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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all
I have always been on the skinny side of the weight scale and always seen it as a barrier.
When i speak to people on here i automatically assume they would not like me due to me being skinny.
Do you think im being silly or is this an issue others face?
It would be interesting to see what your thoughts are on this both male and female.
Thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree. Just having cock pics doesn't always appeal. You need to have more body pics and maybe leave something to the imagination. Not all women want to see pics of hard cocks all the time. They like to see what else they are getting lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i speak to people on here i automatically assume they would not like me due to me being skinny.
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Why do you automatically assume that. It suggests you may have a self image issue.I wouldn't worry about it. loads like slim men..that's slim,not skinny.god i hate that word
a slim man |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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There are people of all shapes and sizes on Fab. There are some out there who like each of our body types but, with most, there has to be a certain attraction to the person as a whole not just their body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The beauty of swinging is that there's someone for everyone, no matter what you look like someone will find you attractive.
As others have said, give people something to swoon at on your profile and you may find an increase in your uptake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The beauty of swinging is that there's someone for everyone, no matter what you look like someone will find you attractive.
As others have said, give people something to swoon at on your profile and you may find an increase in your uptake"
or just send 'em a tenner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you look good in your body pic. Well toned and not skinny.
I agree about the cock and cum pics though. I think generally us ladies prefer something else than just that.
Most of us have something about their bodies they don't like. But luckily everyone has a different taste! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
I have always been on the skinny side of the weight scale and always seen it as a barrier.
When i speak to people on here i automatically assume they would not like me due to me being skinny.
Do you think im being silly or is this an issue others face?
It would be interesting to see what your thoughts are on this both male and female.
Thanks
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everyone carries their own insecurities, my adviced is if you see someone you like mail them with pics and let them decide if they like you or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate, when I was 21 I was 9 stone 10 to 12 depending on when I weighed myself. At over six foot that's a bit past slim I think you'll agree.
With the right training though you will eventually develop a more muscular physique at some point as your racing metabolism finally slows a little. I got to that stage just before 30, which is great now as while I can pack muscle on with hard training a beer gut just isn't happening. Trust me the build you have is best in the long run.
And until you reach that age enjoy yourself regardless. Being a particular shape or size doesn't stop you...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you are being silly, I suspect your lack of confidence is the real barrier"
you can say that about anyone tho
but what we may see as silly is very real to some people
Hes doing no different to when women come on here worried they may be to big
Its just lack of confidance that holds us back, slim or big there will be someone on here for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's amazing what insecurities people carry
my mate is 28/29 waist which for a 43 yr old is pretty good.
he is in the gym 5 nights a week and has the body a lot of younger men would kill for, let alone guys his age
big arms, solid chest, thin waist, yet he is totally self conscious that he is 'too fat' as despite his best efforts he has the tiniest of love handles which he can't shift for love nor money
all the guys think he's barking, but it is how he sees himself that is the issue, not how others see him
what seems a big deal to you i dare say would go unnoticed by the majority |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the posts. Didnt think get this much interest.
Good to hear your thoughts on the issue"
ive got a couple of stone going spare if it will make you feel better 
i know off loading it would make me feel better lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you are being silly, I suspect your lack of confidence is the real barrier
you can say that about anyone tho
but what we may see as silly is very real to some people
Hes doing no different to when women come on here worried they may be to big
Its just lack of confidance that holds us back, slim or big there will be someone on here for you "
That is what I meant though, he did ask if he was being silly to which I said yes, I was just at a friends and on my Iphone and couldn't be bothered to write more. Besides I would have only said what others including you have said so pointless but I stand by what I said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have seen skinnier and from your picture its not going to set people alight but neither should it put them off. I think you are just one of many many men on here rather than something being wrong. |
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