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Only male available at the moment
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over a year ago
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"Does that ever work lol ?"
Quickest way to find out, is to ask if it's ok to confirm that with the female by video chat or phone call. The ultimate filter. |
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If a "couple" have on their profile that only the male is available, we tend to take a hard line. If the female (if she exists) is permanently unavailable you should have a single male profile.
However we both play separately and are fine with meeting individuals from couples who are similar to us. |
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"Does that ever work lol ?
Quickest way to find out, is to ask if it's ok to confirm that with the female by video chat or phone call. The ultimate filter."
When I posted in the forum about phone calls prior to meets I was surprised by the number of people saying they never do that and never will... I only raised the issue because I got sick and tired of sending messages/getting replies and arranging to meet,but as soon as I said I always speak on the phone prior to meeting I was either ignored or blocked in the majority of cases: I still use it as a final filter though. |
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We were talking to the “female” of a couple a few weeks back who wanted to meet alone.
Then she wanted a social with husband to verify all was ok. No problem with that, sounded sensible
Then she asked if he could come and watch any play that might happen. Not really our thing but we see where this is going.
Then she asked if we could meet husband alone for a social so they could verify we are real as she’s a bit shy, and if we liked she was happy to let him play with us alone if we got on at the meet.
Funny enough she never fancied a video chat or anything.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were talking to the “female” of a couple a few weeks back who wanted to meet alone.
Then she wanted a social with husband to verify all was ok. No problem with that, sounded sensible
Then she asked if he could come and watch any play that might happen. Not really our thing but we see where this is going.
Then she asked if we could meet husband alone for a social so they could verify we are real as she’s a bit shy, and if we liked she was happy to let him play with us alone if we got on at the meet.
Funny enough she never fancied a video chat or anything.
Jesus loves a trier "
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"Does that ever work lol ?"
some start off as couples and the woman realises it's not for her even though she had great advice before she entered into it but somethings you have to find out for yourself ,hubby still trying to continue but most of the profile still contains reference to her which I think is misleading
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