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How come young single males don't get a chance??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two line profile and you ask why your not getting meets...?
Older ladies and couples do meet younger guys.... We just need to feel they are worth it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like Femme said, they do. I know lots of young lads on here that are filling their boots. And its all about perspective, I'm young to some on here lol!
What women don't tend to go for though is a profile like the one you have. Three lines of non-descript text screams "no imagination" to most ladies and you have two photos of your cock and not a lot else plus a photo where you can make out bugger all. You don't have to have a face pic in your public gallery (I don't and I do ok) but try for a bit of variety.
Your profile is your shop window, try and make it interesting and seductive. At the moment yours is like a shop window that is getting refurbished with nowt but an old stepladder and a spread dustsheet in it.
Spice it up a bit and you will reap the rewards my friend! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I certainly can't complain at all. I've had some great fun and met some lovely people. Its all down to how you introduce yourself. You must be polite and friendly. If the first thing you say in your greeting is 'hi, fancy a fuck' then your not going to get anywhere. As they say, first impressions count. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile certainly needs to be better than it is. Its amazing how far proper spelling and punctuation can go. You need to sell yourself, make yourself appealing to whoever you're wanting to meet. |
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there are couples and singles thay meet guys like you. They are bombarded by single guys all day long. Well known fact its always harder for a single guy on any sites like fab.
You need to sell yourself to people which will make them take some interest in you. I heard the rooms are also a great place to chat with like minded people. Get yourself to socials in your area. Then with any luck you will start to get recognised and start getting taken seriously. Hope this helps |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
can't have it both ways....
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/76194
if people are going to play the "age" card... just like anything else... you are going to alienate as many people as many people as are going to be attracted..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like Femme said, they do. I know lots of young lads on here that are filling their boots. And its all about perspective, I'm young to some on here lol!
What women don't tend to go for though is a profile like the one you have. Three lines of non-descript text screams "no imagination" to most ladies and you have two photos of your cock and not a lot else plus a photo where you can make out bugger all. You don't have to have a face pic in your public gallery (I don't and I do ok) but try for a bit of variety.
Your profile is your shop window, try and make it interesting and seductive. At the moment yours is like a shop window that is getting refurbished with nowt but an old stepladder and a spread dustsheet in it.
Spice it up a bit and you will reap the rewards my friend!"
nicely put! you don't need to display a face pic though...but i'd advise sending it in messages to women you do want to meet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't get a chance because from what i have seen they spend all their time winging about not getting a chance and not putting in any freaking effort to grab that chance they are so desperate for....
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Do realise there's 100s of single men on this site so couples and females have a good choice. Gotta put some effort in to fella. I no I aint had any meets but I'm trying and even I no the meets just don't fall on ya lap. |
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if the person doesn't fit what other people are looking for then they won't talk more in regards to meeting. if you go to tesco to buy a mango, you want a juicy ripe one you wouldn't go and choose an unripe tomato would you? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Like Femme said, they do. I know lots of young lads on here that are filling their boots. And its all about perspective, I'm young to some on here lol!
What women don't tend to go for though is a profile like the one you have. Three lines of non-descript text screams "no imagination" to most ladies and you have two photos of your cock and not a lot else plus a photo where you can make out bugger all. You don't have to have a face pic in your public gallery (I don't and I do ok) but try for a bit of variety.
Your profile is your shop window, try and make it interesting and seductive. At the moment yours is like a shop window that is getting refurbished with nowt but an old stepladder and a spread dustsheet in it.
Spice it up a bit and you will reap the rewards my friend!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.
Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.
The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!
Cynical but it works  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.
Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.
The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!
Cynical but it works "
guess you get loads with that attitude (possibly about t orun dry...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.
Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.
The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!
Cynical but it works "
Assuming you're not messaging anyone that reads forums!!  |
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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago
oldbury |
"You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.
Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.
The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!
Cynical but it works
Assuming you're not messaging anyone that reads forums!! "
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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago
oldbury |
Its already been said you need to extend your profile and stand out from the crowd there are hundreds of guys on here looking for the same i am bombarded every day on joint and single profile by single guys and we do meet the ones who stand out to us but the ones who lie and talk utter bs are never asked back again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not messaging anybody now.....duh...."
im shocked.
how could you deny the female populous of fab your insightful regalings of the worlds problems and solutions.
who knows, they may even fancy you as much as you do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im younger than you and i can honestly say your profile doesnt really stand out and catch my eye. Its not an age thing you just need to use the site to its full potential and put yourself out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im younger than you and i can honestly say your profile doesnt really stand out and catch my eye. Its not an age thing you just need to use the site to its full potential and put yourself out there."
Whereas your profile on the other hand certainly stands out and catches my eye Madam... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow amout of women on here who have knocked me back as I am too old for them as they are just looking for hot young stud muffins haha dont no what the ops problem is lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow amout of women on here who have knocked me back as I am too old for them as they are just looking for hot young stud muffins haha dont no what the ops problem is lol "
old your 36 LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow amout of women on here who have knocked me back as I am too old for them as they are just looking for hot young stud muffins haha dont no what the ops problem is lol
old your 36 LOL"
I no hun but trust me there are loads of fems on here (and some older than me) who only go for lads less than 30yrs old lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im younger than you and i can honestly say your profile doesnt really stand out and catch my eye. Its not an age thing you just need to use the site to its full potential and put yourself out there.
Whereas your profile on the other hand certainly stands out and catches my eye Madam..."
Haha why thank you for your approval  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there has to be some kind of rationale in choosing a young guy. I believe most people have one and use it. You would be quickly elimited for lack of effort.
If they are looking for young they are looking for a bit o pazaaaaaz!!!!! |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"I like younger guys ..Just not boys . At least older than my kids."
I think what people look for is someone who comes across as a 'sorted guy', and has respect and patience, as opposed to arrogance and impatience. Discretion will also see you go far. Not everyone has that, but there's no reason if not, why not.
I'd lose the out of focus pic, and put a series of body shots and put the face and cock pics in the private bit. Flesh your profile out, and get on the map. It's going to be hard work, the sort of effort that sees many fall by the wayside. The exception to that can be you.
Good luck
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have spoke to a few younger men than my criteria i met 1
one guy was younger than my criteria and he was mature a decent profile and not thinking with his cock all the time ( till later)
the other guy was immature who thought a hole was a goal and thought his cock was the answer to everything ( i didnt meet)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i've been on this site for ages but no luck 
whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??"
Well as it goes ALL the ones we have approached on here are only looking for pics!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i've been on this site for ages but no luck
whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??
Well as it goes ALL the ones we have approached on here are only looking for pics!!"
shock horror |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We Blocked the OP simply because he can't read and obviously hadn't read our profile. The one line message was like a million other one hit wonders that may or may not have been a cut and paste mail drop. " Fancy a meet" doesn't cut the mustard when we say we are not looking for people under 35. Think before you write, don't write just because you are horny and above all read the profile of the people you are writing to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.
Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.
The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!
Cynical but it works "
Am I the only one who thought this post was bloody hilarious?!
You may not like it, but you gotta admit the guy's got balls! Nice work!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a bit of pot luck mate and who seems to be local to you."
I have set my mail filters for over 30's, because as good looking as they are, I don't have enough in common with a 20 something to have much of a meaningful conversation. Also I'm not as confident with younger guys I feel that they might be more critical of my appearance than an older guy.
Don't forget many women in their forties have sons who are in their twenties, that's a no no as well!  |
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"Im younger than you and i can honestly say your profile doesnt really stand out and catch my eye. Its not an age thing you just need to use the site to its full potential and put yourself out there.
Whereas your profile on the other hand certainly stands out and catches my eye Madam...
Haha why thank you for your approval "
I think your profile is fab and when I was 19 I think I would have put the same as you, infect if I was single I would put now what you have ( I am the girl of couple obviously )
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"Its a bit of pot luck mate and who seems to be local to you.
I have set my mail filters for over 30's, because as good looking as they are, I don't have enough in common with a 20 something to have much of a meaningful conversation. Also I'm not as confident with younger guys I feel that they might be more critical of my appearance than an older guy.
We haven't set one but this would be our reason I wouldn't have anything in common with a male my age or tbh any younger than 30, I do find that couples may be a little different expecily when they are married or have families but it's not just about the sex is it it's about the talking and getting to know one an other
Don't forget many women in their forties have sons who are in their twenties, that's a no no as well! "
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By *rica77Couple
over a year ago
Norwich |
I really cant go for men (boys) who are the same age or younger than my kids, my eldest is 30 so therefore meeting up with a guy 30 or less is just not on. Sorry. I get quite a lot of messages from under 30's who say how mature they are...or age is just a number. |
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