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over a year ago
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Just wondered if there’s such thing as Fab etiquette. I’m also part of a couple and a single lady messaged, has been speaking and messaging all directed at my partner, flirting and sending pics dispite him reminding her he’s part of a couple she’s ignored that, she’s no interest in me it’s aimed about playing with him. Previously as a single I wouldn’t of dreamt of doing that! What’s everyone’s thoughts... |
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"Just wondered if there’s such thing as Fab etiquette. I’m also part of a couple and a single lady messaged, has been speaking and messaging all directed at my partner, flirting and sending pics dispite him reminding her he’s part of a couple she’s ignored that, she’s no interest in me it’s aimed about playing with him. Previously as a single I wouldn’t of dreamt of doing that! What’s everyone’s thoughts..."
People are people and will conduct themselves as they see appropriate. That doesn't mean you have to tolerate it though.
If someone is messaging you in a way you're not comfortable with, make use of the block button and move on. |
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A lot of people put in their profiles that they evict to be spoken to as a couple. It’s ofren aimed at men but principle is exactly the same. I’d bin her off personally. She smacks of the type of person who tries to be ‘better’ than a person’s partner - hoping to be wanted more. |
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You make your own rules, it you only olay as a couple then thats your rule. If you want your partner to play alone then again thats your rule and if you explain that to people or put it in your profile what your looking for then people should respect that. People wanting to play outside your rules should be told politely that you dont play alone  |
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"Just wondered if there’s such thing as Fab etiquette. I’m also part of a couple and a single lady messaged, has been speaking and messaging all directed at my partner, flirting and sending pics dispite him reminding her he’s part of a couple she’s ignored that, she’s no interest in me it’s aimed about playing with him. Previously as a single I wouldn’t of dreamt of doing that! What’s everyone’s thoughts..."
There is I feel a fab etiquette and she is most def taking the piss !
Men get a bad name on here but single fems are sometimes worse as the ‘power’ goes to their head
Perhaps a polite message from you would put her in her place
If you are talking to a couple you talk to both of them |
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over a year ago
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It would raise a red flag for us. We have encountered this on a number of occasions. It’s totally disrespectful. If they are like that now imagine what it would be like if you met? 
We call them the ‘dividers’ Avoid like the plague, they are just trouble.
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over a year ago
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I just think, like anywhere else, good manners should prevail. I doubt she would do that in a social situation anymore than either of you would tolerate it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile should really be a couples one - have to admit we don't understand why so many couples advertise as single fems, when they have no intention of playing as a single fem - smacks of no success as a couples profile personally. |
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"Your profile should really be a couples one - have to admit we don't understand why so many couples advertise as single fems, when they have no intention of playing as a single fem - smacks of no success as a couples profile personally."
They have one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondered if there’s such thing as Fab etiquette. I’m also part of a couple and a single lady messaged, has been speaking and messaging all directed at my partner, flirting and sending pics dispite him reminding her he’s part of a couple she’s ignored that, she’s no interest in me it’s aimed about playing with him. Previously as a single I wouldn’t of dreamt of doing that! What’s everyone’s thoughts...
There is I feel a fab etiquette and she is most def taking the piss !
Men get a bad name on here but single fems are sometimes worse as the ‘power’ goes to their head
Perhaps a polite message from you would put her in her place
If you are talking to a couple you talk to both of them "
Definitely this.
It's disrespectful imo.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is I feel a fab etiquette and she is most def taking the piss !
Men get a bad name on here but single fems are sometimes worse as the ‘power’ goes to their head
Perhaps a polite message from you would put her in her place
If you are talking to a couple you talk to both of them "
Yes overstepping the mark.
As a now swingle fem this is why I dont message couples, I'm not bi and have nobody to swap the hubby for. You clearly aren't happy with her behaviour, I'd block and delete. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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That’s a straight ignore from us. We come as a pair so it’s both or nothing.
We get that sometimes one half of the couple is more active with the Fabmin side, but if they can’t both get involved with at least some messaging/contact then we often don’t pursue.
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