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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Aww, congratulations lovely!
No, I don't think so. I think of sexuality as fluid on the whole - it might be right now you dont want others or it might be permanently. Things change. I hope you're enjoying each other and the new relationship energy. That stuff is electrifying! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I’m in a new relationship and neither of us want anyone else.
Am I no longer a swinger?  "
I'm in exactly the same situation at the moment, just enjoy it and go with it. If things change in the future then you have that option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're finding your new feet darl. It's a crazy weird feeling and I'm going through it at the moment.
I think about meeting others, but right now it feels all "efforty" and I'm not craving anyone else. There are people I know that I would meet in a party situation but I've no desire at all to meet anyone one on one other than B.
I'm sure I'll get the fire back in my belly but for now I'm happy with him, and happy to meet as a couple providing we've had our time together.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m in a new relationship and neither of us want anyone else.
Am I no longer a swinger? "
Congratulations to you both! Love a happy ending/beginning.
Don't worry about labels, just be happy! 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh and Rach, forget the twats that may slate you behind your back and slag you off for "wanting to control your man" or "not being a proper swinger" they'd soon change their fucking tune if they happened to find "the one". All it shows is they lack the capacity to understand relationships need time and sometimes space to grow, and I salute you for doing what you feel and want to do!
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Congratulations.