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What got you Into swinging?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And joining fabs ?
Cpls , singles open to all , why did it interest you , was it one partner , a previous partner and what are you looking for on fabs 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mate told me her ex husband out then on as a couple
I didn’t know what the site was so joined to have a peek, been addicted since and had three accs, when I deleted I’ve always missed it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Morning! I am a voyuer and exhibitionist so fab is the perfect site to practice this. Love meeting and chatting to like minded people. Love lots of teasy sexy fun and enjoy being naked a lot around others. Also, very high sex drive x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife wanted to try fmf (no complaints from me!). Booked an escort a couple of times. Realised it would be a turn on to involve a man too in a mfmf. Thats our next milestone lol! We only do this because we trust each other 100% & are very much in love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in a customers house they where being very forward ended up seducing me and telling me about s/h years ago and since then I have had the horn and Normal dating just don’t do it for me now
In a way I have had the best times but wish I wasn’t single just can’t find a lass that would want the 100% me and maybe another lass
But that’s me |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Spoke about it vaguely for fifteen years prior but Mrs wasn't too sure I meant it. Was browsing the internet and stumbled across this place so told Mrs N about it that night, a long conversation and we joined up. I (he) had cold feet for about five weeks and all sorts were going through the mind, also I wanted it to be the perfect meet 'if' we were to do it. Mrs said if we're going to do it we should just do it, no more dithering or leave it alone. The rest is history, five years on and dip our toes in to suit. |
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"Wow 20 years
That worries me when I meet someone how will I give this up "
I (Mr) have been doing this (on and off) both as a single guy and a couple for over 30 years.
My first visit to a swinger club was in 1987 (Adam & Eve Eccles)
Now on my third (and last) swinging partner and we have been doing this together for over 10 years now.
Yes my friend, it is VERY difficult to give up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had always liked the idea when first heard about it years ago, then got divorved and the fact it is now much easier on web to sort, was a no brainer, had a good year when joined first time around in 2011. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hubby did. He has always had his cuck fetish, but for years I thought he was joking. Then after much conversation and reassuring we tried it. We joined La Chambre and had a great time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Came to fab at the end of a failing marriage thinking it would be the solution to many problems. Obviously it wasn't, although meets with a couple of wonderful people did give me enough hope for the future when I was close to giving up. Avoided meets oveast 12 months but just about at rock bottom again so maybe it's time to get out and about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd two lovely Vanilla relationships and then one Trainwreck , followed by 10yrs of single parenthood with little or no sex . Back in the game now and not having a regular partner brought me here . Not easy to meet people "offline " these days ,but some lovely ladies on here lol |
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I had my first MmF when I was 18 (I really should write the story but my writing mojo is only fleetingly present), and spent lots of the subsequent years looking for ways to re-capture those experiences. Swinging ticks one of those boxes and clubs were a way of finding swingers.
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Uploaded a photo to a website, banners kept popping up about dogging, so went and investigated the dogging scene. Some dogging friends told me about fabswingers and swingers club's and 20+year's later I'm still here... God I feel old  |
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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
Been poly since I was 19, so swinging has always just been part of my life in whatever form. Swinging was more word of mouth previous to 10 years ago for me.
Found fab I think from someone on another site, but it was 7+ years ago so I honestly can’t remember ha!
Syd found fab last year googling for something random which hilariously wasn’t sex or swinging related! He joined as a single guy not long out of his marriage and then BOOM met me (Nancy)!
Neither of us were looking to “date” but love is love and we both got struck.
I had the conversation about me being poly from day one so for him swinging as a couple just made sense especially as he wanted to *ahem* explore with lots of different women it was a perfect match.
Nancy (&Syd) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been poly since I was 19, so swinging has always just been part of my life in whatever form. Swinging was more word of mouth previous to 10 years ago for me.
Found fab I think from someone on another site, but it was 7+ years ago so I honestly can’t remember ha!
Syd found fab last year googling for something random which hilariously wasn’t sex or swinging related! He joined as a single guy not long out of his marriage and then BOOM met me (Nancy)!
Neither of us were looking to “date” but love is love and we both got struck.
I had the conversation about me being poly from day one so for him swinging as a couple just made sense especially as he wanted to *ahem* explore with lots of different women it was a perfect match.
Nancy (&Syd)"
Brilliant guys |
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We'd both found it impossible to be monogamous with our exes, so we accepted 'being faithful' wasn't going to work in our relationship and we started swinging as a couple quite soon after we'd met. It has worked well, meets our needs for variety without deceit and stress.
Think if a lot of couples agreed to swing, it would save many relationships. |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
Talking of feeling old!
Been in the lifestyle for over 25 years, accidentally fell into same and strangely never left.
My journey started by accidentally stumbling across dogging over 25 years ago. In those I used to enjoy smoking the odd doobey and one night I pulled into a quiet remote car park to roll one. To perfect my roll up and see what I was doing I had to put the interior light on. All done, light off, spark up, look to the side and there is a car a little distance away, in fact the only other car in the car park and I could see they now had their interior light on and sat in the front passenger seat was a fine looking lady staring straight ahead with no top and and boobs on display! I glanced across only to see who I know know to be her hubby lean forward past her look directly at me and smile before turning the light off.
Well the intrigue got the very better of me and I got out to explore.
The rest does not need explaining in terms of the fun had with this very horny lady with the full encouragement of her husband.
Well, this was the start of my journey, this couple educated me from there on in. I was in my early 20’s and went onto meet an abundance of couples while dogging as this was very much the days before the net and mobiles etc. I through this network was invited to parties and home play with the couples I met many of whom were into the cuckold and exhibitionism scene. I was also then a regular subscriber of the contact mags, remember them? Lol. Grainy photos, abbreviations galore to limited text and Polaroids being sent to a PO Box all before the debauchery would begin.
Oh happy days.
Anyhow, nothing has really changed other than the scene or lifestyle being more open and accessible but in those days when you were in, you were in and far less dreamers and time wasters.
Through natural progression been on Fab over 10 years and many of the other swing sites before that which have disappeared by the wayside.
Would I change anything? No.
Have I an abundance of stories to tell? Hell yes!
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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"We'd both found it impossible to be monogamous with our exes, so we accepted 'being faithful' wasn't going to work in our relationship and we started swinging as a couple quite soon after we'd met. It has worked well, meets our needs for variety without deceit and stress.
Think if a lot of couples agreed to swing, it would save many relationships. "
That’s a really great way to find swinging and I completely agree 
Nancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined because I love sex and the have had bad experiences with relationships (I get bored)
I am also a little shy so tend to find meeting people with like minded interests hard in ‘real’ /everyday life
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By *hornleeMan
over a year ago
Stockton on Tees |
Always had a fantasy about a 3sum and when I was serving in Bovington got speaking to a couple and walla. The misses at the same time unknown to me/us was banging a pig, got talking fantasy in bed and she told me was seeing other men anf through the years when she wants she will see other men.I love her having sex with others however she dosent like me so its a little difficult for me. |
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A combination of long running dirty talk and a growing love of exhibitionism in front of tall hotel windows pushed us to check out a nude beach. There were clubs near the nude beach so we talked about that and thought it would be a safe way to see and be seen, and researching them brought us to fab. Hours of conversations later and we started to dabble a lot more, step by step. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And joining fabs ?
Cpls , singles open to all , why did it interest you , was it one partner , a previous partner and what are you looking for on fabs
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D*unk chat and the fact that after 10 years we totally trust each other to branch out every nowand than lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being greedy.
But technically meeting a new partner very soon after separating from my husband and not feeling quite ready to settle down and it evolving from there. The fact that my partner loves to indulge me sexually and wants me/us to have amazing experiences helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a male friend who wanted to go to a club, but was too scared to go on his own. So my bf got left at home, and I went with my friend. A few weeks later, we split up, and I started going as a single woman, and had the best times there. Ended up hosting parties myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a traditional swinging couple as cuckquean, so she's not looking for blokes... She is Bi and a voyeur though, and it was her finding a sex tape of me with an ex that she watched over and over. Since then she's wanted more and more for me to be with other women! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lady and her husband who invited me over to theirs maaaaany years ago. When I turned up everything was so relaxed and cool it really put me at ease and I realised it was something I wanted to explore more.
Wish we’d stayed in touch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow 20 years
That worries me when I meet someone how will I give this up
it might be someone on here, so you can carry on together "
I met my GF on here but she doesn’t want to continue swinging together lol |
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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago
nottingham |
I joined as couple but we split up soon after and never used site. Therefore single out of long term relationship so want to try new things ie this site..never met as a lot of fakes on here and in no rush Looking for someone to have fun times with who has GOSH a must Couple things I have fantasy of and they may never happen But being honest Role play . Watch couple or maybe try 3 some. May try quest in leeds as curious. Only thing I tried so far was nudist abroad loved it
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Was very open with my wife to be (at the time) about my sexuality right from the start. Lots of dirty talk during sex then told her about a video I’d seen if a husband filming his wife guck a guy in a hotel room. Took off from there. Don’t get to play as much as we’d like but plays a massive & healthy part of our lives. |
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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago
nottingham |
"Was very open with my wife to be (at the time) about my sexuality right from the start. Lots of dirty talk during sex then told her about a video I’d seen if a husband filming his wife guck a guy in a hotel room. Took off from there. Don’t get to play as much as we’d like but plays a massive & healthy part of our lives. "
nice x
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"Was very open with my wife to be (at the time) about my sexuality right from the start. Lots of dirty talk during sex then told her about a video I’d seen if a husband filming his wife guck a guy in a hotel room. Took off from there. Don’t get to play as much as we’d like but plays a massive & healthy part of our lives. "
Good work and straight to the point. Seems have worked wonders. |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"Opening a doorway to a new chapter in
My life "
It is hard to ever close that door however as the new alternative becomes the norm and the crave. Enjoy the boundaries being explored and pushed to new limits. |
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I've always enjoyed sex and if a lady has liked an activity that I've not tried before, i was keen to try it.
I heard about the site a few years ago and created my profile but didn't really do anything. I discovered my local club last year when I drove past and saw the sign that gave no clue what the building was. I googled it and discovered it was a swingers club. I went along and became a member.
Not met anyone through the site yet, only at the club. Looking forward to playing with a lady or couple. |
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We just fancied trying a mfm together, as I'd never done it before. We tried a couple of sites and then found this one.
I wouldn't class what we did as swinging, just dipped our toes in a little.
Katie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shameless bump  "
Lol.
I hadn’t had sex in ten years. I hadn’t looked at my vagina since childbirth and genuinely was concerned that I wasn’t going to have sex again before I died. People on dating sites were boring, Tinder matched me with psycho killer lorry drivers, so I thought I’d try this. |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"Shameless bump
Lol.
I hadn’t had sex in ten years. I hadn’t looked at my vagina since childbirth and genuinely was concerned that I wasn’t going to have sex again before I died. People on dating sites were boring, Tinder matched me with psycho killer lorry drivers, so I thought I’d try this."
Wow, you found the whole collection in one place, lol, well done. Mecca. |
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In a sexless marriage but 'picked up' by a swinging couple whilst learning to ski (on holiday, on my own) - eating in the hotel restaurant on my own they kindly invited me to join them - then one evening wifey left us for an early night and after another drink hubby invited me to go and tuck her in - she would be expecting me... the 'swinging lifestyle' was quite a revelation... |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"In a sexless marriage but 'picked up' by a swinging couple whilst learning to ski (on holiday, on my own) - eating in the hotel restaurant on my own they kindly invited me to join them - then one evening wifey left us for an early night and after another drink hubby invited me to go and tuck her in - she would be expecting me... the 'swinging lifestyle' was quite a revelation..."
In which one never looks back. |
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By *w.markMan
over a year ago
north west town |
Just the way I am wired. Been part of my mind set always even though for a long time suppressed by social conditioning,educational environment,family upbringing, etc and now more than ever able to express this with changes in social views |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 22 at the time (2003), dating wasn't going great and had a thing for older ladies so read about swinging, joined a site that is no longer around and met a couple in their mid 40s. Was nervous as hell and having another guy there gave me more anxiety as usualy but they were really nice, took it slow and we had several great meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 18, and picking up guys/girls at clubs and bars until a friend (fwb) told me about fab, convinced I'd love it and that it'd be a safer way for me to meet people.
I joined. He was right! 12 years later, I'm still here and have definitely had some FABulous times  |
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My ex partner and I watched "the bunny ranch". Chatting about it I googled sex clubs. There was one in Bournemouth that Sat. So we went. My first swing that night is now my current partner.
Thar was many many many plus a few more years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife and I talked about my fantasy of her with a another guy she fancied a work mate of mine so we asked him out for a drink and met him on a regular basis there after then found this and other sites. |
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I use to cam on AWC.com and a couple from the NE liked what they saw, so they asked me to join them. I wondered why would someone want me to join them. They said for a mfm. I agreed, nervous and excited. I went to theirs a few days later and started my swinging lifestyle. They informed me about FAB, I signed up and here I am. Love the people and the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always enjoyed sex and saw wife-swapping (pre-internet days) as a normal extension of any relationship. Sharing is caring and all that.... and as someone conscious about their body image and always being self-critical I've found that being naked around other people in various states of undress, arousal or activity very liberating both mentally and physically. Oh, and bloody good fun
The big first step was trawling around internet sites such as swing 2 us, blackpool fun house and the like before striking gold here. After a few months I had a meet with a wonderful couple and since then, no looking back. |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"My wife and I talked about my fantasy of her with a another guy she fancied a work mate of mine so we asked him out for a drink and met him on a regular basis there after then found this and other sites."
Having a peruse over your profile I can see why hubby’s work mate jumped at the chance. Seriously hot. Love an anklet too, you wear it well. |
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By *offee27Man
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
An ex gf about 12 years ago wanted to try mmf so we went out on a Saturday night and I challenged her to find someone to take home. Found it such a turn on it became more regular and even set her some naughty challenges |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Experimenting growing up me and a few friends got d*unk at about 17. Ended up in bed with my best mate and a mutual female friend. Before I know it she is kissing us both... the rest is history.
From then on I knew I wanted it to be part of my life. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
a couple i knew/know, went back to their home one night after the pub and after a short while i went to use the toilet and when i came down she was facing me bent over being fucked and they both invited me join them... i did then afterwards they told me about the site and its gone from there really |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"a couple i knew/know, went back to their home one night after the pub and after a short while i went to use the toilet and when i came down she was facing me bent over being fucked and they both invited me join them... i did then afterwards they told me about the site and its gone from there really "
Nice one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was a single female on here 10 years or more a go.
I love sex and wanted to be around people that wouldn’t judge me for wanting it from women and men.
I went to a social in my local town Newcastle and the rest is history...
Then met mr P on a BDSM site and he happily joined in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve always led a kinky sex life, and we were watching a Netflix documentary called Real Life Wife Swap in which they had Liberty Elite and the Radlett Parties on.....the wife turned to me and said would I be keen on doing that - next thing we know we had a Fab profile and were chucking ourselves into the club scene.
It’s completely enhanced our own sex lives. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
Sex life wasn't there. Wasn't looking for a relationship (at that time) and felt using Fab was more honest than using POF etc and a good way to get to try new things. Plus I liked the anonymity.
Four years later I'm still here and still not a swinger |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"We’ve always led a kinky sex life, and we were watching a Netflix documentary called Real Life Wife Swap in which they had Liberty Elite and the Radlett Parties on.....the wife turned to me and said would I be keen on doing that - next thing we know we had a Fab profile and were chucking ourselves into the club scene
It’s completely enhanced our own sex lives."
And what a profile it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wanted to see my hubby with another woman, he didnt believe i was serious..He said that he would believe me if i went first, i can honestly say i had not thought about going with another man until that point...but we did and havent looked back since.. |
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"Dirty talk during sex turned into a fantasy became a reality, now we dip our toes in this pleasure when the urge takes us"
This , then escorts and lap dancing clubs
Moved onto guys too lol
And it’s all been such a journey x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex girlfriend was a swinger she loved fucking other guys while I watched. We introduced a couple one time and we had amazing fun together. We ended up splitting up and I’ve just carried it on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was 18 I used to go in plenty of adult chat rooms, and found one about wife sharing. Got chatting to a few people and realised I loved the idea of having sex with other guys partners. It kind of snowballed from there to joining swingers sites and going to clubs/parties. Tried to give it up but it’s too much fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friends wife came on to me one day while my friend was away, I freaked out and then she explained that he likes her sleeping with other guys.
That sex was the best sex I've ever had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messing about in online chatrooms 20 years ago, there were some Adult rooms on Altavista that started the exploration off."
This thread has revived my interest in those...just logged back on |
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"Being nosey after I was newly single and chatting on a dating app Same here. Was chatting to someone and she told me she was a swinger and on fab."
Snap ! I couldn’t resist seeing what it was all about - the rest as they say is history |
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"Being nosey after I was newly single and chatting on a dating app Same here. Was chatting to someone and she told me she was a swinger and on fab.
Snap ! I couldn’t resist seeing what it was all about - the rest as they say is history "
I'm still here and enjoying it |
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"We’ve always led a kinky sex life, and we were watching a Netflix documentary called Real Life Wife Swap in which they had Liberty Elite and the Radlett Parties on.....the wife turned to me and said would I be keen on doing that - next thing we know we had a Fab profile and were chucking ourselves into the club scene.
It’s completely enhanced our own sex lives."
Your very lucky your both on same wave length!
Love to hear about first club visit what happened?  |
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"When I was 18 I used to go in plenty of adult chat rooms, and found one about wife sharing. Got chatting to a few people and realised I loved the idea of having sex with other guys partners. It kind of snowballed from there to joining swingers sites and going to clubs/parties. Tried to give it up but it’s too much fun!"
Why would you wanna give it up if it’s fun |
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It just seemed incredibly erotic and that was very enticing. I also liked the idea of group sex and being naked, one day i visited a spa and things were going on i was able to join in. Mind blown because reality is sometimes far better then imagination. I enjoy it now as a treat but not a weekly event so to speak. I really would just like a partner i can do every day normal things with and indulge in this lifestyle with also, as an added element to the relationship. I'm more waiting for that now, it's out there but it's like the so called unicorn! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was 18 I used to go in plenty of adult chat rooms, and found one about wife sharing. Got chatting to a few people and realised I loved the idea of having sex with other guys partners. It kind of snowballed from there to joining swingers sites and going to clubs/parties. Tried to give it up but it’s too much fun!
Why would you wanna give it up if it’s fun "
Good point! |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"When I was 18 I used to go in plenty of adult chat rooms, and found one about wife sharing. Got chatting to a few people and realised I loved the idea of having sex with other guys partners. It kind of snowballed from there to joining swingers sites and going to clubs/parties. Tried to give it up but it’s too much fun!
Why would you wanna give it up if it’s fun
Good point!"
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For me it started in the late 1960's when I was a teenager. My office manager ran wife-swapping parties, I mentioned this to my girlfriend and she said she'd love to go. So I mentioned this to my manager, he invited us and we had a whale of a time. A few years later, still single, I started using the old contact mags - lots of writing and spending a fortune on stamped self-addressed envelopes - but I still met some nice women. Many years later, single again, and I discovered club listings on the internet - although my first proper club experiences were in Amsterdam and Paris - absolutely mind-blowing and totally what I was looking for. While I'm still very interested, I'm such an old fart now that nobody wants to meet me! - ah well, c'est la vie - and I've some wonderful memories! |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
"For me it started in the late 1960's when I was a teenager. My office manager ran wife-swapping parties, I mentioned this to my girlfriend and she said she'd love to go. So I mentioned this to my manager, he invited us and we had a whale of a time. A few years later, still single, I started using the old contact mags - lots of writing and spending a fortune on stamped self-addressed envelopes - but I still met some nice women. Many years later, single again, and I discovered club listings on the internet - although my first proper club experiences were in Amsterdam and Paris - absolutely mind-blowing and totally what I was looking for. While I'm still very interested, I'm such an old fart now that nobody wants to meet me! - ah well, c'est la vie - and I've some wonderful memories!"
Oh I remember those contact mags. Oh the memories! Oh the P.O. Boxes!
Like you clubs in Hamburg before the days of the net was where eyes and other things were opened up! |
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To be fair I've always been intrested but I really started once my ex wife cheated on me, left me for someone else and literally holding the baby. So my world had been ripped apart but a fresh oppertunity to start again. As many know being a working single parent with two very young children don't leave you with much free time. I was lonely, I loved sex and there were so many sexual adventures I wanted to experiance. Because I'd always been interested I thought now was the time to look into it and then I found this site. Admittedly I (like many others) used it as a hook us site, manyly with women in the same boat looking for the same. I loved enjoying the company and different sexual experiences. Then I fell deeper in to the lifestyle, it fit me like a glove and I kind of just felt like home. I discovered the club scene and the joy of group sex, I've always loved the idea of orgies. It was like I was free and old enough to not give a dam what others think. Through swinging I have learn so much about my self, others and the way I see the world. Finally comfortable in my skin and body. Then through FAB I meet My Girl, who is my perfect match. Not only did I find love and someone who doesn't judge me for being a colossal pervert but I found someone to share in my perversions with. I introduced her to club scene (to be fair sure she would have found it for her self any way) and we both love it. Love the people we meet and prospect of discovering new adcentures. I feel at home in the scene and look forward to all the adventures that lay ahead for me and My Girl. I class my self as a card carrying swinger (literally). I'm out the box and I'm never going back in. |
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over a year ago
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A bit by accident really; we'd been talking about C going to a local gay bar to find a long term lady friend and I had planned to go separately to make sure she was safe for that one night.
The day before she went, she said she'd found a club that did bi nights so we went there instead. Weren't intending to play, but ended up doing so and having a great time. |
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When we got together we quickly established we would both be interested in it. Neither of us had done anything like this before. So we eventually plucked up the courage to go to a club. It was the most nerve wracking night of our lives. But we loved it and haven't looked back since. And we have so much left to try still... |
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"Wow 20 years
That worries me when I meet someone how will I give this up
I (Mr) have been doing this (on and off) both as a single guy and a couple for over 30 years.
My first visit to a swinger club was in 1987 (Adam & Eve Eccles)
Now on my third (and last) swinging partner and we have been doing this together for over 10 years now.
Yes my friend, it is VERY difficult to give up. "
I'm watching with interest the " how longs". Not saying our how longs as someone will just say higher fir the sake of it. Yes, very difficult to give it up thou. We're exhibishionists loved being watched/ joined in with. So would miss that part of it. |
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We had been married a while when hubby said he wanted to share me, I was shocked to say the least. We discussed it for years but I remained hesitant.
He talked me in to camming, and I enjoyed it, felt I evolved from a frumpy mum into a woman who could still turn guys on. We both loved watching the spunk flow, and that seemed to scratch his itch.
Then on a weekend away without kids we randomly met a lovely older guy, I told my husband if he and the other guy wanted I would.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love the bit about finding you're not a frumpy mum. I think that's a common theme in lots of ladies who find it hard to imagine others find them very sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love the bit about finding you're not a frumpy mum. I think that's a common theme in lots of ladies who find it hard to imagine others find them very sexy."
Certainly was for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met an old flame who is into the swinging scene. We had mind blowing sex and I asked her what had happened since we went out that changed. We used to have a lot of sex but mostly vanilla and this was completely different. A sort of dirty sex and I found it amazing she told me about the swinging scene but also that there were women who wanted no strings and just enjoyed fucking. By doing this she had learnt a lot about sex positions and other variations. Some of it is not for me but the sex was so good and when she decided to stay with her full swinging partner she told me about here. And that's what I came for independent women who know what they want and who happily Shah my brains out. |
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he's still here haha