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Interesting dynamics ? Exchange of power ?
or just plain kinky !
no idea or maybe a combination of all those three and loads of other reasons.
personally I love a younger lady to dominate me, and I love to dom ladies my own age !
but then I am odd (or am I) |
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Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.
I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...) |
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"Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.
I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...) "
Hilarious! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m guilty of said crimes, more mature women are just more attractive for me, i do prefer to be Dom by older women but taking turns is fun. I can only speak for myself but Yh older women all day |
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Well being dominant in the bedroom is fun, so I don't blame them.
That being said, just randomly asking someone to ask is cringy as hell. If they aren't interested in bdsm/power exchange then it's about as useful as asking a vegan out to a hot dog eating contest.
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"Well being dominant in the bedroom is fun, so I don't blame them.
That being said, just randomly asking someone to ask is cringy as hell. If they aren't interested in bdsm/power exchange then it's about as useful as asking a vegan out to a hot dog eating contest.
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Oh, but they're real manly men and we'll go weak at the knees at their bravado... uh, proposition. Fetch the smelling salts!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well being dominant in the bedroom is fun, so I don't blame them.
That being said, just randomly asking someone to ask is cringy as hell. If they aren't interested in bdsm/power exchange then it's about as useful as asking a vegan out to a hot dog eating contest.
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ive had that actually uhm no block list I don’t like let me Dom you as an opening message I usually reply to all messages but not that Mrscxxx |
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I’m really not very submissive I can be for hubby in the right circumstances. We do switch but I definitely have more Dom in me than he does.
A fantasy of mine is to have him and another man in complete control but he wouldn’t allow another Dom male in the bedroom
Mrscxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't really want to dom anyone, but half the time I get messaged it's from a couple that wants me to be their dom/bull. There's a lot of demand for young doms it seems"
Why? |
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"How about an equal partnership between an older woman and younger man? I've had a few of those, luckily"
Would love to have one of those, something about older women just excite me more, shame all the ones I’ve spoken too bottled meeting lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See for me being Dom gives me the power and control that I need. When I do sub for hubs I hate being degraded there is being a Dom and there’s being a dick my ex was Dom but he was an arse with it and I hate that
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"See for me being Dom gives me the power and control that I need. When I do sub for hubs I hate being degraded there is being a Dom and there’s being a dick my ex was Dom but he was an arse with it and I hate that
Mrscxxx "
Being degraded isn't necessarily part of being submissive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well being dominant in the bedroom is fun, so I don't blame them.
That being said, just randomly asking someone to ask is cringy as hell. If they aren't interested in bdsm/power exchange then it's about as useful as asking a vegan out to a hot dog eating contest.
ive had that actually uhm no block list I don’t like let me Dom you as an opening message I usually reply to all messages but not that Mrscxxx "
Yeah that's sign #1 of a fake dom, bit of common sense says chat to the person first to see whattheir deal is, being a dom isn't the same thing ever time so it's just funny to watch people think they are hot shit from day 1.
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"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me
Mrscxxx "
depends what you class as an older woman as you stated you're only 31 not many people would class you as an older woman, older woman to me seems 50+ I could be wrong though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me
Mrscxxx depends what you class as an older woman as you stated you're only 31 not many people would class you as an older woman, older woman to me seems 50+ I could be wrong though "
32 tomorrow actually but no I’m not old I know that but still get younger men wanting to Dom like 18-30 obviously there younger than me
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"It's the age old story, them that can do, them that can't talk about it
Oh believe me I can Dom  so can hubs very well if the mood hits
Mrscxxx "
I was talkin' bout the young 'uns  |
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"It's the age old story, them that can do, them that can't talk about it
Oh believe me I can Dom so can hubs very well if the mood hits
Mrscxxx
I was talkin' bout the young 'uns "
Yes but it depends on witch end of the scale one puts there selves at don’t it? I class my self as a bright young woman others may see me as old
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"It's the age old story, them that can do, them that can't talk about it
Oh believe me I can Dom so can hubs very well if the mood hits
Mrscxxx
I was talkin' bout the young 'uns
Yes but it depends on witch end of the scale one puts there selves at don’t it? I class my self as a bright young woman others may see me as old
Mrscxxx "
Trouble with older people is they don't look at the profiles of those they are addressing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the author of 50 shades has a lot to answer for tbh
This the utter tosh that it is!
Yes! I'm glad it's not just me "
Mmmm 50 shades is amazing if I could have a man like mr grey I’d be happy :p
Hubby pleases me in every single way but doesn’t have mr Greys bank account that’s what I find the most sexy. But on the other end of the scale I’ve been in an abusive relationship and my ex was a complete and utter t**t waffle he was horrible he de graded me, put me down isolated me from freinds and family even threatened to kill me if I left him. What he did wen I was left him was much worse but not for fab forums. I know he’s on here because he’s on my block list after sending me a freind request
Mrscxxx
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"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me
Mrscxxx
Porn!"
Definitely also I think in the last few years. "That book" has a lot to answer for.
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"Here’s mr grey "
Uhm not like the mr grey in my fantasies
Mmmm talk dark and handsome with big hands hubs fits well when I imagine mr grey I see hubs with black hair
Mrscxxx |
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The word dom or sub on a profile is often an instant block for me, just incase. I don't want nor want to be either, particularly. Especially with someone I don't know. I am definitely never a sub for sure though  |
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"dom's are just idiots - young or old"
I mean, that's not true. There are a lot who play at it who could seriously hurt someone. But those who do it seriously and carefully don't deserve the same brush as the morons who want to slap me around and call it bdsm. |
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By *ilth500Man
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"dom's are just idiots - young or old
I mean, that's not true. There are a lot who play at it who could seriously hurt someone. But those who do it seriously and carefully don't deserve the same brush as the morons who want to slap me around and call it bdsm. "
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"dom's are just idiots - young or old
I mean, that's not true. There are a lot who play at it who could seriously hurt someone. But those who do it seriously and carefully don't deserve the same brush as the morons who want to slap me around and call it bdsm. "
I agree
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"Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.
I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...) "
Trust me 63 is not old lol |
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By *ilth500Man
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"Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.
I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...)
Trust me 63 is not old lol"
you look stunning xx |
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"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me
Mrscxxx "
Ok why don’t we flip the situation why do some women on their profiles state they want to Dom or ruin young guys |
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"Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.
I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...)
Trust me 63 is not old lol"
I said 30+ though, not 30. Sorry, no offence intended! Just kind of picked a number there. (I actually meet people in their 60s, so I agree, ha)
Most of my feeling when I get these messages is, you're the same age as my siblings/ cousins, piss off! |
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