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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A couple sent me a friendship request. I don't accept requests without a message as I like to have an idea of the person who added me. I sent a message stating this and got no reply so I deleted the request.
The same couple have sent me another request. Once again, I decided to send a message, only to be greeted with a site message saying that I should think twice before messaging.
Now wait a minute...
I think that's a little unfair considering I'm the one being approached! Shouldn't there be something similar when it comes to invites? Also, should I just block this couple as my gut is telling me "pic collecters?"
Thoughts please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had the same myself.
we sent a couple a message a little while aog and got nothing back, now they have sent a friend request out of the blue, and i went to send a message to be greeted with 'you sent these fuckers a message. you sure you want to waste more of your time?' site message.
sent anyway, be a giggle sure lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always go with your gut - it's rarely wrong "
Agreed...besides even if they are genuine and can't be bothered to write a simple message, even just as a return, you have ask yourself, is this a sign of things to come and will it frustrate me? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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They're new site messages for when you message someone and you don't get a reply. Probably created with single males in mind so I'm glad to see other groups receive this message too! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A couple sent me a friendship request. I don't accept requests without a message as I like to have an idea of the person who added me. I sent a message stating this and got no reply so I deleted the request.
The same couple have sent me another request. Once again, I decided to send a message, only to be greeted with a site message saying that I should think twice before messaging.
Now wait a minute...
I think that's a little unfair considering I'm the one being approached! Shouldn't there be something similar when it comes to invites? Also, should I just block this couple as my gut is telling me "pic collecters?"
Thoughts please. "
we block those that send friends invites who we dont know.. it states this on our profile so we know they haven;t read out profile - so they are not for us.
go with your instincts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're new site messages for when you message someone and you don't get a reply. Probably created with single males in mind so I'm glad to see other groups receive this message too! lol"
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Hmmmm, the joy of automated messages!
Nevermind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A couple sent me a friendship request. I don't accept requests without a message as I like to have an idea of the person who added me. I sent a message stating this and got no reply so I deleted the request.
The same couple have sent me another request. Once again, I decided to send a message, only to be greeted with a site message saying that I should think twice before messaging.
Now wait a minute...
I think that's a little unfair considering I'm the one being approached! Shouldn't there be something similar when it comes to invites? Also, should I just block this couple as my gut is telling me "pic collecters?"
Thoughts please. "
wait till they are offline add look at their photos then delete them again |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"They're new site messages for when you message someone and you don't get a reply. Probably created with single males in mind so I'm glad to see other groups receive this message too! lol"
I think they were created with pests in mind to be honest. No point in me messaging a couple who don't want to meet single females, is there?
If I get a friends request without a message, i just delete them. If they friend request again I leave them for a couple of days, then delete them. Some people on here have very short memories! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had the same dilemna myself re a message!
Check the link below - didn't think i'd get quite as much of a negative response but hey! lol
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/84653 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had the same dilemna myself re a message!
Check the link below - didn't think i'd get quite as much of a negative response but hey! lol
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/84653"
Yes! and in your thread AND this thread you ignored the link people gave you that explains the update!
Third time lucky maybe...
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/84416
kat |
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