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Being Abused for Being Selective
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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago
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"Why is it that some couples feel the need to be abusive, when you politely turn down there meet invite? Apparently we are "too choosey". "
Time and time again...le sigh
Also when they question why you’ve politely declined is not only irritating but also SO awkward |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hiya,
Just don't get why people think that because you are a swinger you should just go with the flow and have sex with whoever asks, regardless of sexual attraction or not. The times my wife has been told that as a "fat bird you meed to be less choosey and be grateful of interest". |
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"Hiya,
Just don't get why people think that because you are a swinger you should just go with the flow and have sex with whoever asks, regardless of sexual attraction or not. The times my wife has been told that as a "fat bird you meed to be less choosey and be grateful of interest". "
This is where we need the throat punch button grrr!
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"Why is it that some couples feel the need to be abusive, when you politely turn down there meet invite? Apparently we are "too choosey".
Time and time again...le sigh
Also when they question why you’ve politely declined is not only irritating but also SO awkward"
We always answer completely and brutally truthfully. If someone asks why not then they obviously want feedback! If you can't take criticism then don't ask the question.... |
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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Hiya,
Just don't get why people think that because you are a swinger you should just go with the flow and have sex with whoever asks, regardless of sexual attraction or not. The times my wife has been told that as a "fat bird you meed to be less choosey and be grateful of interest". "
WTF 
That’s incredibly naive of them!
Body shaming and presuming of standards aren’t something I’ve found too much here but I know it happens.
I hope you have them shit for that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hiya,
Just don't get why people think that because you are a swinger you should just go with the flow and have sex with whoever asks, regardless of sexual attraction or not. The times my wife has been told that as a "fat bird you meed to be less choosey and be grateful of interest". "
That is just a utterly disgusting thing to say because they have been turned town obviously don't understand how swinging works then |
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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Why is it that some couples feel the need to be abusive, when you politely turn down there meet invite? Apparently we are "too choosey".
Time and time again...le sigh
Also when they question why you’ve politely declined is not only irritating but also SO awkward
We always answer completely and brutally truthfully. If someone asks why not then they obviously want feedback! If you can't take criticism then don't ask the question...."
Very true!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hahaha, thankfully being "a fat bird" gives me that attribute of thick skin, and as such, their niave childish comments are inconsequential. A good sense of humour and bubbly personality overpowers their hate every day of the week. Poor little sad sacks. But if i do ever bump into them in a club, i am only to happy to tear them a new arsehole  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hiya,
Just don't get why people think that because you are a swinger you should just go with the flow and have sex with whoever asks, regardless of sexual attraction or not. The times my wife has been told that as a "fat bird you meed to be less choosey and be grateful of interest".
That is just a utterly disgusting thing to say because they have been turned town obviously don't understand how swinging works then "
I just bless them with the pity they deserve. Obviously they have low self esteem and want to give it away to a "fat bird" who has no right to feel sexy, sassy and body confident hahahha |
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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Hahaha, thankfully being "a fat bird" gives me that attribute of thick skin, and as such, their niave childish comments are inconsequential. A good sense of humour and bubbly personality overpowers their hate every day of the week. Poor little sad sacks. But if i do ever bump into them in a club, i am only to happy to tear them a new arsehole "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hiya,
Just don't get why people think that because you are a swinger you should just go with the flow and have sex with whoever asks, regardless of sexual attraction or not. The times my wife has been told that as a "fat bird you meed to be less choosey and be grateful of interest".
That is just a utterly disgusting thing to say because they have been turned town obviously don't understand how swinging works then "
I think tge little sad sacks are too dense to understand anything haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you guys can say yes or no to who ever you like, who ever is rude about it should be banned"
They are not relevant enough to make me react negatively. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though we may not be the most attactive couple on fab, we do choose our meets based on a few factors(attaction chemistry and similar interests mainly) as we dont get a lot of free time and we dont want to waste it on a meet we dont enjoy. I would say do what or who makes you happy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Even though we may not be the most attactive couple on fab, we do choose our meets based on a few factors(attaction chemistry and similar interests mainly) as we dont get a lot of free time and we dont want to waste it on a meet we dont enjoy. I would say do what or who makes you happy. "
Certainly more attractive than most. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Why is it that some couples feel the need to be abusive, when you politely turn down there meet invite? Apparently we are "too choosey". "
Reason we only meet in clubs.
The forums can be sooo misinterpreted and how do you engage (with out misinterpretation) unless you are sensory engaged? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even though we may not be the most attactive couple on fab, we do choose our meets based on a few factors(attaction chemistry and similar interests mainly) as we dont get a lot of free time and we dont want to waste it on a meet we dont enjoy. I would say do what or who makes you happy.
Certainly more attractive than most."
Thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Block them when you've said no.
There's no abusive comebacks then.
It's really simple."
I have passed my Block Button Proficiency Test lol. For this particular gutter rat i decided to not give him the reaction he craved. No block, no report, no returned abuse, just ignored him as an irrelevant species. Im too bubbly and body confident to worry about his hang ups haha. |
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