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Guys who fall In love too quick...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Every fuck buddy I've had has fell in love with me, I've been in relationships with 4 of them, now I'm having guys who I've not even met yet falling in love with me, I'm not even trying , wot am I ment to do?? Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every fuck buddy I've had has fell in love with me, I've been in relationships with 4 of them, now I'm having guys who I've not even met yet falling in love with me, I'm not even trying , wot am I ment to do?? Lol "
Not look so damn sexy might help. Lol. But when you've got it. You've got it haha. And you look like you certainly have it.
Maybe not be so cool. Or just hit them back with 1 liners.. That normally turns me off as I take it as a lack of interest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every fuck buddy I've had has fell in love with me, I've been in relationships with 4 of them, now I'm having guys who I've not even met yet falling in love with me, I'm not even trying , wot am I ment to do?? Lol "
Best to limit meets to only 2 or 3 repeats it is less likely to happen then. |
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It is possible to fall in romantic love easily. If every man you meet or even don't meet is falling in love with you though I'd say they're very needy and as you're a very attractive woman who's probably either nice to them or seemingly unattainable they imagine themselves in love.
You're lucky, it's way better than having them hate you  |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Every fuck buddy I've had has fell in love with me, I've been in relationships with 4 of them, now I'm having guys who I've not even met yet falling in love with me, I'm not even trying , wot am I ment to do?? Lol "
Ask them if marriage is on the card because that will see them run for the hills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh trust me, some women do exactly the same
They do.
*some* people are on fab looking to fulfil their need for emotional intimacy through sex. They tend to fall in love hard and fast."
Spot on |
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"Every fuck buddy I've had has fell in love with me, I've been in relationships with 4 of them, now I'm having guys who I've not even met yet falling in love with me, I'm not even trying , wot am I ment to do?? Lol "
I've has this before. It's why I didn't do 121 or regular meets.. I'm braving it again...
I'm now making sure I spell it out painfully obvious that I do not want a relationship at all |
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Some people are emotionally needy, some people think saying "I love you" is the way to exclusive access to your knickers, some people like the idea of "being in love", some people say it as a way to manipulate you, some people get infatuated ...
And of course some people genuinely fall in love.
Tread carefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've fell in love with just the one person out of over a hundred that I've met sexually on Fab and that's my lovely other half! 
That's how I know it's genuine though and not just infatuation?
By contrast I have had a few meets fall for me, but tell myself that women are more hard-wired to seek a relationship than men, so this is natural really.
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Love and sex are completely different things - the only similarity is that you have sex with a partner you love..... But if you are a swinger you can also have it with many others lol"
So the theory has us believe. |
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Guys who have very little experience still confuse sex with love. It's easy to fall in love with someone who is nice to you, especially if you had or have a hard loveless life, If the people in it reject you - your parents, siblings, "friends", wife even. They're bound to confuse someone who is showing them kindness (especially in lingerie or naked) with the few people (or only one person) who did that in real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every fuck buddy I've had has fell in love with me, I've been in relationships with 4 of them, now I'm having guys who I've not even met yet falling in love with me, I'm not even trying , wot am I ment to do?? Lol "
it's lust not love  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've fell in love with just the one person out of over a hundred that I've met sexually on Fab and that's my lovely other half!
That's how I know it's genuine though and not just infatuation?
By contrast I have had a few meets fall for me, but tell myself that women are more hard-wired to seek a relationship than men, so this is natural really.
B"
And I must say, I'm rather glad you did  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love and sex are completely different things - the only similarity is that you have sex with a partner you love..... But if you are a swinger you can also have it with many others lol"
"love and sex are completely different things" - please get out of my head hahahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people are emotionally needy, some people think saying "I love you" is the way to exclusive access to your knickers, some people like the idea of "being in love", some people say it as a way to manipulate you, some people get infatuated ...
And of course some people genuinely fall in love.
Tread carefully."
I trod in a cow pat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"narcissists exhibitionists
Are 2 completely different things
Sometimes they overlap though."
exactly if you love yourself then you want others to see you love yourself |
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"narcissists exhibitionists
Are 2 completely different things
Sometimes they overlap though.exactly if you love yourself then you want others to see you love yourself "
well, they're usually insecure and need other validation. although if anyone was does invalidate the they ignore that so idk? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are falling in lust with you "
That's what me and my club buddy's say to each other. " I lust you " We all know it's not love but a yearn for some sexual attention and naughty banter. We all get on very well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had it and I've also fallen for 2 men off fab. One turned out to be a power crazy twat and the other is my absolute rock who I married and had woofers with x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are falling in lust with you "
That's what me and my club buddy's say to each other. " I lust you " We all know it's not love but a yearn for some sexual attention and naughty banter. We all get on very well |
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By *ediMan
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Every fuck buddy I've had has fell in love with me, I've been in relationships with 4 of them, now I'm having guys who I've not even met yet falling in love with me, I'm not even trying , wot am I ment to do?? Lol "
I wish I’d fall in love with some one quick rather then being the opposite, story of my life haha |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Every D/s relationship this has happened to me.
Something about non domestic freedom comes to mind.
Sometimes lust/love edges get frayed.
However, to me, it’s what you portray, not who you are.
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