"Men say that struggle on this site!!!! Now I wouldn’t say I struggle but iv had a few let downs why say ya gonna meet if ya not gonna turn up so frustrating "
I’ve had the opposite where a women keeps putting posts up for meeting. Arrange a meet with her then doesn’t follow through it yet consistently carries on and puts meets up. Maybe for the attention I don’t know but it’s hard work this site  |
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"Men say that struggle on this site!!!! Now I wouldn’t say I struggle but iv had a few let downs why say ya gonna meet if ya not gonna turn up so frustrating
I’ve had the opposite where a women keeps putting posts up for meeting. Arrange a meet with her then doesn’t follow through it yet consistently carries on and puts meets up. Maybe for the attention I don’t know but it’s hard work this site "
Some people get more of a kick out of the chase than the actual meets maybe? |
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"Men say that struggle on this site!!!! Now I wouldn’t say I struggle but iv had a few let downs why say ya gonna meet if ya not gonna turn up so frustrating
I’ve had the opposite where a women keeps putting posts up for meeting. Arrange a meet with her then doesn’t follow through it yet consistently carries on and puts meets up. Maybe for the attention I don’t know but it’s hard work this site
Some people get more of a kick out of the chase than the actual meets maybe?"
Maybe I’ve never thought of it like that to be honest it’s just frustrating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men say that struggle on this site!!!! Now I wouldn’t say I struggle but iv had a few let downs why say ya gonna meet if ya not gonna turn up so frustrating
I’ve had the opposite where a women keeps putting posts up for meeting. Arrange a meet with her then doesn’t follow through it yet consistently carries on and puts meets up. Maybe for the attention I don’t know but it’s hard work this site
Some people get more of a kick out of the chase than the actual meets maybe?"
personally 1 no show in 12 years for me. but i agree with people getting a kick from the attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site is full of dreamers and talkers, just after pics. When it comes to meeting they come out with bullshit excuses, we’re consistently let down by idiots that talk a good job but no intentions of turning up |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Never had a no show but we've often been ghosted.
It's par for the course I'm afraid and we never assume a meet's going to take place until all parties are actually at the location."
can i ask what's the difference between a no show and being ghosted is please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is frustrating, was stood up twice by two different men in the same week.
But for the few rare gems I have met, more than makes up.
Unfortunately got to kiss a few toads before finding him first.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only look for people with a decent verification to show they are genuine, there are some lovely people here but also many single guys under the guise of a couple that will just waste your time. |
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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago
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"Never had a no show but we've often been ghosted.
It's par for the course I'm afraid and we never assume a meet's going to take place until all parties are actually at the location.
can i ask what's the difference between a no show and being ghosted is please?"
Ghosting they ignore you leading up to the meet, could range from a day to a week |
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"Never had a no show but we've often been ghosted.
It's par for the course I'm afraid and we never assume a meet's going to take place until all parties are actually at the location.
can i ask what's the difference between a no show and being ghosted is please?"
A no show arranges a meet and communicates up until just before then just doesn't turn up. A ghosted arranges a date then just stops communication, often doesn't log in and won't open or respond to a message asking for confirmation that its all going ahead. |
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By *issnwty OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Never had a no show but we've often been ghosted.
It's par for the course I'm afraid and we never assume a meet's going to take place until all parties are actually at the location.
can i ask what's the difference between a no show and being ghosted is please?
A no show arranges a meet and communicates up until just before then just doesn't turn up. A ghosted arranges a date then just stops communication, often doesn't log in and won't open or respond to a message asking for confirmation that its all going ahead."
learn summot new every day ha |
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"Never had a no show but we've often been ghosted.
It's par for the course I'm afraid and we never assume a meet's going to take place until all parties are actually at the location.
can i ask what's the difference between a no show and being ghosted is please?
A no show arranges a meet and communicates up until just before then just doesn't turn up. A ghosted arranges a date then just stops communication, often doesn't log in and won't open or respond to a message asking for confirmation that its all going ahead.learn summot new every day ha "
People also ghost in relationships. They just disappear off the face of the earth with no explanation |
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We get this all the time. We put meets out quite reg. So looks like we're always out and playing. But more than not fail to turn into a meet. We get let down by couples the most but a good handful of single guys too.
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"Probably people cheating and cant get away from home or they bottled it
This is what I’ve put down to my last set of no shows
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We have hax this on more than one occasion so frustrating 1 even said 20mins away so see you shortly and never turned up  |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Never had a no show but we've often been ghosted.
It's par for the course I'm afraid and we never assume a meet's going to take place until all parties are actually at the location.
can i ask what's the difference between a no show and being ghosted is please?
A no show arranges a meet and communicates up until just before then just doesn't turn up. A ghosted arranges a date then just stops communication, often doesn't log in and won't open or respond to a message asking for confirmation that its all going ahead."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had one yesterday in lewes, we were messaged saying he was just coming through the tunnel, we was the other side, when all of a sudden he had to drop someone off, the an urgent job came in! What a crock of crap, he had no intention of turning up, another waster |
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It's fab for you, like people have said no shows for various reasons and being ghosted for various reasons.
Some do like the chase and the attention more than a meet.
It's a bit of a minefield and I think it always will be |
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And there's us guys who try our utmost to be courteous, read wording and message likely matching profiles, with the occassional cheeky try I admit, and don't get anywhere with you ladies and couples  |
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