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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Today was a good day. A profile I can’t recall seeing before ( not a newbie ). 3 messages sent. An invite. No coffee, no face pics, just a short drive and I was inside her within the hour, riding her. Still hard at the thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's Fab how you would like it not how it should be.
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Yep. If fab was all about being ‘ridden within the hour’ I wouldn’t be on here. There’s fuck sites for that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show)"
Nobody is saying that's wrong.. we are simply pointing out people can use fab as they wish. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show)"
Nobody said its wrong, they just said that's not how fab 'should' be, it's how you want it to be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show)
Nobody said its wrong, they just said that's not how fab 'should' be, it's how you want it to be."
Well excuse me |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show)
Nobody said its wrong, they just said that's not how fab 'should' be, it's how you want it to be.
Well excuse me"
You're excused. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show)
Nobody said its wrong, they just said that's not how fab 'should' be, it's how you want it to be.
Well excuse me
You're excused."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally, I like the build, create anticipation, exploring the space, teasing, flirting, then the suggestion."
Don’t we all. But when the offer comes out the blue, am I really gonna say; no let’s chat for another 2 or 3,weeks, get to know each other
Jeez.... c’mon guys, help us out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, I like the build, create anticipation, exploring the space, teasing, flirting, then the suggestion.
Don’t we all. But when the offer comes out the blue, am I really gonna say; no let’s chat for another 2 or 3,weeks, get to know each other
Jeez.... c’mon guys, help us out lol"
Of course not. Nobody’s saying there’s anything wrong with it! I personally wouldn’t but a lot do. So to me that’s not how fab should be. To you it is.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today was a good day. A profile I can’t recall seeing before ( not a newbie ). 3 messages sent. An invite. No coffee, no face pics, just a short drive and I was inside her within the hour, riding her. Still hard at the thought. "
Great story  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Personally, I like the build, create anticipation, exploring the space, teasing, flirting, then the suggestion.
Don’t we all. But when the offer comes out the blue, am I really gonna say; no let’s chat for another 2 or 3,weeks, get to know each other
Jeez.... c’mon guys, help us out lol"
Hey just how we play.
We love clubs, we play at clubs, which is the other side of the spectrum.
Exploring limits and the sexual space is massive, anticipation fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally, I like the build, create anticipation, exploring the space, teasing, flirting, then the suggestion.
Don’t we all. But when the offer comes out the blue, am I really gonna say; no let’s chat for another 2 or 3,weeks, get to know each other
Jeez.... c’mon guys, help us out lol
Hey just how we play.
We love clubs, we play at clubs, which is the other side of the spectrum.
Exploring limits and the sexual space is massive, anticipation fun."
God yeah... been to some wild clubs in Paris..... like a Roman orgy.... no messin around |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are all different. When I was younger I wanted to fuck anything, now I'm way too to picky to the point I'll be surprised if I meet someone different this year. Just recently hit the stage where I'll just enjoy the amusement and if I just somehow stumble across someone via the forum or something then great but I'm not spending hours seeking.
Fab is different things to different people. Not all men just want a quick one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are all different. When I was younger I wanted to fuck anything, now I'm way too to picky to the point I'll be surprised if I meet someone different this year. Just recently hit the stage where I'll just enjoy the amusement and if I just somehow stumble across someone via the forum or something then great but I'm not spending hours seeking.
Fab is different things to different people. Not all men just want a quick one."
It wasn’t quick lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 good work fella!
Fab can work for all - plenty for those that want a long build up, and as today shows also for those that want to get straight into the action.
In my experience those ladies keen on very instant meets have wanted some sort of financial inducement but if you have been able to find a genuine one on one NSA encounter then all credit to you!
Anyone fancy a knee-trembler in Barry or Cardiff!?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"should" that's a word I bloody hate!....
Meaning of should.... "used to indicate obligation, duty, or correctness, typically when criticizing someone's actions"
PT x |
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I think if you’ve got an opinion to voice about a thread (all are valid on their own way) they should really be shared on here. Everyone has their own idea of what they’d like this site to be for them, who are we to say what’s right or wrong?  |
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Wow.. I think the error of this thread was when you worded it “fab as it should be”.
Far too many men think they can get their dick wet within a week of being on here. In my opinion these people aren’t swingers, they are looking to get laid.
To me swinging is a lifestyle, connecting with people who are on the same wave length as me, building up sexual tension where when we do fuck, it’ll be rampant, hot, filthy, kinky and many hours of pleasure and orgasms!
Only you make what you want of Fab.
Personally I hate the thought of the meet where you fuck and go. I find no appeal to it, not my cup of tea!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I had single figure views - now its almost 3 figures lol - and some nice messages, winks and fabs. Even nutters have a silver lining. Thanks ya wee header xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Glad you had a great time op!
That wouldn’t suit me - but fab would be a very dull place if we all wanted the same thing!
Hope it leads to many repeats for you! "
Tks.... got 2 offers but alas not from
Over here. No such thing as bad publicity lol ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Glad you had a great time op!
That wouldn’t suit me - but fab would be a very dull place if we all wanted the same thing!
Hope it leads to many repeats for you!
Tks.... got 2 offers but alas not from
Over here. No such thing as bad publicity lol !"
I think you'll find there is on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today was a good day. A profile I can’t recall seeing before ( not a newbie ). 3 messages sent. An invite. No coffee, no face pics, just a short drive and I was inside her within the hour, riding her. Still hard at the thought. "
Dangerous more like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's Fab how you would like it not how it should be.
Yep. If fab was all about being ‘ridden within the hour’ I wouldn’t be on here. There’s fuck sites for that.
Where are these sites? "
There are loads of other ones for quick hook ups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow.. I think the error of this thread was when you worded it “fab as it should be”.
Far too many men think they can get their dick wet within a week of being on here. In my opinion these people aren’t swingers, they are looking to get laid.
To me swinging is a lifestyle, connecting with people who are on the same wave length as me, building up sexual tension where when we do fuck, it’ll be rampant, hot, filthy, kinky and many hours of pleasure and orgasms!
Only you make what you want of Fab.
Personally I hate the thought of the meet where you fuck and go. I find no appeal to it, not my cup of tea!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't mind that if the man turned up and he was hot and an amazing fuck.
I would be a bit disappointed if he had no teeth, hadn't bathed for a week, was wearing worn out smelly trainers and just wanted a blow job. |
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"Today was a good day. A profile I can’t recall seeing before ( not a newbie ). 3 messages sent. An invite. No coffee, no face pics, just a short drive and I was inside her within the hour, riding her. Still hard at the thought. "
On your other thread you sent 4 messages to a woman and went to meet her although she was a no show. But still not bad going 2 women message back and both ask to meet you within a few messages. You must be George Clooney or Alan sugar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show)"
Exactly this .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show)"
I wanna see a face at least lovely. No matter if I sit on it or not..... |
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"That's Fab how you would like it not how it should be.
Yep. If fab was all about being ‘ridden within the hour’ I wouldn’t be on here. There’s fuck sites for that.
Where are these sites? "
Under the bed with the bogey man... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Few nasty messages for OP. Not sure why?
I think it's great he got a meet, well done "
Not really, some of us don’t like to be told how things SHOULD be. We all do it our own way. |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
wherever |
Finding people who are looking for the sane sexual things is exactly what fab should be. Understanding that everyone is not going to be into the same things you are is also how it should be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is different for each person. How you initially engage, chats develop and meets.
Whether that takes 6 seconds or 6 months is surely between the 2 or more people connecting.
Surely Fab is just the platform to bring together people with one very similar interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally there isn't one type of ideal Fab meet. Depends on my current mood. Might want to get to know someone socially, might just want to flirt, might want to be dominated, might want to dominate, might want random stranger meet and leave sex, might not even want sex. At the moment would take someone incredible to make my screwed up head want to meet.
Just go with whatever you enjoy. |
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"That's Fab how you would like it not how it should be.
Yep. If fab was all about being ‘ridden within the hour’ I wouldn’t be on here. There’s fuck sites for that.
Where are these sites? "
One called Tinder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are all different. When I was younger I wanted to fuck anything, now I'm way too to picky to the point I'll be surprised if I meet someone different this year. Just recently hit the stage where I'll just enjoy the amusement and if I just somehow stumble across someone via the forum or something then great but I'm not spending hours seeking.
Fab is different things to different people. Not all men just want a quick one."
I'm very much the same. If it happens it happens....might do one day eh . In the meantime its a little entertainment in our busy lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I mean god forbid.... a horny guy and a horny woman wanting no strings sex on a sex site. I mean what the fuck isthe world coming to.
Anyone for 6 months of chat, per chance a coffee? (And then a no show)"
Then you find the flavour isn't to your taste . Then it's I'll try a different coffee shop next time. A years gone by and left a bad taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Few nasty messages for OP. Not sure why?
I think it's great he got a meet, well done
Not really, some of us don’t like to be told how things SHOULD be. We all do it our own way. "
Reading your responses it sounds more like you were telling him how it should be. Dangerous, mine are more fussy, that's not for me, like it predictable without excitement etc etc.
Some like it different and some like to mix it up and by that I mean, one day a spur of the moment meet another day well planned out down to the colour of the knickers she's wearing.
I don't like my meets to be all the same with the predictable, coffee and same conversation and an hr later planning a future play meet. Sometimes one already knows what both want from the start. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"You must have proper worn her out , she hasn’t had time to verify you yet. "
I doubt that she will. Personally I wouldn't fancy being spoken about in such bragging terms.
Discretion goes a long way...
Congratulations OP for finding what you wanted, others will differ in their approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Today was a good day. A profile I can’t recall seeing before ( not a newbie ). 3 messages sent. An invite. No coffee, no face pics, just a short drive and I was inside her within the hour, riding her. Still hard at the thought. "
Thanks for sharing that. I had an excellent day sorting out my sock draw, got it colour coded and everything. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Today was a good day. A profile I can’t recall seeing before ( not a newbie ). 3 messages sent. An invite. No coffee, no face pics, just a short drive and I was inside her within the hour, riding her. Still hard at the thought.
Thanks for sharing that. I had an excellent day sorting out my sock draw, got it colour coded and everything."
Sock drawers as they should be. All men want sock drawers like that. |
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