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over a year ago
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"Let him join you then lol
Not as much fun as you’d imagine as my marriage is just a friendship now.
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Life's too short, gotta be happy lovely ... wish I could take my own advice lol. Here if you fancy a natter xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let him join you then lol
Not as much fun as you’d imagine as my marriage is just a friendship now.
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If that's the case why the problem of falling in love? No doubt the other party wouldn't have a problem |
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"Can you stop yourself?
I ran away last time I felt like this!
What do you want to do this time?
I don’t want to hurt him. "
Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you stop yourself?
I ran away last time I felt like this!
What do you want to do this time?
I don’t want to hurt him.
Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility."
I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good. |
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"Can you stop yourself?
I ran away last time I felt like this!
What do you want to do this time?
I don’t want to hurt him.
Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.
I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good. "
How does the third person in this scenario feel about this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you stop yourself?
I ran away last time I felt like this!
What do you want to do this time?
I don’t want to hurt him.
Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.
I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.
How does the third person in this scenario feel about this? "
The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable. |
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"Can you stop yourself?
I ran away last time I felt like this!
What do you want to do this time?
I don’t want to hurt him.
Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.
I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.
How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?
The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable. "
A bit like brexit then. 
I genuinely hope that things work out for the best for all concerned.
Best of luck to you all x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you stop yourself?
I ran away last time I felt like this!
What do you want to do this time?
I don’t want to hurt him.
Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.
I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.
How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?
The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable.
A bit like brexit then.
I genuinely hope that things work out for the best for all concerned.
Best of luck to you all x"
Fuck. I hope it doesn’t end up like brexit!  |
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"Can you stop yourself?
I ran away last time I felt like this!
What do you want to do this time?
I don’t want to hurt him.
Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.
I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.
How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?
The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable.
A bit like brexit then.
I genuinely hope that things work out for the best for all concerned.
Best of luck to you all x
Fuck. I hope it doesn’t end up like brexit! "
 . It won't there's at least two sensible people who talk to each other in this equation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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End of the day op love is a powerful emotion you can't control who you fall for its wether your willing to deny yourself and stay in a relationship that ain't working for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let him join you then lol
Not as much fun as you’d imagine as my marriage is just a friendship now.
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You are very lucky to have him as a friend I would say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fall in love 
It can creep up and bite you on the arse when you least expect it...
Best of times, worst of times."
It certainly can for sure ànd bites you very hard too!  |
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The mere fact that you are considering love with another means you are not in the right place now. Whether you are going to be with the 'love' or not you still need out of where you are. Be fair to them and yourself then decide if being with the 'love' is the best next step. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The mere fact that you are considering love with another means you are not in the right place now. Whether you are going to be with the 'love' or not you still need out of where you are. Be fair to them and yourself then decide if being with the 'love' is the best next step. "
The exit negotiations are doing much better than the brexit ones. It’s a sad time for sure.
I’ve had a long chat with the chap in question and explained what he’s facing if he wants anything with me.
Discussed the dynamics of dating a trans woman too.
He’s happy. I’m happy.
He used the ‘love’ word in a text today but I’ve told him I’m not ready for that. Not by a long way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mere fact that you are considering love with another means you are not in the right place now. Whether you are going to be with the 'love' or not you still need out of where you are. Be fair to them and yourself then decide if being with the 'love' is the best next step.
The exit negotiations are doing much better than the brexit ones. It’s a sad time for sure.
I’ve had a long chat with the chap in question and explained what he’s facing if he wants anything with me.
Discussed the dynamics of dating a trans woman too.
He’s happy. I’m happy.
He used the ‘love’ word in a text today but I’ve told him I’m not ready for that. Not by a long way. "
It is such a powerful emotion and can unlock so many feelings.
I'm sure many on here will be feeling for you and the others in your life. I for one wish all of you a happy life and hopefully you all remain friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The mere fact that you are considering love with another means you are not in the right place now. Whether you are going to be with the 'love' or not you still need out of where you are. Be fair to them and yourself then decide if being with the 'love' is the best next step.
The exit negotiations are doing much better than the brexit ones. It’s a sad time for sure.
I’ve had a long chat with the chap in question and explained what he’s facing if he wants anything with me.
Discussed the dynamics of dating a trans woman too.
He’s happy. I’m happy.
He used the ‘love’ word in a text today but I’ve told him I’m not ready for that. Not by a long way.
It is such a powerful emotion and can unlock so many feelings.
I'm sure many on here will be feeling for you and the others in your life. I for one wish all of you a happy life and hopefully you all remain friends. "
Thank you for that. A lot of work to do on the house to maximise our cut. We need to keep working together to do that. Xx |
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I remember the time when I was married when we had a Barbeque. I over heard my then wife say to a mutual friend, "Michael and I aren't so much lovers as best friends."
That was the problem, that's when I started my adventures. It cost me my marriage to a lovely woman who is the mother to my children. It caused me some shit times however I also had some great times
I tried to say to my now ex that we should become lover again however she was complacent. All I can say is follow your heart, if your current partner just wants you as a friend you probably need to be up front and ask what are we going to do? Or take the route of the new man if you think he'll stand by you or just go independent and take it from there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I remember the time when I was married when we had a Barbeque. I over heard my then wife say to a mutual friend, "Michael and I aren't so much lovers as best friends."
That was the problem, that's when I started my adventures. It cost me my marriage to a lovely woman who is the mother to my children. It caused me some shit times however I also had some great times
I tried to say to my now ex that we should become lover again however she was complacent. All I can say is follow your heart, if your current partner just wants you as a friend you probably need to be up front and ask what are we going to do? Or take the route of the new man if you think he'll stand by you or just go independent and take it from there. "
From my experience, the next lover or two after a long relationship never last long. I’ll need to put some distance between the old and my heart before I’ll be ready for much else than passion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you stop yourself?
I ran away last time I felt like this!
What do you want to do this time?
I don’t want to hurt him.
Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.
I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.
How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?
The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable. "
You both deserve to be happy. Sounds like it's going well. 
See how it goes with this man. Don't run away from him. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it not hurt your wife posting about your feelings for someone else, when I split from my husband seeing that would have hurt me "
According to her, we were over 18 months ago. She doesn’t use fab so she isn’t going to see this. I don’t hide things from her anyhow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I no what you are saying about not falling in love,but I have falling in love with my dom opps not meant to of done that I have tried to put him in the back of my head but he still comes to the front xxx |
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