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By *erryxx OP Couple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Here,s a question.. Why would you NOT cam if you are genuine? There is no way in hell I would consider a meet till I know there is a female who is comfy with it? So why would you put "Will not cam" ? Camming does not mean Cyber sex it means verifying who you are ..Like a passport for sites such as this ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we dont cam to prove who we are.
we telephone and have face pics, and meet face to face.
we leave cams for fun, if we feel like it.
cam veries, to us, feel almost like you are on trial and are being scrutinised.
would much rather sit in a pub somewhere, and have a natter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there could be many reasons hun....maybe they are just not genuine, or it could be something other than deceit; eg, low self esteem, fear of rejection etc or maybe, they feel that the clarity of image produced by the web cam will highlight any flaws in complexion etc lol i'm clutching at straws now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"would much rather sit in a pub somewhere, and have a natter."
Thats what I think personally and besides I always feel as though I look awful on my cam!!!
Much prefer face to face or by phone as you mention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"would much rather sit in a pub somewhere, and have a natter.
Thats what I think personally and besides I always feel as though I look awful on my cam!!!
Much prefer face to face or by phone as you mention"
phone so they know its actually a couple attending, then blow them away with our scintillating conversation, wit, charm and good looks (or order thier drinks for them and get 2 x rohypnol and s lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"would much rather sit in a pub somewhere, and have a natter.
Thats what I think personally and besides I always feel as though I look awful on my cam!!!
Much prefer face to face or by phone as you mention
phone so they know its actually a couple attending, then blow them away with our scintillating conversation, wit, charm and good looks (or order thier drinks for them and get 2 x rohypnol and s lol)"
can you do that  |
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"we dont cam to prove who we are.
we telephone and have face pics, and meet face to face."
Um face to face will prove who you are.
Isn't camming a way of ensuring that face pics = telephone voices ? |
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By *erryxx OP Couple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
LOl at above... However ..Yes your being scrutanised...OF COURSE you are..We all are. This kind of thing is meant to be pleasurable ..Now while i admit NO ONE is perfect, Dont we all have standards, preferences? Sites like this are here to make it easier for likeminded couples to get to gether with eachother.. not take a random chance ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"would much rather sit in a pub somewhere, and have a natter.
Thats what I think personally and besides I always feel as though I look awful on my cam!!!
Much prefer face to face or by phone as you mention
phone so they know its actually a couple attending, then blow them away with our scintillating conversation, wit, charm and good looks (or order thier drinks for them and get 2 x rohypnol and s lol)
can you do that "
what? be charming or drug someone????
think there is more of a chance with the former cuz i wouldnt know where to get the latter lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"LOl at above... However ..Yes your being scrutanised...OF COURSE you are..We all are. This kind of thing is meant to be pleasurable ..Now while i admit NO ONE is perfect, Dont we all have standards, preferences? Sites like this are here to make it easier for likeminded couples to get to gether with eachother.. not take a random chance ?
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some men wont agree as they think any woman is game on here.
yet i fully agree hun x |
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By *erryxx OP Couple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Well they are dumb asses OF COURSE were not all game ... any gen swinging cpl go into it it with both parties 1000% happy if neither are it dont happen ! Right now I am looking for a fem ONLY to join me and Mike ( yeah I know now the "mystical" single fem") but somehting I want to try lol. but i would never allow it unless I seen and spoke with her myself..and likewise for Mike.  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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I dont do a twirl on cam and I have no intentions of ever doing so. If people dont want to meet me because of that then I have no problem. If that means Im not genuine then fine.
I talk to people on the phone. It works for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are always more than happy to cam for verification or maybe more if the mood takes...
It's something we enjoy doing and a way for us to see if there is chemistry. It is a great tool for verification, the amount of 'broken' cams people have is amazing!! (as is our blocked list!)
For us, we have a family and orher commitments that make it hard to make plans/time for socials so we tend to chat on cam before making plans to meet for drinks or playtimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont do a twirl on cam and I have no intentions of ever doing so. If people dont want to meet me because of that then I have no problem. If that means Im not genuine then fine.
I talk to people on the phone. It works for me"
Totally agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont mind camming to show what i look like, but if someone adds me to MSN and ask me to put my cam on and then start asking to see my tits etc i just block them, i understand that some like to see you before meeting so they know your pics arnt 15 years old but i dont see why they need to see your tits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we keep face shots on private but will cam if want to check but husband wont he hates cam he happy to send photo via phone but thinks the cam ages him lol xxx |
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Anyhoo, meeting face to face feels a bit more natural to me 
