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the lost art of the good handjob
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long slow oily/creamy hand jobs do it for me too | |||
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" long slow oily/creamy hand jobs do it for me too" oh yes! just a bit here too  
Wolf
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"are you sayin you have cold hands!" My hands are colder than the inside of my mouth or pussy... but thats why they take your temprature from your mouth, ear or ass not your hands lol | |||
there's a great website with different hand job techniques. I took a lot from there and it went down well. Excuse the punt
http://www.handjobadvice.com/ | |||
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"im very good at hand jobs,but find its the men that want the bj,im good at those too by the way" WE cant wait to find out... | |||
"there is nothing so delicious as the feel of an oiled/lubed cock in your hand! love it! it was what I grew up on, wanking guys on the back of the school bus!!!" just the thought of being wanked off on the back of the bus by you has quite frankly made me want to be wanked off on the back of the bus...  oh shit i think i just cum...  | |||
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Its not a lost art.. just most men are not after one
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"most bjs involve hands too so best of both worlds "was kinda thinking that.. although I am really good at doing it with hands tied lol BJ that is not the hand job lol cali | |||
"most bjs involve hands too so best of both worlds
was kinda thinking that.. although I am really good at doing it with hands tied lol
BJ that is not the hand job lol
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"its not a lost art at all... im extremely good at giving hand jobs ( or so i am told - i just think its from having responsive partners) but alot of guys dont want a hand job,,, they are more concerned with getting it somewhere warm and wet... " I'd quite happily forgo all else - why some people are preoccupied with blowjobs/full sex everytime often amuses me! There's nothing safer, can be done in a lot of places where anything more would be tricky and if you're meeting for the first time and find you've been getting on too well chatting at the bar and lost track of time - often a very nice way to end a meet! lol. Assuming of course you get to return the favour in some way, shape or form! | |||
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"When you can see the concentration, the determination and the satisfaction on a woman's face as she tugs and gives you the jester's shoes, it's pretty unbeatable, IMHO. Anyone can pop your knob in their mouth and bob up and down, but a woman who has bothered to learn how to toss a man off properly is a gem, it generally follows that she is a more adaptive and interesting sexual partner all round. It shows she has been prepared to make an effort! Oh, and ladies, sorry to tell you this, but if your arm hurts, it's because you aren't doing it properly. No-one's bothered to tell you, because a bad handjob is slightly better than no handjob, but it demonstrates a lack of attention to detail. Look closely at a man playing with himself, you won't see his whole arm moving up and down like he is trying to take off, (rather than beat off). Pay attention Glasshopper, ask how to do it, and remember that one technique might send one man through the roof, but another to sleep. You'll know when you are doing it right, and it's not rocket science, look at us drooling blokes, how hard can it be? Years ago I went to a party, the theme of which was "Giving a helping hand". There were about half a dozen couples, a few single gents and even (gasp) a couple of single gals, penetrative sex was banned*. I can say that it was possibly the best party I've ever been to, there were oils and lubes and, erm, "devices", and everyone played together in the one room, nice and relaxed. Some very talented ladies were showing off and sharing their techniques - it's quite something when you look down and there's 2 women in deep discussion gripping your cock, like it's a sex aid and not attached to a person, but hey, who am I to say anything? The ceiling looked like it had been Artexed afterwards! Sadly, the couple who put the party on emigrated, so a repeat never materialised. I live in hope though! (And, yes, us lucky gents were encouraged to reciprocate, something I imagine would be welcomed by many ladies, judging by the amount of men who think that ALL women want them to jam 3 fingers up their snatch, then ram them up and down really hard, right from the word go. Clitoral stimulation? They think that's a Death Metal band) * OK, so it turned into a shag-fest later on when people split off into different rooms, but the greater part of the evening was everyone together, experimenting and learning new ways to spank the monkey. By that time though, I felt like an empty tube of toothpaste. Ah, happy days..." Good and amusing post! R | |||
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"The thing about hand jobs is it's like valet parking, sure you can have a go but I know I'll do a better job myself. " why not teach your partner what you like then.. | |||
"The thing about hand jobs is it's like valet parking, sure you can have a go but I know I'll do a better job myself. why not teach your partner what you like then.." My partner says i do it better than he can sometimes lol. | |||
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"The thing about hand jobs is it's like valet parking, sure you can have a go but I know I'll do a better job myself. why not teach your partner what you like then.." I'm not sure if people get jokes round here without a smiley or a lol on the end lol | |||
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"there is nothing so delicious as the feel of an oiled/lubed cock in your hand! love it! it was what I grew up on, wanking guys on the back of the school bus!!!" That takes me back! Not the bus, but being wanked by girls during snogging sessions in park shelters - some of them were very good at it too. Happy days! | |||
"When you can see the concentration, the determination and the satisfaction on a woman's face as she tugs and gives you the jester's shoes, it's pretty unbeatable, IMHO. Anyone can pop your knob in their mouth and bob up and down, but a woman who has bothered to learn how to toss a man off properly is a gem, it generally follows that she is a more adaptive and interesting sexual partner all round. It shows she has been prepared to make an effort! Oh, and ladies, sorry to tell you this, but if your arm hurts, it's because you aren't doing it properly. No-one's bothered to tell you, because a bad handjob is slightly better than no handjob, but it demonstrates a lack of attention to detail. Look closely at a man playing with himself, you won't see his whole arm moving up and down like he is trying to take off, (rather than beat off). Pay attention Glasshopper, ask how to do it, and remember that one technique might send one man through the roof, but another to sleep. You'll know when you are doing it right, and it's not rocket science, look at us drooling blokes, how hard can it be? Years ago I went to a party, the theme of which was "Giving a helping hand". There were about half a dozen couples, a few single gents and even (gasp) a couple of single gals, penetrative sex was banned*. I can say that it was possibly the best party I've ever been to, there were oils and lubes and, erm, "devices", and everyone played together in the one room, nice and relaxed. Some very talented ladies were showing off and sharing their techniques - it's quite something when you look down and there's 2 women in deep discussion gripping your cock, like it's a sex aid and not attached to a person, but hey, who am I to say anything? The ceiling looked like it had been Artexed afterwards! Sadly, the couple who put the party on emigrated, so a repeat never materialised. I live in hope though! (And, yes, us lucky gents were encouraged to reciprocate, something I imagine would be welcomed by many ladies, judging by the amount of men who think that ALL women want them to jam 3 fingers up their snatch, then ram them up and down really hard, right from the word go. Clitoral stimulation? They think that's a Death Metal band) * OK, so it turned into a shag-fest later on when people split off into different rooms, but the greater part of the evening was everyone together, experimenting and learning new ways to spank the monkey. By that time though, I felt like an empty tube of toothpaste. Ah, happy days..." I'd just like to say - to quote a certain Monty Python film - 'you lucky bastard!' | |||
"Now then, If you look at many a verification there are plenty of mention of great blowjobs etc,but i think these days there seems to be a lack of one thing.I find that often as soon as the pants are unzipped the mouth soon wanders down,and in some ways this is a great shame.There is nothing like the feel of an expert hand teasing your cock,think about it, all those fingers and what they are capable of,the dexterity that can come with whats at your disposal .Is it just me or is this all too quickly passed over?" I agree too. Hand jobs are great... And in many ways, just having her hand feel you through your clothes or slide her had inside your pants, is more erotic than unzipping you and sucking. | |||
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"perhaps someone should start a best techniques thread, for both oral and handjobs - both sexes would be good?" handjob: think you are plunging a blocked sink | |||
"handjob: think you are plunging a blocked sink " Really, no more technique than that? the guys who have wanked on me have just tossed the end of their cocks really quite gently... | |||
"handjob: think you are plunging a blocked sink Really, no more technique than that? the guys who have wanked on me have just tossed the end of their cocks really quite gently..." For want of repeating myself......lucky, lucky bastards! lol | |||
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