"Just wondered what people’s thoughts are on this?
I would consider myself pansexual.
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YOU can imagine we've done a lot of thinking about pan versus queer versus bi - I'm queer, but I wonder why you didn't include that as an option
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"Whats the difference?
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Yes I consider myself pansexual, in that gender is irrelevant to me fancying a person. I see the person before their gender in a sense. However I am attracted to more cis women than any other gender and haven’t had a romantic relationship with anyone other than a cis-woman. This is probably due to conditioning, circumstances and living for most of my life in ignorance or denial of my sexuality. |
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this really pisses me off.
People are obsessed with labels. You are you, all you need to worry about is being who you want to be with. It’s no one else’s business. Go live your life and enjoy it |
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There are just too many labels nowadays it's ridiculous, just see who you are attracted to, there's no need to label everything. Maybe I'm too old now but I remember when if you were gay it meant you were happy. |
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over a year ago
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Pan with a demi focus. I agree that I am not a big fan of labels however I do think they can be useful on sites like these where other people are quickly trying to work out if you are possibly compatible before chatting in more detail to confirm that |
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"Pan with a demi focus. I agree that I am not a big fan of labels however I do think they can be useful on sites like these where other people are quickly trying to work out if you are possibly compatible before chatting in more detail to confirm that"
Yep I am usually in the labels are for jam category but I like to be clear about what I like. Basically if I fancy someone then it really doesn’t matter what gender they are, but I won’t try it on with anyone who says they are straight. The difficulty comes with those who say that they are straight and aren’t. While I understand why they are doing that, I avoid meeting them. |
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"this really pisses me off.
People are obsessed with labels. You are you, all you need to worry about is being who you want to be with. It’s no one else’s business. Go live your life and enjoy it"
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"this really pisses me off.
People are obsessed with labels. You are you, all you need to worry about is being who you want to be with. It’s no one else’s business. Go live your life and enjoy it"
Define obsessed. Knowing how you describe yourself to others is hardly an obsession. |
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Pansexual is just bi. Because when you are bi gender doesn't matter to you imo. That also covers tv/s.
Pansexual became a new thing because if someone wanted to love a plant or a flower or an animal or an alien then that wouldn't be covered by "bi". So if you are never going to love a plant or an animal or an alien then you are bi. |
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"Pansexual is just bi. Because when you are bi gender doesn't matter to you imo. That also covers tv/s.
Pansexual became a new thing because if someone wanted to love a plant or a flower or an animal or an alien then that wouldn't be covered by "bi". So if you are never going to love a plant or an animal or an alien then you are bi. "
Tha ks for that because even tho I googled it I was still confused |
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