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Single males going quiet as soon as you stipulate safe sex
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys and girls
As a couple we have experienced a fair few single males going quiet as soon as you stipulate safe sex for intercourse.
Is this common on Fab?
J & K x |
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I’d rather that than the excuses when the moment arrives or the assumption they can just get away with going without. That has happened frequently despite agreeing previously to only play safe. It doesn’t happen when D and I are out as a couple, as he is my eyes, ears and voice, but if I meet individually it can be a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d rather that than the excuses when the moment arrives or the assumption they can just get away with going without. That has happened frequently despite agreeing previously to only play safe. It doesn’t happen when D and I are out as a couple, as he is my eyes, ears and voice, but if I meet individually it can be a problem. "
Your right much better to know before hand and move along.
That's awful the blokes you meet alone would try it on especially after agreeing safe only beforehand! I'd be tempted to just stop the meet there and then.
Me and my wife only play together and I'm her eyes, ears and voice to as her safety is my ultimate priority.
I wonder if any of the single males who go quite when safe sex is mentioned or are only looking for bareback will post on here with their views. I'm interested in why they do it, does it work for them?
J & K x |
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"Hi guys and girls
As a couple we have experienced a fair few single males going quiet as soon as you stipulate safe sex for intercourse.
Is this common on Fab?
J & K x"
There obviously not worth your time I wouldn't let them bother you |
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I mean I do understand for the majority of guys that sex feels better bareback, and some struggle to maintain an erection once they’ve got a condom on. That’s why I’ve always brought the subject up early on. But as I said previously that hasn’t stopped the chancers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We had a guy who said no he wouldn't use a condom but he was "willing" to pull out if I wanted. I even went as far as saying well I will give you a blowjob instead, he said no I want your p****.
I told him well enjoy your hand then you t*** |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do find this happening we see a guy we would be interested in meeting, and more often than not the whole bareback talk starts, it does state clearly on our profile "safe sex"
For those who are into it whatever fair play,
But its not for us.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys and girls
As a couple we have experienced a fair few single males going quiet as soon as you stipulate safe sex for intercourse.
Is this common on Fab?
J & K x"
I’d go quiet if you DON’T stipulate safe sex.
I think it’s common sense to request that. |
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Whilst bareback is definitely a far better experience than “safe” sex, my view is that it’s always the woman’s choice and certainly with a stranger whose sexual health is a total unknown, I’m not going in unless it’s wrapped up  |
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