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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So after a bit of heartbreak and a few weeks of upset and crying I am now single and no longer in a relationship  it's been really hard so far and the loneliness has been unbearable, I am hoping you all may have some advice to help me through this difficult point in my life, anything would be appreciated. Thanks in advance x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cliche, but time does heal x"
Yeah Ive been told to give it time, its just upsetting still especially when the house is empty, I need to try and get my mind off it and keep myself busy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have mentioned, distraction is essential. Hit the squash court. Read some classics. Get out on the town with your friends. Learn to cook. Binge some series on Netflix etc.
Just make sure that you don’t head down the drink/drugs route. It’s a negative distraction technique. |
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By *iyuWoman
over a year ago
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Allow yourself a set amount of time each day to be sad. Wait until said set time. Keep yourself busy gym, cooking and learning all really helped me when my ex fiancé broke up with me.
But seriously just set 15 minutes aside to feel sad. |
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Don't rush into anything just to try and fill the void your feeling right now as you may end up regretting doing it, try keeping busy, do work in the house, go to the gym, bit of overtime at work, see family and friends and most of all talk to people even if you think your like a broken record, they won't mind you talking to them |
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"Get off here and get on Tinder, Bumble or match and start chatting and getting to know some ladies ..
This place is no good for you x"
Have to disagree never met anyone worth knowing on match (that’s £150 I’ll never get back) or tinder, lots of time wasters though. Maybe the guys have more fun on there and fab is better for the ladies  |
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Take time for yourself, do the things that you've not been able to do. Like the guys said plan a holiday with your mates.
Take up sport or boxing something to take your frustration out on. Just don't jump into anything too fast and have a rebound relationship, I've been there trust me.
fresh start new chapter xoxo |
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