Something I have always struggled with and find new social situations tough.
Plucked up the courage to go to a club a couple of weeks ago, spent 2 hours sat in my car trying to convince myself to go in before I eventually did. Sad I know. Lol. But then to be told all single men in a club are just fucking pervs by a female half of a couple. Wouldn't mind but was only sat at the bar all night just trying to start a conversation and she just walked up randomly. In all fairness she was arsoled.
My question is who else struggles with being an introvert?
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Nothing wrong with being nervous about going to a club and sorry you had a bad experiance.
Personaly would have gave up after 5 mins sat in car. Too cold lol.
Do not know what club you went too but all we been too are welcoming. Even too single guys.
Get the occasional arsehole or person that full of themselves. Just got ignore them. They just make is laugth and feel better about ourselves
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Try a club with a newbie night. All in the same boat and may find it easier. |
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Good on you for going I suppose......
I'm not an introvert however and wouldn't step foot in a club.
There are though many places,many hobbies,pastimes and pursuits that bring you into social contact with like minded people. |
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Yes I struggle with social situations and good on you I don't think I could go to a club on my own but really want to go to Eureka in the day now the sun is here |
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I'm naturally an introvert but forced myself to get over it.
I struggled with intimacy (never wanted to get close to a woman).
The odd orgy later, I'm fine with everything now.
I'm a single fella, I'm not a pervert.
Shoulders back, chest out and move on buddy. |
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