"Obviously only good things"
Just don't take it too far... We had a first message with someone going in to great detail which ones he liked and why and how much he enjoyed wanking over them. Not for us.
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It's not wrong, but it is quite dull and thoughtless.
People get compliments based on their bodies all the time on here, which you might think is a positive, but is seen by many people as a negative - it shows no interest in them as human beings, and merely objectifies them so it can be detrimental to your efforts to appear to be a decent human being despite you thinking you're being kind.
If I get a message saying, "nice body" or similar, I tend to say thanks but what else can you say? Errrr......thanks.....end of conversation. |
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"Is it wrong to comment on a woman’s photos on the first message?"
I suppose it depends on why you do it. If it's to honestly offer a genuine compliment in a polite way, I imagine most people would find it hard to object.
If it's to break the ice with someone for whom you tick their boxes and hope to build a conversation and rapport, that's a nice way to do it.
We get compliments on our pictures from people we are very clear have no interest for us and it kind of feels awkward to just say "thanks" and then move on because to take a conversation any further would pretty much be a waste of our and their time... |
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"Not wrong but if its just a way of getting me talking i normally just say thanks and leave it at that"
and have to say most of it goes in o e ear and out the other  |
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