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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
Rach and shorty, after reading yours i feel like I should have been more thoughtful and reflective about what I learnt.
I feel a wee bit ashamed to have writen, That as mine pales in insignificance compared to your experience lessons. |
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i been on fabs since 2011, on and off. Back then was better more open nicer people easier to get meets when you wanted etc. As time gone on its become apparant that fabs has changed me big time. Alot for the better but also the bad. Now fabs is all messed up kik shit adverts in chat rooms. People using the word stunning all the time for crap profiles or chat roooms. Fake profiles and verifications over the top. Half dont even meet now its all blah blah . So some aspects are good some are proper shite and too many young fake ones i think are set up by admin for popular means. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rach and shorty, after reading yours i feel like I should have been more thoughtful and reflective about what I learnt.
I feel a wee bit ashamed to have writen, That as mine pales in insignificance compared to your experience lessons."
No need to apologise hun. It's your post  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I thought was a good sex life was actually rather a bland one. It's opened my eyes (and other things) to so many new experiences, pushing boundries on the way.
I'm a dominant type in everyday life, finding my submissive side was the best x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably my confidence with talking to women is the biggest improvement before i joined fab i struggled alot chatting to the opposite sex but nowadays im fine with talking to them and i do actually owe it to fab i love the forums such a great place to engage with people similar to myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve alwats been confident online, but Fab has afforded me the opportunity to experiment further in real life. Much more still to learn and explore but plenty of time for that! |
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Definitely helped with my confidence
Also made me toughen up a little. Living a sheltered life previously I found out loads since being on here
1. Men will try / say anything to get in my knickers
2. What you see is not always what you get
3. Girls can be super bitchy
4. An orgasm - I kid you not !
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely helped with my confidence
Also made me toughen up a little. Living a sheltered life previously I found out loads since being on here
1. Men will try / say anything to get in my knickers
2. What you see is not always what you get
3. Girls can be super bitchy
4. An orgasm - I kid you not !
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number one ........really ,I find that hard to believe  |
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Made us more confident sexually and generally. Pushed our boundaries considerably - made us realise sex with other people while you're married doesn't have to be a hidden, guilty, cheating sort of thing; in fact that adultery just for fun has actually strengthened our marriage. In other words, monogamy doesn't really work for people like us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Along with my confidence fab has made me abit more daring and willing to take chances shame that the chances i take end in rejection still at least i have my new found confidence thats not going away im soo confident now that i want to attend clubs which is something that gave me nightmares |
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"What's one thing you have improved on since joining fab for me I would say oral. "
My confidence and outgoing-ness (if there is such a word). I used to be the sort of person who cared (too much?) about the opinions of others and how they saw me......these days I don’t care as much.....I’m like a jar of marmite.....you either like me or you don’t, either way, I’m still me and I’m going to carry on about my daily life doing what I want to do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's made us more confident with our sexuality and open to new experiences. Also less judgemental of others sexual preferences, as long as it's consenting adults.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It hasn't. If anything its made me more self conscious.
Self confidence takes a beating on here.
You very rarely get a reply, response or a look in and it takes its toll  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It hasn't. If anything its made me more self conscious.
Self confidence takes a beating on here.
You very rarely get a reply, response or a look in and it takes its toll "
Resilience training. |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
Some really good pertinent responses.
It seems confidence is a big one for people.
I think I would add for mine that no matter what there is always someone who finds you or something attractive. |
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I used to think it was cute but found not many like it 
But my confidence has grown a little... Something else keeps growing everytime I log on aswel 