a bit more obliged to play."
Exactly the same for us. We took it steadily, only progressing from soft to full swinging when we both knew we were comfortable with it. Since then we have never looked back and have never felt even a twinge of jealousy. Nevertheless we still have our boundaries and neither of us would think of crossing them. |
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We tend not to feel jealous as we know what turns the other on.
Mr loves watching me with guy's and I love watching him turning on women.
We have a rule that if one of us is not comfortable, they say so and we make our excuses but we treat swinging as a fun thing to do. The most important thing is, we arrive together and leave together. The bit in the middle doesn't spill over. If it did,I think the green eyed jealousy monster would make an appearance.
I have met guys on my own but make sure Mr knows everything about the meet beforehand. This is also for my safety but again, I come back to him. |
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Always found it curious how women within couples have these doubts about their man with another woman if they met another couple but don't seem to have any bother when they are bring a single guy into the fray. |
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Mrs here, neither of us have ever felt an ounce of guilt or jealousy. Quite the opposite in fact, it's a real turn on for both of us to see the other having fun with someone else. That's the point, for us it's just fun, nothing compared to what we have. It may sound soppy but after nearly 26 years of marriage we are happier & more in love now than we've ever been. It's not because we need other sexual partners to be fulfilled or because there's something missing in our relationship but it has helped us communicate much more openly & with complete honesty, not just about swinging but in every aspect of our lives. Honest communication is everything, non of us are mind readers, our partners only know what we're feeling or thinking if we tell them. Talk, talk & then talk some more, only do what you both feel comfortable with & respect each others boundaries. We only share our bodies with others, the important things, love, emotion, commitment etc are exclusively ours. Everyone is different just enjoy whatever you do the way you decide to do it. |
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When we thought about starting a profile I did av some, even though I'm the one who wants to be with a woman the thought got into my head, but now I'm ok. I don't know if it's a pang of jealousy or not knowing how it's going to effect you. And I know when I'm having fun it won't me an issue just be totally straight with each other. Xxx |
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