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Do you think there should be a section you can click on in your profile to say your OK with bareback fun. So people who want the same can find you better and people that wasn't to keep away from it can. |
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By *rthangMan
over a year ago
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"Do you think there should be a section you can click on in your profile to say your OK with bareback fun. So people who want the same can find you better and people that wasn't to keep away from it can. "
No I think it's okay without that option. Someone might put no ... but in the heat of the moment |
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All this constant fear mongering has taken the focus away from reality and that is never a good thing.
What if I kiss a woman and she kissed and man's cock and that man barebacked someone with aids...
I better not kiss anyone unless they have a condom over their head.
In fact I better not leave the house in case its airborne.
People are wearing condoms to receive a bj on here now.
I think caution and safety are a must if you are exposing yourself but surly quality of life has to play a part or why else bother.
I honestly prefer to look at porn and masturbate in most cases at the moment because its so difficult to feel safe and clean doing anything else. |
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"Do you think there should be a section you can click on in your profile to say your OK with bareback fun. So people who want the same can find you better and people that wasn't to keep away from it can. "
 sounds fine to me! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have thought that not ticking the safe sex option, would be a sign. People can also pop it in their profile text, if some can be arsed to read it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the option should be there, as a 3 way drop down:
Bareback
No bareback
No decision
No decision meaning it doesn't appear on the profile at all and things are precisely as they are now for them.
I can't see any way in which that could be detrimental for any user and it would allow those that play that way to filter out those who don't, and conversely those who won't play that way to filter out those who do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think there should be a section you can click on in your profile to say your OK with bareback fun. So people who want the same can find you better and people that wasn't to keep away from it can. "
When starting my profile there is a section to click if your do there eg oral, anal, safe sex, bare back, if people don’t see bare back there they should assume it’s safe sex only x |
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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i think there should be tick box, hide all profiles listed as bareback and hide me from their results
keeps everyone happy, people who want safe fun have only safe fun members, people who do bb can find bb and stay away from safe members. |
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"I would have thought that not ticking the safe sex option, would be a sign. People can also pop it in their profile text, if some can be arsed to read it "
You can't search for it that way, though...it should be added to the interests list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have thought that not ticking the safe sex option, would be a sign. People can also pop it in their profile text, if some can be arsed to read it
You can't search for it that way, though...it should be added to the interests list"
Maybe the owners would worry that it may be seen as a sign of glorifying bareback on here, by having it as an option. Given that there is a belief with some that active swingers may be STD ridden, the owners didn't think it was the best idea to have that search option perhaps. I'm not sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not specifically that, but this site could definitely do with a lot more filters/options for searching.
When you use the 'map' view and search via post code you can't even filter out by male/female etc, this site is definitely missing lots of basic things |
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"i think there should be tick box, hide all profiles listed as bareback and hide me from their results
keeps everyone happy, people who want safe fun have only safe fun members, people who do bb can find bb and stay away from safe members. "
Good idea. I see your point.
Of course we are open about playing bareback. Thats perfectly obvious to anyone looking at our profile.
So given your views on bareback it does seem odd that you sent us a wink? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"i think there should be tick box, hide all profiles listed as bareback and hide me from their results
keeps everyone happy, people who want safe fun have only safe fun members, people who do bb can find bb and stay away from safe members.
Good idea. I see your point.
Of course we are open about playing bareback. Thats perfectly obvious to anyone looking at our profile.
So given your views on bareback it does seem odd that you sent us a wink?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s a very good idea. Regardless of your views, it’s clear to see whether the person / people you’re looking at, fill your criteria or not. Works on fabguys so don’t see why it isn’t an option here. It really shouldn’t be a taboo subject. Clear to see that the “safe sex” box doesn’t work well when couples and singles aren’t sticking to it. |
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The trouble that I see arising from this is that people could mistakenly assume that anyone who may have ticked 'bareback' would be expected to have this upon demand, rather than it being something that some people enjoy, when they have known someone or connected specially with someone, rather than for a shed load of bareback enthusiasts to pile in. It's perfect that the site allows for people to find others who share the same pursuits but any hidden consequences should be considered too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It may be a good idea, however there are those that state safe sex on their profile but may have regular trusted friends who they prefer bare fun with. We are honest we do. Play bare with 2 regular couples and a single guy but only because we have known them 9 years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've nursed people with AIDS. It's not a good way to die. Also nursed people on treatment - who shit the bed, vomit and endure pain. For the sake of a condom! There are women in the world, who don't have the luxury of choice. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"i think there should be tick box, hide all profiles listed as bareback and hide me from their results
keeps everyone happy, people who want safe fun have only safe fun members, people who do bb can find bb and stay away from safe members.
Good idea. I see your point.
Of course we are open about playing bareback. Thats perfectly obvious to anyone looking at our profile.
So given your views on bareback it does seem odd that you sent us a wink?"
Gold!
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"i think there should be tick box, hide all profiles listed as bareback and hide me from their results
keeps everyone happy, people who want safe fun have only safe fun members, people who do bb can find bb and stay away from safe members. "
There does seem a proportion of people though, who state 'safe sex only' in their profile text but wink or message saying they too are looking for BB fun, who wouldn't be able to do this if this was in place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prob just as this site is far more visible and often in news articles. Where as other site is more low key. Maybe damage control as others say playing the moral stamp to avoid negative press .
All the other gay sites have bareback / tasp / prep etc various options so more info can be filtered |
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"No please don’t the consequences are life threatening
Be careful of HPV please
Hpv is not as terrifying as you think if you research it and look at the statistics."
Then read my blog on cancer of the throat!!
I urge that you do, as it gave me cancer which even now has major implications on my life |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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There is only one guy I bareback with and no one else! If they are not wearing a condom then they ain't getting any from me..I am not into playing Russian roulette with my health thank you very much x |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"No please don’t the consequences are life threatening
Be careful of HPV please
Hpv is not as terrifying as you think if you research it and look at the statistics.
Then read my blog on cancer of the throat!!
I urge that you do, as it gave me cancer which even now has major implications on my life"
I'm not saying it isn't dangerous and that it doesn't cause cancer, I'm saying the odds of getting cancer from hpv is very low. |
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" the odds of getting cancer from hpv is very low. "
The odds of getting any of the more serious STIs is low. Read an article or two and you'll learn that for yourself. Too much paranoia and fearmongering nowadays. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
" the odds of getting cancer from hpv is very low.
The odds of getting any of the more serious STIs is low. Read an article or two and you'll learn that for yourself. Too much paranoia and fearmongering nowadays."
I'm not the one fearmongering. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
" I'm not the one fearmongering.
I know. I'm agreeing with your point and taking it one further!"
Ohhh OK. Recently there has been so much misinformation spread around the forums, especially about sti's  |
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" I'm not the one fearmongering.
I know. I'm agreeing with your point and taking it one further!
Ohhh OK. Recently there has been so much misinformation spread around the forums, especially about sti's "
Agreed, share and share a like is what I say  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
" I'm not the one fearmongering.
I know. I'm agreeing with your point and taking it one further!
Ohhh OK. Recently there has been so much misinformation spread around the forums, especially about sti's
Agreed, share and share a like is what I say "
I wouldn't go that far! |
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" I'm not the one fearmongering.
I know. I'm agreeing with your point and taking it one further!
Ohhh OK. Recently there has been so much misinformation spread around the forums, especially about sti's
Agreed, share and share a like is what I say
I wouldn't go that far! "
It’s fine, I’m just agreeing with you  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
" I'm not the one fearmongering.
I know. I'm agreeing with your point and taking it one further!
Ohhh OK. Recently there has been so much misinformation spread around the forums, especially about sti's
Agreed, share and share a like is what I say
I wouldn't go that far!
It’s fine, I’m just agreeing with you "
This is my lucky day, people have agreed with me! That almost never happens lol |
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