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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I absolutely love it when you chat to me for days on end, you make arrangements with me, knowing i have kids to sort out with babysitters, then dont bother getting back to me when i mail you to confirm arrangments, or have to ask what you are actually confirming. Keep up the good work lads...for you are truly awesome!!! I could actually be meeting genuine swingers instead, but id much prefer to be left stuck in on a weekend not knowing what im doing. That is all!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I absolutely love it when you chat to me for days on end, you make arrangements with me, knowing i have kids to sort out with babysitters, then dont bother getting back to me when i mail you to confirm arrangments, or have to ask what you are actually confirming. Keep up the good work lads...for you are truly awesome!!! I could actually be meeting genuine swingers instead, but id much prefer to be left stuck in on a weekend not knowing what im doing. That is all! "
ALL the single guys???? Generalising a bit there are we not?? I've been let down buy loads of single ladies but would never class them all as timewasters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps look at how you're selecting potential meets if you find you're getting this a lot.
It's rubbish when someone does that, specially when you've made arrangements for kids etc but got to say I've only ever had it happen once in all my time on the scene so maybe just change your process.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I absolutely love it when you chat to me for days on end, you make arrangements with me, knowing i have kids to sort out with babysitters, then dont bother getting back to me when i mail you to confirm arrangments, or have to ask what you are actually confirming. Keep up the good work lads...for you are truly awesome!!! I could actually be meeting genuine swingers instead, but id much prefer to be left stuck in on a weekend not knowing what im doing. That is all!
ALL the single guys???? Generalising a bit there are we not?? I've been let down buy loads of single ladies but would never class them all as timewasters. "
+1  sweeping generalisations are brilliant aren't they  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps look at how you're selecting potential meets if you find you're getting this a lot.
It's rubbish when someone does that, specially when you've made arrangements for kids etc but got to say I've only ever had it happen once in all my time on the scene so maybe just change your process.
Good luck. "
Im not selecting them, these are people who have messaged me initially...and ok, to be fair, its not ALL single guys...it was a tongue in cheek remark...its just most annoying when a lot of them whinge that they cant get meets!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair does but I didn't mean at the initial stage I mean throughout the process from first message to meet. I can understand your frustration and nice twist in the OP lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps look at how you're selecting potential meets if you find you're getting this a lot.
It's rubbish when someone does that, specially when you've made arrangements for kids etc but got to say I've only ever had it happen once in all my time on the scene so maybe just change your process.
Good luck.
Im not selecting them, these are people who have messaged me initially...and ok, to be fair, its not ALL single guys...it was a tongue in cheek remark...its just most annoying when a lot of them whinge that they cant get meets! "
Well to be fair, it is your selection criteria..... Do you mail back to make arrangements with ALL the chaps who mail you? (by all accounts the ladies here are mailed hundreds of times a week if not day)
If not, then you are 'selecting' people from the list of people who mail you.
We all get let down occasionaly, some more than others, but since I posted a similar thread recently, having had plans changed on me by 3 people in a row, it's only fair to pass on the commentry.
Surely it's not dificult to get yourself a few regular play mates and then invite them over for fun times when you are available? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I choose those who im attracted to and who i have exchanged a series of emails which have held my interest before i arrange a meet or any other form of contact, what else would you suggest? (the rest i respond with a polite no). Its hardly my fault if the guys choose to mess me around now is it, which is what i think you are suggesting. Sometimes even my regular playmates do it, so im always on the lookout for new ones. Its just rude and annoys the hell out of me...but if youre one of the good guys, then you have no reason to worry sweetcheeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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try speaking to people more on the phone, dodge people with no public photos and cannot accomodate, these are often the most unreliable i find.
those who cant take it seriousily to put together decent profile and get decent peopel to verfiy them are usually not the best to rely on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hun,
Yep it happens all the time, make the effort, shower, make-up, hair and NO SHOW -grrrrrr. I block and delete those lazy lying gits.
You are not alone. One week had four meets lined up for four separate days -in the knowledge some would be no shows - well suffice to say - one person actually graced me with their presence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I choose those who im attracted to and who i have exchanged a series of emails which have held my interest before i arrange a meet or any other form of contact, what else would you suggest? (the rest i respond with a polite no). Its hardly my fault if the guys choose to mess me around now is it, which is what i think you are suggesting. Sometimes even my regular playmates do it, so im always on the lookout for new ones. Its just rude and annoys the hell out of me...but if youre one of the good guys, then you have no reason to worry sweetcheeks "
Aww honey...... Nah, I posted a similar thread and got rounded on by a lot of people saying (esentialy) that it was my fault.....I was just sharing the love......
It's true to say, though, that if you speak on the phone to agree you get better results (cos you can hear the uncertainty....)
depending on how far you want to travel, I do accomodate and am always reliable........   |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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You're doing it all wrong! You need to chat for at least 6 months to a year. If they haven't nabbed your pics and deleted their profile by then its on to the next stage. Go through their veris and friendslist and send a message to each one, requesting background info, details of each and every meet, and any quirks to be prepared for. If you haven't been reported as a stalker by then you want to do a social meet. Advise them to bring along two blood samples, two references, and a doctors certificate. Question them closely as to their motives for meeting single women, and definitely check their home arrangements. After that, they should be gagging for it!
Seriously though, there are a large amount of people on here for pics and thrills only. I have no idea why they let the meet process go so far before chickening out but its annoying. The only thing you can do is block and move on. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I absolutely love it when you chat to me for days on end, you make arrangements with me, knowing i have kids to sort out with babysitters, then dont bother getting back to me when i mail you to confirm arrangments, or have to ask what you are actually confirming. Keep up the good work lads...for you are truly awesome!!! I could actually be meeting genuine swingers instead, but id much prefer to be left stuck in on a weekend not knowing what im doing. That is all!
ALL the single guys???? Generalising a bit there are we not?? I've been let down buy loads of single ladies but would never class them all as timewasters.
+1 sweeping generalisations are brilliant aren't they "
+2 It has to be said there are more that wouldn't let you down that do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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like any site where there are pics of naked ladies, fab attracts it's fair number of 'website wankers'
the fact they can cyber chat with the ladies too to a degree exacerbates it.
it is up to the individual to ensure that they don't feed that.
if you refuse to talk sex, the novelty soon wears off, leaving you with the people who want a 'real life' meet and will walk the walk, rather than just talking the talk. |
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It's true to say, though, that if you speak on the phone to agree you get better results (cos you can hear the uncertainty....)"
I rarely speak to people on the phone as I m shy yet have very few problems with people not turning up
And if they do let me down just jump on here and get someone else in lol |
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"I organised a social 35 single guys showed interest usual yeah ill be there .....5 turned up !!
say no more  "
What was the drop out figures for single women and couples, just to put it all in context? |
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"like any site where there are pics of naked ladies, fab attracts it's fair number of 'website wankers'
the fact they can cyber chat with the ladies too to a degree exacerbates it.
it is up to the individual to ensure that they don't feed that.
if you refuse to talk sex, the novelty soon wears off, leaving you with the people who want a 'real life' meet and will walk the walk, rather than just talking the talk."
spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had that last week from a single female. Arranged to meet on a monday halfway through the week before, then never got a reply until the last moment when i got a sarcastic response about the weather. |
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