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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s difficult for single blokes on here so, after my first successful meeting I thought I’d review my Fab activity.
2 messages sent, profiles have disappeared so probably blocked. Never mind.
2 other messages deleted so I’m not for them.
1 message unopened. Single woman probably got 300 in her inbox (so to speak!)
1 message read but no reply. Put them down as a maybe.
Final message resulted in a very nice session.
Have patience, it can happen. Do a reverse search for yourself-my profile didn’t appear for 8 pages so no wonder there’s hardly any views!
Good luck & happy swinging! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s difficult for single blokes on here so, after my first successful meeting I thought I’d review my Fab activity.
2 messages sent, profiles have disappeared so probably blocked. Never mind.
2 other messages deleted so I’m not for them.
1 message unopened. Single woman probably got 300 in her inbox (so to speak!)
1 message read but no reply. Put them down as a maybe.
Final message resulted in a very nice session.
Have patience, it can happen. Do a reverse search for yourself-my profile didn’t appear for 8 pages so no wonder there’s hardly any views!
Good luck & happy swinging!"
On the FAQ we are told that no reply = a no.
Don't lose heart. If you are a gentleman on this site you've already set yourself apart.
Also try going to clubs. It's a great way to show people who you really are. Most people will verify you even if you don't get to play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lot more guys here than couples and girls I suspect...
Likely a sigificant part of it.
Frustrating but... numbers. "
In the days of bumper stickers my gf had a bumper sticker that said "So many males. So few men" (in response to the so many women so little time bumper sticker...)
Got some strange looks when I borrowed her car...
The point is yes there are a lot of guys on here. However the ladies hopelessly out number the the men.
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By *AABMan
over a year ago
Not far |
It's easy to get frustrated and disillusioned as a single male but worse if you take fab too seriously. Sitting on fab all evening is not conducive to good self esteem. There are other simulating things to do in life and so I find it best to limit my time here to when I'm between doing other things. |
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"Lot more guys here than couples and girls I suspect...
Likely a sigificant part of it.
Frustrating but... numbers.
In the days of bumper stickers my gf had a bumper sticker that said "So many males. So few men" (in response to the so many women so little time bumper sticker...)
Got some strange looks when I borrowed her car...
The point is yes there are a lot of guys on here. However the ladies hopelessly out number the the men.
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We are noticing some profound statements on fab recently lol |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Truth of the matter is there *are* a disproportionate number of men compared to women and couples that much is fact and the ratio is around 15:1 - however IF you take out the guys that don't have the right attitude, approach and expectations and those who simply don't "get" the site and never will do, then the numbers are a lot more evenly balanced.
So the question you have to ask yourself is, which group do you want to belong to, and if you're not finding Fab meets your expectations, what are you going to change to improve your experience? |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
Filthy Desires Upon Trent |
If I was a Single Male. I would rather just go and have a wank than bother to compete on here. More chance of getting a Shag on POF or Tinder. As that’s what it is for many on here. Not Swinging. Just a Ball Emptier x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was a Single Male. I would rather just go and have a wank than bother to compete on here. More chance of getting a Shag on POF or Tinder. As that’s what it is for many on here. Not Swinging. Just a Ball Emptier x"
Funny how we all experience fab differently. I just had the most amazing birthday party at a swingers club and was touched by the number of people who took the trouble to travel, buy me cards and presents. More from my swinging life than vanilla life. I have made so many genuine friends on fab it feels weird to have it thought of in such terms.
I guess it's what you make of it. |
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