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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve yet to experience that this is actually the case to that point am thinking of avoiding couples completely !!
What’s everyone’s experience of purely sat quietly in a corner or actually just watching like agreed?
I’ve found touching filming photos to the extreme of getting kit off and standing there waiting for invitation
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met with a few couples and all except one both took part. The one couple, they were both in the house but the guy just left us to it and wasn’t even in the same room. |
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"I’ve yet to experience that this is actually the case to that point am thinking of avoiding couples completely !!
What’s everyone’s experience of purely sat quietly in a corner or actually just watching like agreed?
I’ve found touching filming photos to the extreme of getting kit off and standing there waiting for invitation
Big shigh rolls eyes !!! "
I'm the Male half of a couple and I'd generally agree. Anita is planning to experiment with solo meets with women, and I'll not be going. If I was going to attend, then I'd expect to be taking part. Most likely, she will set up a single ladies profile and just contact women.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve yet to experience that this is actually the case to that point am thinking of avoiding couples completely !!
What’s everyone’s experience of purely sat quietly in a corner or actually just watching like agreed?
I’ve found touching filming photos to the extreme of getting kit off and standing there waiting for invitation
Big shigh rolls eyes !!!
I'm the Male half of a couple and I'd generally agree. Anita is planning to experiment with solo meets with women, and I'll not be going. If I was going to attend, then I'd expect to be taking part. Most likely, she will set up a single ladies profile and just contact women.
Cal"
Great approach all clear and if pre agreement that all join in that’s fine !! Just the expectation of the bending of rules in most of my exspereinces puts me off agreeing to that again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not part of a couple, but for me sitting in a corner dressed in a sharp tailoured suit sipping scotch whilst watching a couple get lost in each other putting o a private show just for me is a huge turn on for me. Making eye contact every now and then just to give encouragement. No wanking or anything...just quietly watching, mesmerised by their sexual depravity.
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Mr normally sits and watches. For us it's the build up after hes watched me enjoying myself it's the after sex where he's been frustrated. our meets it's just about me playing, the mr doesnt normally play just watches unless he plays with me. |
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Somewhat of the different side of the situation but I’ve met a few couples who have wanted to be watched and I’ve been more than happy to, usually I’m allowed to masturbate and leave when I’m ready! Never have a pushed the boundaries and yes, I’ve joined in but only when asked to |
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My guy stays fully clothed, does not play with himself and only ever watches from the sidelines.
Sometimes taking any previously agreed to pics , he doesn’t even try to direct , he just enjoys watching me enjoy.
I think if you go to a meet and it’s agreed that the other half doesn’t take part it’s kind of rude for them to put you in an awkward position by moving the goalposts mid meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met a few single women over the years and we've always been clear before the meet that it's both of us playing. Some women prefer this, and those that don't we don't meet. As long as everyone is completely honest at the outset it works just fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met and watched couples in the past,but i always have a meeting first and discuss what there bounderies are ,then there can be no misunderstandings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby with never agree to just watch, it frankly bores him and I’m not into putting on a show generally, with us it’s either everyone involved or no play x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been lucky enough to watch a husband and wife a couple of times and got to film as well. It was made clear from the start that there'd be no touching or joining in. We all knew where we stood and it worked well. Afterwards the wife put on a show for me so I could wank off! |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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We're set up this way, I (he) watch and never join in, never have. It's the third person view point I want to see Mrs N in, impossible If you join in so, no, that wouldn't be an issue with us, op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had several meets where the guy just watches us and wanks with no offer to join in.
Would love a female watcher to watch us and play with herself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last time we attended VA a guy watched us as Mrs rode me to a big orgasm. Was funny when he applauded at the end!!!"
I would love to watch you but i am outside your age range
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Have always been content to watch and not join in.
Had occasions when exactly this has happened and had occasions where I have been asked to take part.
Always agree first what the 'rules' are.
Always happy to be a respectful voyeur. |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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"I’ve yet to experience that this is actually the case to that point am thinking of avoiding couples completely !!
What’s everyone’s experience of purely sat quietly in a corner or actually just watching like agreed?
I’ve found touching filming photos to the extreme of getting kit off and standing there waiting for invitation
Big shigh rolls eyes !!! "
It's not for me. While I love to see S getting excited, and will.sometiems just be holding, kissing and looking I to her eyes, I couldn't just sit and not be involved as I wouldn't be able to keep my hands to myself. |
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I have had two meets where the idea was just for me to watch, which I would of been more than happy with.
However on both occasions I was invited to join in. So I can't claim to be the exception to the rule (maybe the wannabe exception) |
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