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There are lots of people using the site to meet others for more longer term than a quickie down the back of wilkos. Do a forum search for "matchmaking" threads
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I’ll look out for the matchmaking threads.
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"Single pringle. Looking for vanilla n non vanilla lifestyle full relationship. Holding hands (before being handcuffed) n cuddling (before getting tied down) kissed l before getting blindfolded)... lol Why not have both?" Exactly! its having the best of both worlds and take it or leave it when we want | |||
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"I’d like to meet someone nice " Well there's someone for every one... even a woman with a beard | |||
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"I’d like to meet someone nice Well there's someone for every one... even a woman with a beard "Great  | |||
"Morning! As a single guy with a kink for women that swing, I’m not having much luck with the usual dating apps (Bumble, etc.): people on them are just too vanilla! I’ve met some great couples in clubs, and been involved in some incredibly sexy scenes. From chats at clubs, it’s clear that Fab is the place to meet swinging peeps online. But my question is: is it also a good place to date single women who want to swing? Or is everyone loved-up already
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- ‘Stag’ (one day)"Mmm we live in hope and just have fun in the meantime Totally agree about the dating sites though Good luck x | |||
"I’d like to meet someone nice " This goes for me too | |||
Was never going to happen on a vanilla site.
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"Dating with someone who swings would be ideal " it can be done, we started off swinging then dating then a relationship...a swinging one | |||
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"I would love the "more" but it seems hard to find that perfect combination of someone I would like to date/share my vanilla life with who is also kinky/open minded sexually like me. " It does exist - mine is a good balance of kinky and vanilla and we met on here x | |||
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"Morning! As a single guy with a kink for women that swing, I’m not having much luck with the usual dating apps (Bumble, etc.): people on them are just too vanilla! I’ve met some great couples in clubs, and been involved in some incredibly sexy scenes. From chats at clubs, it’s clear that Fab is the place to meet swinging peeps online. But my question is: is it also a good place to date single women who want to swing? Or is everyone loved-up already
All opinions welcome!
- ‘Stag’ (one day)"I would be open to dating casually, kind of like a fwb situation. | |||
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"Morning! As a single guy with a kink for women that swing, I’m not having much luck with the usual dating apps (Bumble, etc.): people on them are just too vanilla! I’ve met some great couples in clubs, and been involved in some incredibly sexy scenes. From chats at clubs, it’s clear that Fab is the place to meet swinging peeps online. But my question is: is it also a good place to date single women who want to swing? Or is everyone loved-up already
All opinions welcome!
- ‘Stag’ (one day)"I believe and hope it is entirely possible to find dates from fab. There are some very lovely people all looking for different somethings. V x | |||
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"With the right person..." You had your chance Liberoo *raises arm across brow all dramatic like* P | |||
"If you are looking for your 'Vixen', then Fab and clubs is your only option. Going through all the steps of dating different ladies to get to the point of mentioning your kinks, only to see a look of disgust/shock would be pointless. Also, add in the possible fall out if she then spoke of your kinks to others.... Then again Fab does not have a monopoly on kinky ladies. Introducing a new Vixen to the lifestyle would be pretty amazing. I'm no help..... "U hsve to decide what u want | |||
"With the right person... You had your chance Liberoo *raises arm across brow all dramatic like* P" | |||
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"I’d like to meet someone nice This goes for me too "And me 
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"Dating with someone who swings would be ideal " It certainly would. Seems very hard to achieve though. | |||
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Whether I’d rely on it to find more though I’m not sure, maybe more of those ‘if it happens it’s a bonus’ scenarios.
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"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim"  | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim" That's the most honest thing I've read on fab I think. | |||
"Ive yet to meet anyone who wants to date me.here or anywhere lol but i live in hope. I know a couple who met on here they have been together quite a few yrs now" I’d date you any day shame the distance is to far | |||
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"If you are looking for your 'Vixen', then Fab and clubs is your only option. Going through all the steps of dating different ladies to get to the point of mentioning your kinks, only to see a look of disgust/shock would be pointless. Also, add in the possible fall out if she then spoke of your kinks to others.... Then again Fab does not have a monopoly on kinky ladies. Introducing a new Vixen to the lifestyle would be pretty amazing. I'm no help.....
U hsve to decide what u want "It's not easy. I just sit back and do nothing. Problem solved! | |||
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"Wow. What a great set of replies on this thread. Thanks, Fab people. This one I had to respond to... “the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play,” ... and, not for the first time, I’m glad we’re all different. Just as there are guys who only want to play with a ‘vixen’ for an evening (all play and no dating) there are ‘stags’ who want an emotional connection with a woman who plays. I’ve had so many messages from people agreeing, and wanting the Stag/Vixen relationship, or even the cuckold/hotwife alternative. Or stories about friends of theirs who’ve managed it. There’s hope!" Always hope | |||
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"Here’s hoping " | |||
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"Ide like to meet a guy off here wanting a bit more than meeting up for sex but I'm continually told this isn't a dating site and I ought to look elsewhere , but like a few on here I'm wanting kink in my life too and this should be the perfect place to meet that special someone Live in hope lol "Me too, I’m a very patient person and I’m sure it will happen when it’s meant to. Fingers crossed for you too x | |||
"Having been on and off this site in over ten years I have had two long term partners from this site. Alas am on the look again " It sounds like the site is working for you! No 'alas' about it | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim" I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x | |||
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"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x " There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun." That’s fine as you are honest with that. I just don’t meet that kind of guy that just wants fun only. I like a friendship at the very least to go with the sex and I tend to meet guys who like the same. Mental stimulation has to be there or I just don’t get turned on. I love a guys company, sometimes I like it more than the sex. | |||
"I’ll look out for the matchmaking threads. Sx " Sorry, I’ve been away so long | |||
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"I’ll look out for the matchmaking threads. Sx Sorry, I’ve been away so long "https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/869697#message_19371640 | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun." Really very honest and quite true for many men and i think some women are starting to act very similar Personally I just couldn’t have sex without a lot of attraction and I can’t feel relaxed enough to enjoy myself so pleasure will be limited so it’s all a bit pointless really | |||
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"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun." I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x | |||
"Having been on and off this site in over ten years I have had two long term partners from this site. Alas am on the look again " Well you’re in bloody great shape for a fellow old fart! I’m sure a lucky local lady will find you soon!
Oh and op - yes - some of us singles are hoping for a relationship that involves swinging rather than monogamy! | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x " I have no interest in speaking for you, niether do I have any interest in speaking for anyone, niether do I have any interest in stereotyping anything or anyone, what I said is the truth based on the general statistics of divorce rates, are there exceptions to the rule , definitely yes but that does not mean the rule is not correct. | |||
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"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x I have no interest in speaking for you, niether do I have any interest in speaking for anyone, niether do I have any interest in stereotyping anything or anyone, what I said is the truth based on the general statistics of divorce rates, are there exceptions to the rule , definitely yes but that does not mean the rule is not correct." Lies, damn lies and statistics. I suspect if you pulled research on divorce statistics you could be able to “prove” many things. But one thing you can’t prove is that a “woman must like a guy to have sex with them”. That simply isn’t the case. You could say perhaps that your perception is that more women need some kind of connection than a man. I’m a woman that would like a sexually non-monogamous relationship, but I’m very happy fucking people in clubs I know nothing about. That may mean I’m the exception that proves the rule, but since I doubt there’s anything exceptional about me I’m just assuming that I’m one of many people (of all genders) with similar desires. V x V x | |||
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"I'm looking to meet someone more permanent on here. Dating sites aren't working as they are either attached or looking for hookups and nsa" This is so true Misswoods | |||
"I'm looking to meet someone more permanent on here. Dating sites aren't working as they are either attached or looking for hookups and nsa This is so true Misswoods "Pretty much given up on them tbh. I'm staying here. At least people are honest about what they are looking for. I've had a few on dating apps than think because I'm on fab they are entitled to a hook up on there and here. And for those why complain that this isn't a dating site, technically you are correct, however, people use the site for their own needs, not those of others. Plenty of people on here have met and got together, some even married. So there is hope lol. | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim "So true 
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"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age? "Why no, I’m older than you and I’m positive I will find that. Although I don’t mind doing the laundry | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
Why no, I’m older than you and I’m positive I will find that. Although I don’t mind doing the laundry "*not | |||
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"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x I have no interest in speaking for you, niether do I have any interest in speaking for anyone, niether do I have any interest in stereotyping anything or anyone, what I said is the truth based on the general statistics of divorce rates, are there exceptions to the rule , definitely yes but that does not mean the rule is not correct. Lies, damn lies and statistics. I suspect if you pulled research on divorce statistics you could be able to “prove” many things. But one thing you can’t prove is that a “woman must like a guy to have sex with them”. That simply isn’t the case. You could say perhaps that your perception is that more women need some kind of connection than a man. I’m a woman that would like a sexually non-monogamous relationship, but I’m very happy fucking people in clubs I know nothing about. That may mean I’m the exception that proves the rule, but since I doubt there’s anything exceptional about me I’m just assuming that I’m one of many people (of all genders) with similar desires. V x V x " No lies at all , we are saying the same thing using different statements, that thing you call "some kind of connection" is the " some form of feelings" I am talking about. It is not a perception , it is reality in my opinion. Yeah I agree a lady who is a swinger can just meet a guy in the swingers club and fuck him, but even then some of my female friends who are swingers would argue that the ladies who are swingers might not mind some form of relationship like going to the movies or dinner if this were possible even if they have to go with their husbands and the guy at the same time, this is difficult to prove I agree and I will look at this as their opinion. My experience is, even in this case if you keep fucking the lady everyday if proximity and time allows , those feelings will creep in for the ladies, this is also difficult to prove. For guys, after the sex that's when their third eyes begin to open and they begin to see the lady a little clearer for who she really is , if they get into a relationship or marriage then they see the lady even more clearer and realise , oh no I can't build anything with this lady, infact all her flaws come out and then when they realise their life has become hell despite all their money and when they can't find any reason to stay they head for the courts, irrespective of how expensive or cheap depending on how smart the guy was in the beginning, this is based on the statistics of divorces. All this is avoidable if the guys keep to the fun only in my opinion because that's all a majority of guys want, be successful and have fun, although I still agree there are exceptions to the rule and there will always be exceptions to every rule. | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x I have no interest in speaking for you, niether do I have any interest in speaking for anyone, niether do I have any interest in stereotyping anything or anyone, what I said is the truth based on the general statistics of divorce rates, are there exceptions to the rule , definitely yes but that does not mean the rule is not correct. Lies, damn lies and statistics. I suspect if you pulled research on divorce statistics you could be able to “prove” many things. But one thing you can’t prove is that a “woman must like a guy to have sex with them”. That simply isn’t the case. You could say perhaps that your perception is that more women need some kind of connection than a man. I’m a woman that would like a sexually non-monogamous relationship, but I’m very happy fucking people in clubs I know nothing about. That may mean I’m the exception that proves the rule, but since I doubt there’s anything exceptional about me I’m just assuming that I’m one of many people (of all genders) with similar desires. V x V x No lies at all , we are saying the same thing using different statements, that thing you call "some kind of connection" is the " some form of feelings" I am talking about. It is not a perception , it is reality in my opinion. Yeah I agree a lady who is a swinger can just meet a guy in the swingers club and fuck him, but even then some of my female friends who are swingers would argue that the ladies who are swingers might not mind some form of relationship like going to the movies or dinner if this were possible even if they have to go with their husbands and the guy at the same time, this is difficult to prove I agree and I will look at this as their opinion. My experience is, even in this case if you keep fucking the lady everyday if proximity and time allows , those feelings will creep in for the ladies, this is also difficult to prove. For guys, after the sex that's when their third eyes begin to open and they begin to see the lady a little clearer for who she really is , if they get into a relationship or marriage then they see the lady even more clearer and realise , oh no I can't build anything with this lady, infact all her flaws come out and then when they realise their life has become hell despite all their money and when they can't find any reason to stay they head for the courts, irrespective of how expensive or cheap depending on how smart the guy was in the beginning, this is based on the statistics of divorces. All this is avoidable if the guys keep to the fun only in my opinion because that's all a majority of guys want, be successful and have fun, although I still agree there are exceptions to the rule and there will always be exceptions to every rule. " That last comment if yours speaks volumes about your opinion of women. I totally disagree with most of what you've said, I do not want a relationship and alot of women I know don't. You cannot speak for 'most' people, you can say what your friends think but they are not the only ones whose opinions matter. | |||
"I'm looking to meet someone more permanent on here. Dating sites aren't working as they are either attached or looking for hookups and nsa This is so true Misswoods "To be honest with you I think I'll stick to riding my bike. Maybe the real world with people that have shared interest is the way to go. Who knows | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age? "Solo Polyamory. Date people who already have a primary partner and have no primary partner yourself. I have dated men as a Poly person myself who want similar things to you, even if just for a period in their life. | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
Solo Polyamory. Date people who already have a primary partner and have no primary partner yourself. I have dated men as a Poly person myself who want similar things to you, even if just for a period in their life."How would I go about finding that? And also you're 27 and hot - I doubt it would be as easy for me! | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
Why no, I’m older than you and I’m positive I will find that. Although I don’t mind doing the laundry "If you do the laundry then they will be moved in your house in no time
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"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
Why no, I’m older than you and I’m positive I will find that. Although I don’t mind doing the laundry
If you do the laundry then they will be moved in your house in no time
"I live in a shared house but I really miss living with someone. Me and my ex hubby parted 4 years ago and I miss it sometimes. | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x I have no interest in speaking for you, niether do I have any interest in speaking for anyone, niether do I have any interest in stereotyping anything or anyone, what I said is the truth based on the general statistics of divorce rates, are there exceptions to the rule , definitely yes but that does not mean the rule is not correct. Lies, damn lies and statistics. I suspect if you pulled research on divorce statistics you could be able to “prove” many things. But one thing you can’t prove is that a “woman must like a guy to have sex with them”. That simply isn’t the case. You could say perhaps that your perception is that more women need some kind of connection than a man. I’m a woman that would like a sexually non-monogamous relationship, but I’m very happy fucking people in clubs I know nothing about. That may mean I’m the exception that proves the rule, but since I doubt there’s anything exceptional about me I’m just assuming that I’m one of many people (of all genders) with similar desires. V x V x No lies at all , we are saying the same thing using different statements, that thing you call "some kind of connection" is the " some form of feelings" I am talking about. It is not a perception , it is reality in my opinion. Yeah I agree a lady who is a swinger can just meet a guy in the swingers club and fuck him, but even then some of my female friends who are swingers would argue that the ladies who are swingers might not mind some form of relationship like going to the movies or dinner if this were possible even if they have to go with their husbands and the guy at the same time, this is difficult to prove I agree and I will look at this as their opinion. My experience is, even in this case if you keep fucking the lady everyday if proximity and time allows , those feelings will creep in for the ladies, this is also difficult to prove. For guys, after the sex that's when their third eyes begin to open and they begin to see the lady a little clearer for who she really is , if they get into a relationship or marriage then they see the lady even more clearer and realise , oh no I can't build anything with this lady, infact all her flaws come out and then when they realise their life has become hell despite all their money and when they can't find any reason to stay they head for the courts, irrespective of how expensive or cheap depending on how smart the guy was in the beginning, this is based on the statistics of divorces. All this is avoidable if the guys keep to the fun only in my opinion because that's all a majority of guys want, be successful and have fun, although I still agree there are exceptions to the rule and there will always be exceptions to every rule. That last comment if yours speaks volumes about your opinion of women. I totally disagree with most of what you've said, I do not want a relationship and alot of women I know don't. You cannot speak for 'most' people, you can say what your friends think but they are not the only ones whose opinions matter. " I tend to agree with you re this poster’s opinion of women. But hey. He’s entitled to his opinion.
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"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x I have no interest in speaking for you, niether do I have any interest in speaking for anyone, niether do I have any interest in stereotyping anything or anyone, what I said is the truth based on the general statistics of divorce rates, are there exceptions to the rule , definitely yes but that does not mean the rule is not correct. Lies, damn lies and statistics. I suspect if you pulled research on divorce statistics you could be able to “prove” many things. But one thing you can’t prove is that a “woman must like a guy to have sex with them”. That simply isn’t the case. You could say perhaps that your perception is that more women need some kind of connection than a man. I’m a woman that would like a sexually non-monogamous relationship, but I’m very happy fucking people in clubs I know nothing about. That may mean I’m the exception that proves the rule, but since I doubt there’s anything exceptional about me I’m just assuming that I’m one of many people (of all genders) with similar desires. V x V x No lies at all , we are saying the same thing using different statements, that thing you call "some kind of connection" is the " some form of feelings" I am talking about. It is not a perception , it is reality in my opinion. Yeah I agree a lady who is a swinger can just meet a guy in the swingers club and fuck him, but even then some of my female friends who are swingers would argue that the ladies who are swingers might not mind some form of relationship like going to the movies or dinner if this were possible even if they have to go with their husbands and the guy at the same time, this is difficult to prove I agree and I will look at this as their opinion. My experience is, even in this case if you keep fucking the lady everyday if proximity and time allows , those feelings will creep in for the ladies, this is also difficult to prove. For guys, after the sex that's when their third eyes begin to open and they begin to see the lady a little clearer for who she really is , if they get into a relationship or marriage then they see the lady even more clearer and realise , oh no I can't build anything with this lady, infact all her flaws come out and then when they realise their life has become hell despite all their money and when they can't find any reason to stay they head for the courts, irrespective of how expensive or cheap depending on how smart the guy was in the beginning, this is based on the statistics of divorces. All this is avoidable if the guys keep to the fun only in my opinion because that's all a majority of guys want, be successful and have fun, although I still agree there are exceptions to the rule and there will always be exceptions to every rule. " Did someone hurt you in the past because it really sounds like it? You have such low opinions of women it’s hard to read tbh. | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
Solo Polyamory. Date people who already have a primary partner and have no primary partner yourself. I have dated men as a Poly person myself who want similar things to you, even if just for a period in their life.
How would I go about finding that?
And also you're 27 and hot - I doubt it would be as easy for me!"There are Poly socials in some areas. There's also an app called feeld for non-monogamous dating. Haha! Thank you but I know Polyamorous people of all ages. If it's something that interests you I can give you names of a couple of older Polyamorous bloggers. | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
Solo Polyamory. Date people who already have a primary partner and have no primary partner yourself. I have dated men as a Poly person myself who want similar things to you, even if just for a period in their life.
How would I go about finding that?
And also you're 27 and hot - I doubt it would be as easy for me!
There are Poly socials in some areas. There's also an app called feeld for non-monogamous dating. Haha! Thank you but I know Polyamorous people of all ages. If it's something that interests you I can give you names of a couple of older Polyamorous bloggers."I like Feeld but that’s for all types of dating/sex/etc. Met some lovely people from there. | |||
If you meet someone who you really hit it off with, be open with them and let them know that you’d like more than just a single meet. Don’t try to rush, a relationship will develop naturally, just like it does in the vanilla world. Above all though, the key to finding a successful relationship, here or anywhere else, is honesty and communication | |||
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"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x I have no interest in speaking for you, niether do I have any interest in speaking for anyone, niether do I have any interest in stereotyping anything or anyone, what I said is the truth based on the general statistics of divorce rates, are there exceptions to the rule , definitely yes but that does not mean the rule is not correct. Lies, damn lies and statistics. I suspect if you pulled research on divorce statistics you could be able to “prove” many things. But one thing you can’t prove is that a “woman must like a guy to have sex with them”. That simply isn’t the case. You could say perhaps that your perception is that more women need some kind of connection than a man. I’m a woman that would like a sexually non-monogamous relationship, but I’m very happy fucking people in clubs I know nothing about. That may mean I’m the exception that proves the rule, but since I doubt there’s anything exceptional about me I’m just assuming that I’m one of many people (of all genders) with similar desires. V x V x No lies at all , we are saying the same thing using different statements, that thing you call "some kind of connection" is the " some form of feelings" I am talking about. It is not a perception , it is reality in my opinion. Yeah I agree a lady who is a swinger can just meet a guy in the swingers club and fuck him, but even then some of my female friends who are swingers would argue that the ladies who are swingers might not mind some form of relationship like going to the movies or dinner if this were possible even if they have to go with their husbands and the guy at the same time, this is difficult to prove I agree and I will look at this as their opinion. My experience is, even in this case if you keep fucking the lady everyday if proximity and time allows , those feelings will creep in for the ladies, this is also difficult to prove. For guys, after the sex that's when their third eyes begin to open and they begin to see the lady a little clearer for who she really is , if they get into a relationship or marriage then they see the lady even more clearer and realise , oh no I can't build anything with this lady, infact all her flaws come out and then when they realise their life has become hell despite all their money and when they can't find any reason to stay they head for the courts, irrespective of how expensive or cheap depending on how smart the guy was in the beginning, this is based on the statistics of divorces. All this is avoidable if the guys keep to the fun only in my opinion because that's all a majority of guys want, be successful and have fun, although I still agree there are exceptions to the rule and there will always be exceptions to every rule. Did someone hurt you in the past because it really sounds like it? You have such low opinions of women it’s hard to read tbh. " It's not like that at all , I see it as being objective based on current trends in the world today. If I show you a bridge over a river and I told you that one out of every two people that crossed that bridge fell into the river, I believe you will sit up and determine if it is necessary to cross that bridge and if it is, what can you do to ensure you don't fall into the river and if you fall into the river, what can you do to ensure you survive that fall. It is the same thing here, divorce court statistics show that one in every two marriages ends in divorce and ask the very successful men to show you what happened to them when this happened, so why would I walk blindly into that situation when I can achieve everything I want without being in that situation. That's all this is. | |||
"Guys make a lot of mistakes because they are not honest to themselves, do you want to date someone or do you want someone you can play with anytime you want, the ladies need to date, guys only want to play and most guys date just to play, I can be honest with myself that I don't want the dating , I just want ladies I can play with anytime I want, without the mine field of the dating and I don't want just one lady, I can be honest with myself like this, once I can honestly identify my objective without deceiving myself I can achieve my aim I disagree with the sexual stereotyping, I think it applies for both men and women, but agree wholehearted that if only people weren’t afraid of being honest about what they are looking for, it would make things much happier and easier to navigate. I also think the “what you’re looking for” can change depending on what you find. V x There is no sexual stereotyping ,what I have said is the honest truth ,the truth is a gentleman who knows that he will prevail at the end of the day. If you take a ladies pussy and place it on a wall , most guys will forget the ladies and marry the wall, despite the fact that the wall cannot talk, might even be the best marriage they ever had lol. This is the way most guys are , this is the way we are built,ladies find this impossible to do , because a lady must like a guy to play with him, a guy can play with a lady without liking anything about her. I have observed a lot of ladies on my journey and they just can't do it,it is hard for them to just play without some form of feelings . I can be honest to myself, really and truly do I want the relationship, the answer is no, I just want the fun. I say again. Sexual stereotyping. “Most women”. “Most men”. It is perfectly acceptable for you to speak for yourself, and be honest and open about what you want. But please do not speak for me. I can fuck who I like with or without feelings (there is no “must” about it) and I suspect there are many other people of different genders who can and do. V x I have no interest in speaking for you, niether do I have any interest in speaking for anyone, niether do I have any interest in stereotyping anything or anyone, what I said is the truth based on the general statistics of divorce rates, are there exceptions to the rule , definitely yes but that does not mean the rule is not correct. Lies, damn lies and statistics. I suspect if you pulled research on divorce statistics you could be able to “prove” many things. But one thing you can’t prove is that a “woman must like a guy to have sex with them”. That simply isn’t the case. You could say perhaps that your perception is that more women need some kind of connection than a man. I’m a woman that would like a sexually non-monogamous relationship, but I’m very happy fucking people in clubs I know nothing about. That may mean I’m the exception that proves the rule, but since I doubt there’s anything exceptional about me I’m just assuming that I’m one of many people (of all genders) with similar desires. V x V x No lies at all , we are saying the same thing using different statements, that thing you call "some kind of connection" is the " some form of feelings" I am talking about. It is not a perception , it is reality in my opinion. Yeah I agree a lady who is a swinger can just meet a guy in the swingers club and fuck him, but even then some of my female friends who are swingers would argue that the ladies who are swingers might not mind some form of relationship like going to the movies or dinner if this were possible even if they have to go with their husbands and the guy at the same time, this is difficult to prove I agree and I will look at this as their opinion. My experience is, even in this case if you keep fucking the lady everyday if proximity and time allows , those feelings will creep in for the ladies, this is also difficult to prove. For guys, after the sex that's when their third eyes begin to open and they begin to see the lady a little clearer for who she really is , if they get into a relationship or marriage then they see the lady even more clearer and realise , oh no I can't build anything with this lady, infact all her flaws come out and then when they realise their life has become hell despite all their money and when they can't find any reason to stay they head for the courts, irrespective of how expensive or cheap depending on how smart the guy was in the beginning, this is based on the statistics of divorces. All this is avoidable if the guys keep to the fun only in my opinion because that's all a majority of guys want, be successful and have fun, although I still agree there are exceptions to the rule and there will always be exceptions to every rule. Did someone hurt you in the past because it really sounds like it? You have such low opinions of women it’s hard to read tbh. It's not like that at all , I see it as being objective based on current trends in the world today. If I show you a bridge over a river and I told you that one out of every two people that crossed that bridge fell into the river, I believe you will sit up and determine if it is necessary to cross that bridge and if it is, what can you do to ensure you don't fall into the river and if you fall into the river, what can you do to ensure you survive that fall. It is the same thing here, divorce court statistics show that one in every two marriages ends in divorce and ask the very successful men to show you what happened to them when this happened, so why would I walk blindly into that situation when I can achieve everything I want without being in that situation. That's all this is." That’s very calculated but you are very honest, see more people thinking like this in the world, I get you even though I don’t like the thought process | |||
" It's not like that at all , I see it as being objective based on current trends in the world today. If I show you a bridge over a river and I told you that one out of every two people that crossed that bridge fell into the river, I believe you will sit up and determine if it is necessary to cross that bridge and if it is, what can you do to ensure you don't fall into the river and if you fall into the river, what can you do to ensure you survive that fall. It is the same thing here, divorce court statistics show that one in every two marriages ends in divorce and ask the very successful men to show you what happened to them when this happened, so why would I walk blindly into that situation when I can achieve everything I want without being in that situation. That's all this is." Ok, the river analogy, what if on the other side of the river is the most amazing thing you can imagine, that's why people risk it. Now, personally, that's not what I'm looking for but for you to be so openly bitter and quite honestly, you seem to have an underlying dislike for women (i may be way off the mark but that's how I've taken what you've been saying), there must have been some kind of situation that has made you feel this way. | |||
" It's not like that at all , I see it as being objective based on current trends in the world today. If I show you a bridge over a river and I told you that one out of every two people that crossed that bridge fell into the river, I believe you will sit up and determine if it is necessary to cross that bridge and if it is, what can you do to ensure you don't fall into the river and if you fall into the river, what can you do to ensure you survive that fall. It is the same thing here, divorce court statistics show that one in every two marriages ends in divorce and ask the very successful men to show you what happened to them when this happened, so why would I walk blindly into that situation when I can achieve everything I want without being in that situation. That's all this is. Ok, the river analogy, what if on the other side of the river is the most amazing thing you can imagine, that's why people risk it. Now, personally, that's not what I'm looking for but for you to be so openly bitter and quite honestly, you seem to have an underlying dislike for women (i may be way off the mark but that's how I've taken what you've been saying), there must have been some kind of situation that has made you feel this way." There is nothing amazing on the other side if I fall into the river unprepared, there is nothing bitter about me , I will tell every successful woman the same thing, don't go in blindly. | |||
" It's not like that at all , I see it as being objective based on current trends in the world today. If I show you a bridge over a river and I told you that one out of every two people that crossed that bridge fell into the river, I believe you will sit up and determine if it is necessary to cross that bridge and if it is, what can you do to ensure you don't fall into the river and if you fall into the river, what can you do to ensure you survive that fall. It is the same thing here, divorce court statistics show that one in every two marriages ends in divorce and ask the very successful men to show you what happened to them when this happened, so why would I walk blindly into that situation when I can achieve everything I want without being in that situation. That's all this is. Ok, the river analogy, what if on the other side of the river is the most amazing thing you can imagine, that's why people risk it. Now, personally, that's not what I'm looking for but for you to be so openly bitter and quite honestly, you seem to have an underlying dislike for women (i may be way off the mark but that's how I've taken what you've been saying), there must have been some kind of situation that has made you feel this way. There is nothing amazing on the other side if I fall into the river unprepared, there is nothing bitter about me , I will tell every successful woman the same thing, don't go in blindly." In what respect are these people successful? You mean in getting meets or in life? | |||
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"Morning! As a single guy with a kink for women that swing, I’m not having much luck with the usual dating apps (Bumble, etc.): people on them are just too vanilla! I’ve met some great couples in clubs, and been involved in some incredibly sexy scenes. From chats at clubs, it’s clear that Fab is the place to meet swinging peeps online. But my question is: is it also a good place to date single women who want to swing? Or is everyone loved-up already
All opinions welcome!
- ‘Stag’ (one day)"It could take a while but I've met some fantastic girls on here and had long term relationships with. Perseverance is the trick! Good luck! | |||
"Don’t you think though if you tell normal women what you do on here they will run a mile !" We are not “normal”? Jeez V x | |||
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"Don’t you think though if you tell normal women what you do on here they will run a mile ! We are not “normal”? Jeez V x " I'm quite abnormal and I love it! | |||
"Don’t you think though if you tell normal women what you do on here they will run a mile ! We are not “normal”? Jeez V x " hot pics I must say , I don’t mean to offend anyone not saying people are not normal I just mean a normal life style not fab life style x | |||
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" I’m a woman that would like a sexually non-monogamous relationship, but I’m very happy fucking people in clubs I know nothing about. That may mean I’m the exception that proves the rule, but since I doubt there’s anything exceptional about me I’m just assuming that I’m one of many people (of all genders) with similar desires. V x " This, exactly. Thanks, Virginie. | |||
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"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age? "I would hope so, that's what would suit me also ?? | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age? "This is totally where I'm at! The meets with people you know, where you can spend a night having food, watching (bits of!) a film and playing, happily sleep alongside them then go your separate ways are great. I don't want to have to worry about his mother's birthday or him to have me nagging him to jet wash the decking. But I do want someone to go to Temptations with! | |||
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"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
This is totally where I'm at! The meets with people you know, where you can spend a night having food, watching (bits of!) a film and playing, happily sleep alongside them then go your separate ways are great.
I don't want to have to worry about his mother's birthday or him to have me nagging him to jet wash the decking. But I do want someone to go to Temptations with!"That’s more like Fwb than a relationship | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
This is totally where I'm at! The meets with people you know, where you can spend a night having food, watching (bits of!) a film and playing, happily sleep alongside them then go your separate ways are great.
I don't want to have to worry about his mother's birthday or him to have me nagging him to jet wash the decking. But I do want someone to go to Temptations with!
That’s more like Fwb than a relationship " | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
This is totally where I'm at! The meets with people you know, where you can spend a night having food, watching (bits of!) a film and playing, happily sleep alongside them then go your separate ways are great.
I don't want to have to worry about his mother's birthday or him to have me nagging him to jet wash the decking. But I do want someone to go to Temptations with!
That’s more like Fwb than a relationship "Yes I know - I mentioned earlier on that I'm not looking for a relationship. I was responding to what the earlier poster had said. | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
This is totally where I'm at! The meets with people you know, where you can spend a night having food, watching (bits of!) a film and playing, happily sleep alongside them then go your separate ways are great.
I don't want to have to worry about his mother's birthday or him to have me nagging him to jet wash the decking. But I do want someone to go to Temptations with!"This is what I'd like too. | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
This is totally where I'm at! The meets with people you know, where you can spend a night having food, watching (bits of!) a film and playing, happily sleep alongside them then go your separate ways are great.
I don't want to have to worry about his mother's birthday or him to have me nagging him to jet wash the decking. But I do want someone to go to Temptations with!
This is what I'd like too."I do it. Works well for me and him | |||
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"Me and my partner met on here it's good we like the same things." lovely xx | |||
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"I met my ex and my current girlfriend on here, it can and it does happen for lots of people. That's one of the things that has changed on here over the years; increasing numbers of singles openly looking for partners. Dating isn't a dirty word anymore. " exactly this. I’ve met 2 guys here I’ve had long term emotional relationships with.
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"I've dated off fab... wasn't looking for it. Just happened. Can't date in the vanilla world... each time i try it is dire Beyond dire. Try clubs... more likely to meet a singleton. Good luck OP" And you are very much my type xx | |||
"Having been on and off this site in over ten years I have had two long term partners from this site. Alas am on the look again Well you’re in bloody great shape for a fellow old fart! I’m sure a lucky local lady will find you soon!
Oh and op - yes - some of us singles are hoping for a relationship that involves swinging rather than monogamy! "Yes please you are stunning xx | |||
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"Why doesnt someone just sets post up for people who want to date.. no meets just chat and get to know 1 another??? "Already been done | |||
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"I think i wanna date... altho no idea who or how.... boyfriend pillow currently bein purchased" That reminds me new pillows needed!! Plus sheet | |||
"I think i wanna date... altho no idea who or how.... boyfriend pillow currently bein purchased That reminds me new pillows needed!! Plus sheet "Can't beat new bedding | |||
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"I'm recently separated , my ex & I had a great time meeting people from fab & at clubs . I've tried the normal dating sites but it's hard meeting someone who has the same liberal non vanilla attitude to sex in a loving relationship . Perhaps a section for people who would actually like to meet a like minded partner could work xxx " Something that has been asked for lots of times but so far it’s not happened yet. V x | |||
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"I'm recently separated , my ex & I had a great time meeting people from fab & at clubs . I've tried the normal dating sites but it's hard meeting someone who has the same liberal non vanilla attitude to sex in a loving relationship . Perhaps a section for people who would actually like to meet a like minded partner could work xxx Something that has been asked for lots of times but so far it’s not happened yet. V x " Can but hope V xx | |||
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"A lot of us think we want to date, then when we date, we get bored very quickly. Mainly because people are rather generic & dull so we come back on here for the thrill of new partners. Having a play partner, or a lover that you play with as a couple doesn't remove those desires. I know from long term experience. In my view there's a threshold and once you cross it, going back to 'normal' dating is very hard/impossible. I go on LOADS of dates, either from here or more vanilla sources, but I always gravitate back to the recreational sex side of things. We all want a bit of love though, when all is said & done." Agreed and why I want a relationship where we explore this together as well as the normal couple things you do. | |||
"A lot of us think we want to date, then when we date, we get bored very quickly. Mainly because people are rather generic & dull so we come back on here for the thrill of new partners. Having a play partner, or a lover that you play with as a couple doesn't remove those desires. I know from long term experience. In my view there's a threshold and once you cross it, going back to 'normal' dating is very hard/impossible. I go on LOADS of dates, either from here or more vanilla sources, but I always gravitate back to the recreational sex side of things. We all want a bit of love though, when all is said & done." This can be true if you let it. But if you are both of the same naughty mindset you can keep the relationship fresh. I just think you haven’t met the right girl. Fab has changed me and my perspective of what I want and now I am much more confident and therefore able to express my desires, and act on them. Something I wouldn’t have done before. | |||
"A lot of us think we want to date, then when we date, we get bored very quickly. Mainly because people are rather generic & dull so we come back on here for the thrill of new partners. Having a play partner, or a lover that you play with as a couple doesn't remove those desires. I know from long term experience. In my view there's a threshold and once you cross it, going back to 'normal' dating is very hard/impossible. I go on LOADS of dates, either from here or more vanilla sources, but I always gravitate back to the recreational sex side of things. We all want a bit of love though, when all is said & done. This can be true if you let it. But if you are both of the same naughty mindset you can keep the relationship fresh. I just think you haven’t met the right girl. Fab has changed me and my perspective of what I want and now I am much more confident and therefore able to express my desires, and act on them. Something I wouldn’t have done before. " Well, I was in a 5 year open/play style relationship but that ended a few years ago. Then I embarked on a poly relationship with 2 women which ended just over a year ago so the point about "finding the right girl" is moot. I have a number of ongoing play partners, one of whom I've been seeing for over 2 years so finding the right scenario may well be true. Part of the problem for me is location - I currently live in Norfolk which is a deadzone for interesting/the aforementioned right girl so I travel to meet people all the time. I don't mind, but it does take us back to your point I guess | |||
"I don't know what I want anymore. I don't want conventional relationship - or live with anyone or be involved with their family. I dont want the monotony of daily life with someone - doing their laundry and watching TV. But I do want someone to go on holiday with, go on nights out with and of course have a fantastic sex life with. Is it possible at my age?
I would hope so, that's what would suit me also ??"I'm not sure it exists. The men I've met in here don't want anything other than a fuck. That's fine - I'm here to have a sex life that satisfies me. But the problem is it is no longer satisfying. I'm tired of spending weekends on my own - planning a meet because I'm lonely and it ultimately makes me feel worse
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"I’ve been on a few Tinder dates-Jesus,it’s no wonder some of them are single! They bored me to tears(I was a gentleman and courteous during the meet). The social meet wasn’t a problem-I just wanted more ‘spark’,a lady with a fire in her belly. Laughter,being close,attractive and sharing daft moments.Why is it so hard to find someone like that?" This you'd think it would be easy | |||
"I’ve been on a few Tinder dates-Jesus,it’s no wonder some of them are single! They bored me to tears(I was a gentleman and courteous during the meet). The social meet wasn’t a problem-I just wanted more ‘spark’,a lady with a fire in her belly. Laughter,being close,attractive and sharing daft moments.Why is it so hard to find someone like that?" I had the same issues with Tinder last summer, when I decided to date a bit, I’m retired now, ha! I don’t think it’s down to the app though and rather the guys themselves. Absolutely nothing about them apart from physical attraction. | |||
"I think i wanna date... altho no idea who or how.... boyfriend pillow currently bein purchased That reminds me new pillows needed!! Plus sheet
Can't beat new bedding"Always nice to sleep on for the first time but soon gets ruined  | |||
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