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over a year ago
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"Hi fabbers!
Weve been to clubs but fancy attending a private party. Has anyone been to one? What was it like and how do you find out about them?? "
I've been to a couple; they're normally relaxed to start the evening with drinks, chat and possibly a few naughty games to break the ice. Then at some point during the evening everyone relocates to the play areas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As there are no full time swingers clubs in Northern Ireland (I believe one opened/is opening in Derry/Londonderry, but its not an every week event) private house parties is how most of us get together here.
Invitation is normally by word of mouth or recommendations from other party goers.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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So its a case of getting yourself out there, making connections and seeing if anyone hosts parties. Makes sense.
Funnily enough we were thinking of having a break in NI but as there were no clubs we didn't bother! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you get to know about them - is it via fan connections?"
I have been invited to them by people I already knew from Fab, I've also been invited after messaging from seeing them posted in the meets; we chatted, got on and then I got an invite |
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Just make connections through friends or people you meet in swinger clubs. Obviously party hosts don't advertise. There will be party 'circuits' everywhere which is how many people swung before clubs became usual. Word of mouth is the way.
People have probably been having private group-sex gatherings throughout most of history. Some people need group fun! |
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We are in the process of organising a Saturday night party in three weeks time exclusively for mature couples (over 45's)who enjoy exhibitionism
The stipulation is "no skulking off to seperate rooms and no closed doors".
We are thinking of inviting two or three extra guys so that any of the more confident ladies can put on a show.
We live in a rural location so discretion is guaranteed.
G&A
P.S The location is North Midlands.
PPS Any couples not known to us will need to be verified.
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"Hi fabbers!
Weve been to clubs but fancy attending a private party. Has anyone been to one? What was it like and how do you find out about them?? "
Some are good some are bad it depends on who goes to the parties and if you are relaxed and get a connection with people. |
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We were invited personally.
Some are good some are bad. We would never go to one where there was no socialising only space and play was expected. It can be awkward if you don't find anyone compatible. |
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"We go to Radlett's parties, its like hybrid club/party, very relaxed & sociable along with lots of play areas.
You can find them in the club listings"
This is very local to us and have been thinking. Can you explain the hybrid club/party in a bit more detail please. |
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We used to hold party’s for those we had meet before we moved north always great fun
When we have a bigger group of friends up here will be starting to hold them again |
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By *ogNMuseCouple
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"We go to Radlett's parties, its like hybrid club/party, very relaxed & sociable along with lots of play areas.
You can find them in the club listings
This is very local to us and have been thinking. Can you explain the hybrid club/party in a bit more detail please. "
Well its held in a (large) private house, very much a house party atmosphere, but with different play areas upstairs - dark room, dungeon (in attic) - there's also a large hot tub, covered swimming pool and a sauna. Fridays are couples, women and select single men, Saturdays are couples & single women only.
There is normally around 100 people in attendance, and most people seem to attend quite regularly, but very welcoming to new faces - its the one event we always try and get to each month.
If you do go, say hi  |
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We have held 3 bi couples parties and have to say we have been lucky to have nice players turn up from 12 to 25 couples in our house along with a splash of single bi guys and single bi girls, see our veris.
Un like a club in private especially a bi night people relax alot more if they are comfortable knowing all who attend are into what they are into.as host its hard work confirming numbers and real and fake people , on the night we are running around but anyone who knows us and attended know you can have as much or as little fun as you want .
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