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over a year ago
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"Bi is the 'popular straight'... Get use to it... 
Its a bit like fab straight isnt it"
No. Fabstraight is a term used to mock closeted bi-men on Fab.
I wouldn't say hi people are more popular on Fab at all. Lots of women and couples refuse to even entertain the idea of meeting me based purely on my bisexuality. The Forum may be a little more understanding, but it's a small community of people who love learning about sex (on the whole).
Even here though, you need only start a thread about whether they'd meet you or not (based on male bisexuality). The results speak for themselves.
If any of us bisexual men are popular on here, it's probably down to our individual personalities, than our sexuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi is the 'popular straight'... Get use to it...
Its a bit like fab straight isnt it
No. Fabstraight is a term used to mock closeted bi-men on Fab.
I wouldn't say hi people are more popular on Fab at all. Lots of women and couples refuse to even entertain the idea of meeting me based purely on my bisexuality. The Forum may be a little more understanding, but it's a small community of people who love learning about sex (on the whole).
Even here though, you need only start a thread about whether they'd meet you or not (based on male bisexuality). The results speak for themselves.
If any of us bisexual men are popular on here, it's probably down to our individual personalities, than our sexuality."
I’d agree with that, although I’ve seen a shift on the forum towards some women even preferring bi guys. That was less the case 5 years ago. I think there is also an increase in the number of openly bi guys.
Hopefully with appropriate positive influence those attitudes will continue to change. For me it’s always about the person not their sexuality or gender. |
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On any applications when they ask about my sexuality I always put bi down. I've even recently joined a LGBTI group (I cover two sections B &T)
I'm not open to work colleagues although I'm aware some of them have seen me on the other site.
To me it's very normal now, if I find someone attractive, fine. However I'm only interested in Men when I'm dressed I have to be in a different mindset to be with a guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi is the 'popular straight'... Get use to it...
Its a bit like fab straight isnt it
No. Fabstraight is a term used to mock closeted bi-men on Fab.
I wouldn't say hi people are more popular on Fab at all. Lots of women and couples refuse to even entertain the idea of meeting me based purely on my bisexuality. The Forum may be a little more understanding, but it's a small community of people who love learning about sex (on the whole).
Even here though, you need only start a thread about whether they'd meet you or not (based on male bisexuality). The results speak for themselves.
If any of us bisexual men are popular on here, it's probably down to our individual personalities, than our sexuality.
I’d agree with that, although I’ve seen a shift on the forum towards some women even preferring bi guys. That was less the case 5 years ago. I think there is also an increase in the number of openly bi guys.
Hopefully with appropriate positive influence those attitudes will continue to change. For me it’s always about the person not their sexuality or gender."
I've not noticed it. Though, I will admit that since using this profile in the way in which I do, has led to me being more.. Popular  ? Desirable ? Than I've ever felt before in my life.
The revealing of my true sexuality through Cixi/Ghengis switch over may have contributed towards the added interest. Though I've a feeling its more to do with the other traits I have within me, that led to me being able to Come-Out-of-my-Closet in the first place. Courage, honesty and transparency. Fearlessness.
Add that to my shit sense of humour, boring love of history, charm, Adonis looks and sarcastic fuckwittery. I'd like to think that my bisexuality has very little to do with whether someone likes me, or finds me an attractive prospect in some way. Its just another random piece in the human jigsaw puzzle before you. |
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"Bi is the 'popular straight'... Get use to it...
Its a bit like fab straight isnt it
No. Fabstraight is a term used to mock closeted bi-men on Fab.
I wouldn't say hi people are more popular on Fab at all. Lots of women and couples refuse to even entertain the idea of meeting me based purely on my bisexuality. The Forum may be a little more understanding, but it's a small community of people who love learning about sex (on the whole).
Even here though, you need only start a thread about whether they'd meet you or not (based on male bisexuality). The results speak for themselves.
If any of us bisexual men are popular on here, it's probably down to our individual personalities, than our sexuality.
I’d agree with that, although I’ve seen a shift on the forum towards some women even preferring bi guys. That was less the case 5 years ago. I think there is also an increase in the number of openly bi guys.
Hopefully with appropriate positive influence those attitudes will continue to change. For me it’s always about the person not their sexuality or gender.
I've not noticed it. Though, I will admit that since using this profile in the way in which I do, has led to me being more.. Popular ? Desirable ? Than I've ever felt before in my life.
The revealing of my true sexuality through Cixi/Ghengis switch over may have contributed towards the added interest. Though I've a feeling its more to do with the other traits I have within me, that led to me being able to Come-Out-of-my-Closet in the first place. Courage, honesty and transparency. Fearlessness.
Add that to my shit sense of humour, boring love of history, charm, Adonis looks and sarcastic fuckwittery. I'd like to think that my bisexuality has very little to do with whether someone likes me, or finds me an attractive prospect in some way. Its just another random piece in the human jigsaw puzzle before you."
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