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Watching your man enjoy another girl
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a couple me being the female I've always wanted to see my bf be with another girl while I watch but feel that this is frowned upon yet find it more acceptable the other way round?? What do people think?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think people will believe this the male half of the couple Posting in this thread..."
I can assure you its not why do people find this so strange but find it acceptable the opposite way round??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think people will believe this the male half of the couple Posting in this thread...it's my fantasy but yes ladies always think it's for my mans gain"
But it's my gain its something I want in our relationship seems so unacceptable this way round but I live in hope still xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not heard of it being frowned upon. If that's what you want then do it; don't worry about what other people may think.
If the women want proof you're ok with it you can have a quick phone call.
My long term partner sees other women and some have chatted to me too. |
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"I’m very much the cuck quean I’m my relationship love watching him enjoy other women gets me extremely hot for him we always have fantastic night of sex afterwards "
This is me too. So hot to see Mr R playing with other women. It's always on my terms. I can see why people think it is the male posting, but there are genuine couples who are into this. Trying to arrange some play where he plays on skpye and I watch . Any tips greatly received. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been there, done that.
It destroyed me inside. I did it to make him happy.
Maybe I'm different but if I had a boyfriend and anyone tried it on, I'd go for her. I don't do sharing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife is happy being in the same space as another couple but gets the green eye if a woman wants to take it to the next level with me.
I am happy watching her play with another male and she is happy to do this too funny enough!
Any advice on how to lower the green eye in her would be much appreciated as then it wouldn't feel like a one way street.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife is happy being in the same space as another couple but gets the green eye if a woman wants to take it to the next level with me.
I am happy watching her play with another male and she is happy to do this too funny enough!
Any advice on how to lower the green eye in her would be much appreciated as then it wouldn't feel like a one way street. "
Have you talked to her about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is an odd paradox that despite my analytical disposition I have been unable to reconcile.
You are quite correct when you say that it appears more frowned upon when a woman enjoys seeing her man with another woman than the other way around. Now, I can make a logical case for why it's less common. Women are (on average) less visual creatures than men. Not less shallow by any means, but they find purely visual stimuli to be less appealing than men. Therefore it follows logically that they would take less pleasure from pure observation of any sex act than a man would and consequently this kink is less common in women than men.
As for why it's more frowned upon... Inconclusive. Some strange interaction of kink and modern feminism? Possibly but it wouldn't explain other submissive female kinks which remain common.
You have stumbled upon something I can't get my head round at all, which in a sociological context is a rare thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (female) very much enjoy sharing my man with another female, I love to watch him and listen to him, reach out to touch him and my tummy flips in excitement as he looks at me when he is with her.
I am quite comfortable with this in a FFM or couple situation as swinging is our joint enjoyment, it's for us as a couple to enjoy and not one person gains more than the other. If that ever became the case then we would stop playing.
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