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over a year ago
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"Why do (couples) not all of them just have pics of either just the male or female??" always seem to be pics of female....the few that ive seen of just the male....is because she doesnt exist had that couple of times
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By *ockey64 OP Man
over a year ago
Gloucester |
"Why do (couples) not all of them just have pics of either just the male or female??always seem to be pics of female....the few that ive seen of just the male....is because she doesnt exist had that couple of times" yes I think that's very true
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over a year ago
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We've been approached by a few couples who've only got pics of the woman. What does the guy look like? We be old fashioned, but we like to know what the guy looks like who's going to be fucking the Mrs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us, it’s because of his job. His tattoos make him identifiable- lol, although I guess mine do too, recognise me and you’ll recognise him, if you do the maths. However, I’m also more comfortable in front of the camera, and new pics makes us pop up on feeds, hence more of me x We share pics of him privately, if others share as well, as it’s not blind date, so both need to show pics- not all do xx
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"Why do (couples) not all of them just have pics of either just the male or female??"
We guess it is a choice thing and people just respect that.
If the profile doesn't appeal then just pass it by.
You could compare it to the single guys who think that all their profile pics should be of their cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely should have both on if both message to meet, mr isn’t keen on his pics but we wouldn’t meet a ghost so it just part of it or atleast send pics in your first message |
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By *iyuWoman
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"It’s the same with people hiding some of their verifications especially if they don’t have many just looks shady"
I really don't understand why people hide verifications. Have no avatar etc. It does seem shady af. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the same with people hiding some of their verifications especially if they don’t have many just looks shady
I really don't understand why people hide verifications. Have no avatar etc. It does seem shady af. "
I know, even if it’s a bad one it’s probably not as bad as what it makes people imagine it is so completely puts me of, I meet separately sometimes too so it’s just not safe enough is it, could say anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the same with people hiding some of their verifications especially if they don’t have many just looks shady
I really don't understand why people hide verifications. Have no avatar etc. It does seem shady af.
I know, even if it’s a bad one it’s probably not as bad as what it makes people imagine it is so completely puts me of, I meet separately sometimes too so it’s just not safe enough is it, could say anything "
We have a hidden verification. Purely because they mentioned our real names in it. |
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"Why do (couples) not all of them just have pics of either just the male or female??"
We like to see both (even hubby likes to see a cock pic, as he knows what I’m looking for and will know if he should bother adding to the hotlist or not!)
I’ll have to go check out profile out now and make sure we’re both there! ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Why do (couples) not all of them just have pics of either just the male or female??always seem to be pics of female....the few that ive seen of just the male....is because she doesnt exist had that couple of times"
This is so true x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only reason most our pics are of her is because she is the selling point, men want her women want her, most couples want single women, most women want women to explore with, most men here for meeting a women, if the profile was mainly all pics of me (male) then we would get no where..... oh wait we don’t anyway haha |
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By *ockey64 OP Man
over a year ago
Gloucester |
"Only reason most our pics are of her is because she is the selling point, men want her women want her, most couples want single women, most women want women to explore with, most men here for meeting a women, if the profile was mainly all pics of me (male) then we would get no where..... oh wait we don’t anyway haha" lol
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over a year ago
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"Only reason most our pics are of her is because she is the selling point, men want her women want her, most couples want single women, most women want women to explore with, most men here for meeting a women, if the profile was mainly all pics of me (male) then we would get no where..... oh wait we don’t anyway haha"
I agree with that, but, if a couple is reaching out messaging for a swap, they should have pics of the man too as he is included in what they are selling.
Only if they are messaging asking for swaps with mr involved, if their not then it’s completely upto them what pics or no pics they put up but they won’t get as far as those who show what they are selling
My opinion is void anyway as we don’t message anyone for a swap just meet in clubs and use this to chat |
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By *ockey64 OP Man
over a year ago
Gloucester |
"Only reason most our pics are of her is because she is the selling point, men want her women want her, most couples want single women, most women want women to explore with, most men here for meeting a women, if the profile was mainly all pics of me (male) then we would get no where..... oh wait we don’t anyway haha
All opinions are welcome. Just can't stand the rudeness of some when a simple polite question is asked
I agree with that, but, if a couple is reaching out messaging for a swap, they should have pics of the man too as he is included in what they are selling.
Only if they are messaging asking for swaps with mr involved, if their not then it’s completely upto them what pics or no pics they put up but they won’t get as far as those who show what they are selling
My opinion is void anyway as we don’t message anyone for a swap just meet in clubs and use this to chat "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the same with people hiding some of their verifications especially if they don’t have many just looks shady
I really don't understand why people hide verifications. Have no avatar etc. It does seem shady af. "
I hide old verifications as I only need people to know I am me and not a man.
Some of my old verifications attracted attention I didn't want, so I hid them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe couples don't bother with pics of the man because he just watches and wanks."
I certainly don’t lol I’m very much involved Danish likes watching me enjoy a woman as much as I enjoy watching her
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their profile how they choose to have them we tend to switch ours up, there’s not as many pics of my hubby because of his tattoos on his arms (I can hide mine on my wrist if I position it properly ) and you know what that fine with us and that is because it’s our profile therefore our choice if people don’t like they they don’t msg simple as... that doesn’t mean I don’t exist and its just my hubby on here
that’s where Veris come into it all our Veris state we’re a couple and they’ve met us as a couple wether that’s playing or a social, we don’t hide pictures face pics, body pics etc are on the account to be seen on our friends only pics we just choose not to have everything on show
When it comes to Veris a lot of people don’t take into account when people leave the veri disappears so it’s not Always a case of ‘hiding them’
The trick is talk to people, drop them a msg and don’t judge them for what they’ve shown and not shown not everyone on here is happy for faces, photos or whatever to choose to thy doesn’t mean they’re not real at all If you feel the same after a few quick msgs say so and block them...it’s no big deal so many people jump to conclusions on here it’s good to be weary but give people a chance ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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We (SydnNancy) have pictures of us both on ours because it’s our couple profile.
I’m always wary of couple profiles where they don’t have any together. Usually means they’re a guy posing as a couple from my experience. |
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"Why do (couples) not all of them just have pics of either just the male or female??"
I must admit we're guilty of this but I (Mr) often think no one's that bothered about seeing me as 99% of stuff we get asked is about Mrs. |
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"We (SydnNancy) have pictures of us both on ours because it’s our couple profile.
I’m always wary of couple profiles where they don’t have any together. Usually means they’re a guy posing as a couple from my experience."
Ok...... I think our verifications suggest otherwise. |
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"We (SydnNancy) have pictures of us both on ours because it’s our couple profile.
I’m always wary of couple profiles where they don’t have any together. Usually means they’re a guy posing as a couple from my experience.
Ok...... I think our verifications suggest otherwise."
Which is why I said ‘wary’ and ‘usually’ ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it not up to all of us what we chose to share on fab? "
No it’s not the OP has stated that already. I believe you look at our profile what do you think about it. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Is it not up to all of us what we chose to share on fab?
No it’s not the OP has stated that already.
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He didn't, he asked a question and didn't say people can't have a choice of what to put on their profile. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Can I remind people that abusing people is not allowed on the forum and you will be banned for it if a mod sees it. Can I also remind people to report the abusive posts instead of abusing back as any abuse is not allowed on the forum. If you report and let it be dealt with instead please
Another note...private pics that you have on your profile won't show up in your pic count on your profile |
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We just serve these profiles,there are so many on here with just the woman.
I am straight so profiles full of women turn me off.
If a couple profile only meets men then I understand no pics of the Male,but if they want to meet other couples,they should at least have 1 or 2 of the man.
It's their choice how they run their profile and our choice not to engage.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We do get exasperated with only one person's pics, as if were meeting a couple we both need to be interested in them. We have both on ours for that reason it cuts out problems if there's no attraction or chemistry there's no point in meeting. Maple ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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"We do get exasperated with only one person's pics, as if were meeting a couple we both need to be interested in them. We have both on ours for that reason it cuts out problems if there's no attraction or chemistry there's no point in meeting. Maple "
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"We do get exasperated with only one person's pics, as if were meeting a couple we both need to be interested in them. We have both on ours for that reason it cuts out problems if there's no attraction or chemistry there's no point in meeting. Maple "
Ditto
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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"We do get exasperated with only one person's pics, as if were meeting a couple we both need to be interested in them. We have both on ours for that reason it cuts out problems if there's no attraction or chemistry there's no point in meeting. Maple "
Same here. We’re not going to meet a couple that we haven’t seen both elements of and we wouldn’t expect anyone else to do the same.
We know the female is usually the draw but still need to see the guy. Looking at such profiles is a waste of our time tbh so we only rarely progress if we have to ask for pics of Mr.
The ‘he doesn’t like pics’ excuse doesn’t wash with me personally either, not hard to take a quick snap to at least give people the idea.
As far as hidden veris goes, we’ve got a couple from cam sessions that weren’t written in a way we’d like to be associated with, and also one from a party that wasn’t great (and was a copy and paste veri that wasn’t especially relevant) so have chosen not to show those ones. We’ve got enough others for it to not be an issue though
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"We do get exasperated with only one person's pics, as if were meeting a couple we both need to be interested in them. We have both on ours for that reason it cuts out problems if there's no attraction or chemistry there's no point in meeting. Maple
Same here. We’re not going to meet a couple that we haven’t seen both elements of and we wouldn’t expect anyone else to do the same.
We know the female is usually the draw but still need to see the guy. Looking at such profiles is a waste of our time tbh so we only rarely progress if we have to ask for pics of Mr.
The ‘he doesn’t like pics’ excuse doesn’t wash with me personally either, not hard to take a quick snap to at least give people the idea.
As far as hidden veris goes, we’ve got a couple from cam sessions that weren’t written in a way we’d like to be associated with, and also one from a party that wasn’t great (and was a copy and paste veri that wasn’t especially relevant) so have chosen not to show those ones. We’ve got enough others for it to not be an issue though
TB"
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Yeah it frustrates us because in our relationship the female is more picky on looks than the male. So we rarely pass a couple by because of the female it's normally a male not being up to what L wants. That's why we have mixed photos |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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We are both picky, get more so as we get older lol, we don’t really have a type but find it harder and harder to find a couple where we are both happy. We find most of the good looking guys or those that look after themselves physically are single... unfortunate to say, it does seem a lot of guys in couples profiles rely on the female half ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One of our biggest bugbears is when a so called couples profile has no pics of the male! We get that most will be of the lady but one or two of the guy is always good to decide if we want to message or reply to any message!
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"We have photos of both of us on our profile. If we're going to meet a couple then we want to see both of you.
Mr2
Same here . pointless having just pics of one half . suspicious I would say"
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We would like to think we have enough photos of us both together and on our own for people to be able to judge what we look like before messaging. We would never message a couple first where there was no pics of one half. Males that say they dont like photo being taken or shown would most likely be not what we are looking for anyway as they would either be not our type , shy, unimaginative and possibly boring . |
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We have mainly female pics but I suppose you could argue our meets are mostly about ff. Think there’s one of him on there, but mostly our profile pics are just to give an idea of us and for a bit of exhibitionist fun. If we message anybody they get pictures of us both, and our friend gallery is also full of pictures of us both.
Pretty much the people who we are interested in meeting or friends with see both of us, as that’s only fair and they’re the only people we feel the need to be that open with. Everybody else just gets what we like and are comfortable with sharing, if it puts people off getting in touch I suppose that’s just our loss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No pictures of my other half because he doesn't join in. The whole reason we are on here is because I'm a hot wife and he finds men for me. We are 100% genuine as you can see from our verifications . If one person from the couple isn't joining in there's no point in decent photos of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We just think not many woman are interested in seeing loads of dick pics or the Male part of the couple. We have some of my partner and anyone can request pretty much any photo they like of us. Just a lot of dick pics around so I guess we have just given that option after some messages x |
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