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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning guys
Missed out on a meet on the weekend as the lady insisted she wanted bareback sex and for me to cum inside...
Not my thing.. never meet the girl before, have no idea who’s she been with before..
Abit concerned of STD
What would you have done? |
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"Morning guys
Missed out on a meet on the weekend as the lady insisted she wanted bareback sex and for me to cum inside...
Not my thing.. never meet the girl before, have no idea who’s she been with before..
Abit concerned of STD
What would you have done?"
You didn't miss out pal.. You did the sensible thing |
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"Morning guys
Missed out on a meet on the weekend as the lady insisted she wanted bareback sex and for me to cum inside...
Not my thing.. never meet the girl before, have no idea who’s she been with before..
Abit concerned of STD
What would you have done?
You didn't miss out pal.. You did the sensible thing"
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"You missed out..you should have shagging her silly..got her pregnant too...
Get her pregnant are you nuts!!"
Love sarcasm!!
Yes totally did the right thing. I’d never go bare back in this world!
If the right partner came by and we were open and honest and we had been playing for some good time I may consider playing bareback.
I do miss the feeling of warm cum filling my pussy! But my health comes first, and would never chance it!!
Don’t feel bad OP, there will be a lot of people backing you up on this one xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You missed out..you should have shagging her silly..got her pregnant too...
Get her pregnant are you nuts!!
Why not? Could be quite a laugh"
 now now. Be nice. It could be true.
It isn't. But it could be.
And there might be young folk out there who genuinely need advice on this. And to those, I say:
Always be sensible kids. Wear a condom. Unless you just think....nah, fuck it. And that's fine too, until it isn't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You missed out..you should have shagging her silly..got her pregnant too...
Get her pregnant are you nuts!!
Why not? Could be quite a laugh"
A laugh, fathering a child with a complete stranger!!!.. fuck me what’s wrong with you people.
I’m all up for abit of fun, but I don’t want to get an STD or have kids with a one night stand.
Yes maybe I missed out and would have to have shagged her rotten but 1night pleasure could potentially lead to a life of misery... but it’s ok as long as I had a laugh.
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"You missed out..you should have shagging her silly..got her pregnant too...
Get her pregnant are you nuts!!
Why not? Could be quite a laugh
A laugh, fathering a child with a complete stranger!!!.. fuck me what’s wrong with you people.
I’m all up for abit of fun, but I don’t want to get an STD or have kids with a one night stand.
Yes maybe I missed out and would have to have shagged her rotten but 1night pleasure could potentially lead to a life of misery... but it’s ok as long as I had a laugh.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"You missed out..you should have shagging her silly..got her pregnant too...
Get her pregnant are you nuts!!
Why not? Could be quite a laugh
A laugh, fathering a child with a complete stranger!!!.. fuck me what’s wrong with you people.
I’m all up for abit of fun, but I don’t want to get an STD or have kids with a one night stand.
Yes maybe I missed out and would have to have shagged her rotten but 1night pleasure could potentially lead to a life of misery... but it’s ok as long as I had a laugh.
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I think you'll find Sappy was being a tad ironic and more than a little bit sarcastic - she's a pussycat really 
You did absolutely the right thing and your reaction to her post shows that you knew that anyway - even if there it could be established beyond doubt beforehand that there was no risk whatsoever of an STI or pregnancy you still did the right thing for you based on your boundaries and level of comfort |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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I recently arrange a meet, with a female off fab. She said 'no protection'. Later she told me she had chlamydia and gets a kick out of giving a fella an sti. Glad i turned her down. Be careful fabbers..... |
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"Always a major red light when a couple/potential partner is willing to go bareback with someone they’ve never met before..."
There are probably far more people than you might think who'll play bareback with a stranger...
....for some, it's a major turn-on - it's always a 'green light' for me...
....we all have the right to choose what we do, and with who... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the men saying yeah walk away. But if she was a stunning sex pot. Would you..Poeple only say what they think they want others to hear..especially on here..in case it stops them getting a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the men saying yeah walk away. But if she was a stunning sex pot. Would you..Poeple only say what they think they want others to hear..especially on here..in case it stops them getting a shag."
#people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a message a while back from a couple where the woman wanted to have bb because she likes the idea of the danger of getting pregnant 
I had to tell her I have had the snip so no chance of that happening 
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"Always a major red light when a couple/potential partner is willing to go bareback with someone they’ve never met before...
There are probably far more people than you might think who'll play bareback with a stranger...
....for some, it's a major turn-on - it's always a 'green light' for me...
....we all have the right to choose what we do, and with who... "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"All the men saying yeah walk away. But if she was a stunning sex pot. Would you..Poeple only say what they think they want others to hear..especially on here..in case it stops them getting a shag."
Personally speaking yes I would walk away and really don't see how someone looks comes into it - the risks of STIs and unwanted pregnancies are no less just because someone is a "stunning sex pot" in the eye of the beholder.
Each to their own and I would never criticise someone who wanted to play that way so long as they were aware of, and accepted, the risks but it wouldn't be for me unless it was a longstanding partner who I knew well and trusted, and even then it may well depend on a number of other factors. |
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You did right thing, at the end of the day its your body that would be at risks.
She is the wrong for insisting on going bareback, so as you ask to have safe sex she should had just gone with that. It means she had no respect for you right to choose.
Don't feel bad. |
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"All the men saying yeah walk away. But if she was a stunning sex pot. Would you..Poeple only say what they think they want others to hear..especially on here..in case it stops them getting a shag."
got to admit i think your right!  |
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"Morning guys
Missed out on a meet on the weekend as the lady insisted she wanted bareback sex and for me to cum inside...
Not my thing.. never meet the girl before, have no idea who’s she been with before..
Abit concerned of STD
What would you have done?"
Ask for updated std certificate get yours, and away you go. Condoms are not 100% safe, if you think they are think again. How many guys have put them on the wrong way, flipped em over with penis residue on, then gone inside. Doctors scrub up before they glove up.
Keep clean, keep checked, if you see something for the love of god say something. Always remember.... the green cross code, Tufty.
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"You did right thing, at the end of the day its your body that would be at risks.
She is the wrong for insisting on going bareback, so as you ask to have safe sex she should had just gone with that. It means she had no respect for you right to choose.
Don't feel bad."
That's bollocks. She had the right to choose to fuck how she wants, as did he. Neither is wrong or right, just personal choices. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"U lot make me laugh ...if u meet a new girl/boyfriend ..how long do u go before bb....Not long I guess ...or do u march her down to the clapp clinic for testing "
There's a world of difference between someone you're entering a usually monogomous relationship with though, someone you have potentially got a fair idea of their relationship history etc and someone you are meeting for casual NSA sex who may have multiple partners.
Ultimately though it comes down to making an individual judgement regardless of the circumstance - as I, and others have said, so long as people are aware of the risks and accept them, neither way is right or wrong necessarily, although the risks with one of those ways would far outweigh those with the other (which itself isn't completely risk free). |
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"Morning guys
Missed out on a meet on the weekend as the lady insisted she wanted bareback sex and for me to cum inside...
Not my thing.. never meet the girl before, have no idea who’s she been with before..
Abit concerned of STD
What would you have done?"
You can get medical treatment for a STI in weeks maintenance for a child could last 18years. You did the right thing to avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the men saying yeah walk away. But if she was a stunning sex pot. Would you..Poeple only say what they think they want others to hear..especially on here..in case it stops them getting a shag.
got to admit i think your right! "
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By *halMan
over a year ago
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"All the men saying yeah walk away. But if she was a stunning sex pot. Would you..Poeple only say what they think they want others to hear..especially on here..in case it stops them getting a shag."
ain’t that the truth most on here just play to the crowd..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the men saying yeah walk away. But if she was a stunning sex pot. Would you..Poeple only say what they think they want others to hear..especially on here..in case it stops them getting a shag.
ain’t that the truth most on here just play to the crowd....."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning guys
Missed out on a meet on the weekend as the lady insisted she wanted bareback sex and for me to cum inside...
Not my thing.. never meet the girl before, have no idea who’s she been with before..
Abit concerned of STD
What would you have done?"
The same as you OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"U lot make me laugh ...if u meet a new girl/boyfriend ..how long do u go before bb....Not long I guess ...or do u march her down to the clapp clinic for testing "
Isn't this the normal thing to do, if you are going to go bareback with a new partner? Both get tested? |
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"Morning guys
Missed out on a meet on the weekend as the lady insisted she wanted bareback sex and for me to cum inside...
Not my thing.. never meet the girl before, have no idea who’s she been with before..
Abit concerned of STD
What would you have done?"
Same as you! You didn’t miss out! |
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