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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For 18 I think I can go long enough but would love to last a little longer. Any tips on how to not blow my load as fast?"
serious question, you say you think you can go long enough, how long is that?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For 18 I think I can go long enough but would love to last a little longer. Any tips on how to not blow my load as fast?
serious question, you say you think you can go long enough, how long is that?
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Never timed it but maybe 15-20 minutes including receiving a blowjob. Appearance of the girl does change things.I know it's normal for my age but would still like to last longer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you can get numbing sprays and condoms that will delay it a lot
there is some chinese herbal formulas and stuff too, but warning they can make it so numb its hard to get it hard at all !"
if you do use delay spray do not let the women suck you cock after you have sprayed it on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For 18 I think I can go long enough but would love to last a little longer. Any tips on how to not blow my load as fast?
serious question, you say you think you can go long enough, how long is that?
Never timed it but maybe 15-20 minutes including receiving a blowjob. Appearance of the girl does change things.I know it's normal for my age but would still like to last longer "
hummmm shag ugly birds? 
Nah seriously you just need to pace yourself, when you feel like you getting to the point, slow down, maybe stop and go back to licking the lady give your cock time to calm down and go back to shagging, remember all because you have started with the penetrative sex that does not mean you have to stay with that till you cum, you can stop and do other things and go back to it, several times if needed  |
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as above. i find that works a treat. when u feel the rivers are ready to flow...
just back off. what u will find is a more intense climax & helps u control ur orgasms. prolonged over a few hours is the most amazing experience...like when u 1st had an orgasm & ur nose stats twitching & ur eyes squint  (yeah like that, lol).... hell go tantric....enlighten urself to another sexual dimension. (ooommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slam the wardrobe door on it, that usually works for me, or just revert to old time proved tactics and have a couple of wanks before you meet.
Seriously though, it is perfectly normal, and more importantly, lots of ladies love to see a young guy ejaculate, especially if you're ready to go again straight away, as most young guys will
Don't wish your life away mate, enjoy growing up, savour the good times and revell in your sexual experiences   |
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Nothing like a long lazy day of fucking, with little breaks in between and then go at it again.
The old make her cum, let her rest and as you calm down, then ramp it up again, usually after a while you both start floating above the bed and no more need to put quarters into the vibrating bed slot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing like a long lazy day of fucking, with little breaks in between and then go at it again.
The old make her cum, let her rest and as you calm down, then ramp it up again, usually after a while you both start floating above the
bed and no more need to put quarters into the vibrating bed slot."
Us women don't need a rest after cumming. though lol
To op you have to remember that for most your length of time is ideal.. some will want you to go again ... Some will Call it a day...
Practise yourself.. get yourself to The edge and find ways to cool off but without exactly stopping... Ie learn to be on the brink but you control if You cum or not.... It takes time but can be learned.
By 20mins is way longer than a lot last.
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By (user no longer on site)
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15 minutes my wife would love you, there was once upon a time the wife said I was to quick but now its the other way and she says I take too long. We were on over an hour the other night, I'm thinking its ok but she says far too long. What do you all think |
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"15 minutes my wife would love you, there was once upon a time the wife said I was to quick but now its the other way and she says I take too long. We were on over an hour the other night, I'm thinking its ok but she says far too long. What do you all think"
Don't matter what we think, you're the one who has to shag your missus.
If she wants a quicky, give her a quicky |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think men get to hung up on how long they last... If you cum quickly this can then lead to even quicker... Then you get guys that end up that they will go hours without cumming..
Now I Can easily go hours and have done many a long session but not with a play meet... I think that guys need to stop pressuring themselves so much.
Ideal is able to cum quick when required or take longer when time permits.... I love cum and my master can cum quick, slow or often... But sometimes will make me beg.. talking ages of taking me beyond the edge but not cumming.... Not till he thinks I've begged enough... This is both torture and pleasure.
Learn your own body.... As once you have control over it... Then you are getting there.
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By (user no longer on site)
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mix it up a little bit...
10-15 mins of shagging... then go down on her, finger her..
change positions and carry on shagging.. makes for some fun sex and generally tends to increase the duration of fun!
finger, lick, fuck... finger, lick, fuck- repeat if necessary
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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Learn your own body.... As once you have control over it... Then you are getting there.
Cali "
 absolutely - being 18 you've got years ahead to learn about yourself fully and there's no better teacher than your own practical experience.
Try varying position - some positions are just lethal and make you come so fast. Others have lesser sensation or lesser penetrative depth and varying amongst those can sometimes help prolong things. 'Edging' alongside that will help you really stretch the saddle time out, but don't go too far with it or you could find yourself lasting an hour.. or more which can be kind of a curse at times
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For 18 I think I can go long enough but would love to last a little longer. Any tips on how to not blow my load as fast?
serious question, you say you think you can go long enough, how long is that?
Never timed it but maybe 15-20 minutes including receiving a blowjob. Appearance of the girl does change things.I know it's normal for my age but would still like to last longer
hummmm shag ugly birds?
Nah seriously you just need to pace yourself, when you feel like you getting to the point, slow down, maybe stop and go back to licking the lady give your cock time to calm down and go back to shagging, remember all because you have started with the penetrative sex that does not mean you have to stay with that till you cum, you can stop and do other things and go back to it, several times if needed "
yeah thats great advice, i do like to last ages and make the most of my meets, and if you want to, its a class idea to keep switching things up, i never really have a problem with blowing my loads before i want to as it takes me alot of effort to get there so can last ages, but if you want someone to keep up with you and not get too soare, switching positions and going back to oral in between things gives a great rest (especially if your doing all the work! lol) and keeps things interesting for her
i think when i was 18 it would of helped me last alot younger too,
now i just do it to make sure if things go too long it dont get repetitive and boring, but sure wud of helped in my younger days when sometimes it just did what it wanted haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Us women don't need a rest after cumming. though lol
To op you have to remember that for most your length of time is ideal.. some will want you to go again ... Some will Call it a day...
Practise yourself.. get yourself to The edge and find ways to cool off but without exactly stopping... Ie learn to be on the brink but you control if You cum or not.... It takes time but can be learned.
By 20mins is way longer than a lot last.
Cali "
yeah this is good too, the content of the 20 mins means alot too, i gather 10-15 min canny average, but although alot of ladies do like to be put through alot and keep going if you can last ages, some dont and last thing you want is you raring to get going for your final few laps and she needs to take a break and she dont get back to it later haha
if they have to rest, chances are in most cases they probs had enough till next time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The male speaking....
Self awareness is the key to gaining control over when you ejaculate and this comes with time and experience. How much time and experience depends on the type of person you are, and the fact that you are able to ask advice in the first place suggests that you will be one of those fortunate guys who gain control sooner, rather than later.
All the best to you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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you can neva win mate you get to the stage were you go for hours then she thinks its because she not that good looking then you cum to soon and she still not happy just go for it my boy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you can neva win mate you get to the stage were you go for hours then she thinks its because she not that good looking then you cum to soon and she still not happy just go for it my boy lol"
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"you can neva win mate you get to the stage were you go for hours then she thinks its because she not that good looking then you cum to soon and she still not happy just go for it my boy lol"
Blimey, have we met? |
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