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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Talking to a friend yesterday he was just kind of saying that his libido was not so good because he is becoming old and for women is worst... he thinks that women libido is gone after menopause and that middle age and mature ladies who want to fuck a lot is because they didn’t have enough sex when they were young...
In my opinion it is a matter of inhibit sex drive or not. I believe that some women are able to carry on with a huge sex life while others decided they are too old and inhibits it.
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Something similar was in the "agony aunt" page in the paper yesterday....a guy saying his wife didn't want sex any more now she's post menopausal.
I have never had so much fun sex wise and my drive hasn't diminished at all. Need more lube than I used to but that's hardly a major problem.
You may be right in that I didn't get good sex when I was younger. So maybe I'm making up for lost time
(I'm aware not all women may feel this way) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m the wrong side of 49 and I’ve becer felt more confident or enjoyed sex more in my life. True I’m nit a size 8 anymore but rarely have I had a complaint ....hubby loves I’m very sexual .. we make love most days even if it’s a hurried quickie ...they can seem very naughty if you have to be quiet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have lots of girl friends post menopausal and none of them have reported a drop in sex drive lol though I know a few with other medical issues that have. Tbh I more here about their man's libido dropping off than theirs 
I think you might be on to something about past sex lives ... as I've always had a grand one but now unless it's going to be grand can take it or leave it but noticed single friends from more sheltered backgrounds are going a bit more wild |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have lots of girl friends post menopausal and none of them have reported a drop in sex drive lol though I know a few with other medical issues that have. Tbh I more here about their man's libido dropping off than theirs
I think you might be on to something about past sex lives ... as I've always had a grand one but now unless it's going to be grand can take it or leave it but noticed single friends from more sheltered backgrounds are going a bit more wild "
Havent had this much fun . more horny now in my 50s and more confient.....only 25 in my head lol |
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" Talking to a friend yesterday he was just kind of saying that his libido was not so good because he is becoming old and for women is worst... he thinks that women libido is gone after menopause and that middle age and mature ladies who want to fuck a lot is because they didn’t have enough sex when they were young...
In my opinion it is a matter of inhibit sex drive or not. I believe that some women are able to carry on with a huge sex life while others decided they are too old and inhibits it.
What do you think?"
I don't know about "after", but it is quite high "during".  |
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Its second time around for us. for whatever reasons we've both been very comfortable being honest & open with each other about our desires / fantasies / like & dislikes. Not something i'd encountered before. As a result we are both exploring things and going places we've never been before and loving it. As a result both having more & better sex than ever before! |
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By *ait88Man
over a year ago
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The male sex drive is hormone-related. Men’s testosterone production starts declining, maybe as early as during their late twenties. Also, long familiarity, especially with just one partner, causes reduced excitement.
Women’s’ sex drive is largely hormone-independent, and many post-menopausal women really enjoy the feeling of still being able to sexually excite men. I have known pre-menopausal women who needed lubrication because of temporarily diminished libidos.
Everyone’s different.
Swinging is an excellent way of reviving flagging libidos!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m peri menopausal and have a high sex drive. It’s the reason I’m single. Most men think they can keep up but the can’t "
Come on
You’re still young ! |
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" Talking to a friend yesterday he was just kind of saying that his libido was not so good because he is becoming old and for women is worst... he thinks that women libido is gone after menopause and that middle age and mature ladies who want to fuck a lot is because they didn’t have enough sex when they were young...
In my opinion it is a matter of inhibit sex drive or not. I believe that some women are able to carry on with a huge sex life while others decided they are too old and inhibits it.
What do you think?"
I think that everyone is an individual. |
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I've met loads of women over sixty and thier like teenage rabbits, never noticed a decline with age, and I'm rampant rabbit too, its better now than when younger, all night sessions are just the norm |
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"I'm menopausal and I don't want sex, no sex drive at all. Just started HRT so fingers crossed x
How do you experience this site so far then ?"
Because this site isn’t just about sex !!
Swinging is a social activity too ..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm menopausal and I don't want sex, no sex drive at all. Just started HRT so fingers crossed x
How do you experience this site so far then ?
Because this site isn’t just about sex !!
Swinging is a social activity too .. "
Quite right too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm menopausal and I don't want sex, no sex drive at all. Just started HRT so fingers crossed x
How do you experience this site so far then ?
Because this site isn’t just about sex !!
Swinging is a social activity too .. "
This 
I use fab for chatting and the forums until I'm in a better place. Swinging is a sociable thing. I've been to a club already this year and no I didn't play but wanted to meet friends etc. |
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The key thing to consider when it comes to women and their sex drive is that we are all individuals. According to many threads started by men women of all ages have low libidos so that's the age thing debunked. I think older women generally enjoy a more understanding and experienced lover who is able to engage her mind and body. It's about much more than losing ones sex drive too, cultural and societal influences make it far less acceptable for older women to be sexy or enjoy sex. Even on fab as soon as a guy asks where he can find older women people make hilarious quips about the pension queue and bingo halls .
Also why the pressure to be sexually active? |
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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago
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"I have lots of girl friends post menopausal and none of them have reported a drop in sex drive lol though I know a few with other medical issues that have. Tbh I more here about their man's libido dropping off than theirs
I think you might be on to something about past sex lives ... as I've always had a grand one but now unless it's going to be grand can take it or leave it but noticed single friends from more sheltered backgrounds are going a bit more wild
Havent had this much fun . more horny now in my 50s and more confient.....only 25 in my head lol "
Never noted any down turn myself...they if anything know what they want and how to enjoy |
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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago
North West |
"I’m peri menopausal and have a high sex drive. It’s the reason I’m single. Most men think they can keep up but the can’t
Come on
You’re still young !"
I’m 40 and any fellas between 40-50 have been a let down lol |
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By *oojCouple
over a year ago
Exeter |
"I’m peri menopausal and have a high sex drive. It’s the reason I’m single. Most men think they can keep up but the can’t
Come on
You’re still young !
I’m 40 and any fellas between 40-50 have been a let down lol "
Herself has an ever increasing sex drive, some have tried to keep up but all fail |
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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago
North West |
"I’m peri menopausal and have a high sex drive. It’s the reason I’m single. Most men think they can keep up but the can’t
Come on
You’re still young !
I’m 40 and any fellas between 40-50 have been a let down lol
Herself has an ever increasing sex drive, some have tried to keep up but all fail"
I’m glad I’m not the only one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs N's has diminished but she is very stressed by stuff going on as well. I just so hope life gets a bit easier for her soon as she is brilliant lady and so easy going. When she does play she is the best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wondered how long it would take for this thread to evolve into “Men can’t keep up with me” nonsense from the women and “I can go all night even at my age” crap from the men 
Sex drive is very individual and there are literally hundreds of factors which affect it, from diet to mental wellbeing... |
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R found that she doesn't have that urgent, hormonal drive for sex she always had before the menopause. But that hasn't inhibited her doing it; she still enjoys our regular fucking, her swaps and her greedy girl sessions. But it usually takes a bit longer for her to cum than she did, and she doesn't squirt much these days.
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"Wondered how long it would take for this thread to evolve into “Men can’t keep up with me” nonsense from the women and “I can go all night even at my age” crap from the men
Sex drive is very individual and there are literally hundreds of factors which affect it, from diet to mental wellbeing..."
quite! Its time we stopped measuring men and women's worth in terms of sexual activity |
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" Talking to a friend yesterday he was just kind of saying that his libido was not so good because he is becoming old and for women is worst... he thinks that women libido is gone after menopause and that middle age and mature ladies who want to fuck a lot is because they didn’t have enough sex when they were young...
In my opinion it is a matter of inhibit sex drive or not. I believe that some women are able to carry on with a huge sex life while others decided they are too old and inhibits it.
What do you think?"
Too a certain extent yes, but alot of the time mother nature has effect on matters, and you can't fight human biological changes.
Diet too, some foods and drinks help boost the sex drive regardless of age.
Women have a very complex system, I think all the changes they go through both physically, mentally and emotionally govern their ability to enjoy sex too.
I do find the sexuality of the mature ladies alluring. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Talking to a friend yesterday he was just kind of saying that his libido was not so good because he is becoming old and for women is worst... he thinks that women libido is gone after menopause and that middle age and mature ladies who want to fuck a lot is because they didn’t have enough sex when they were young...
In my opinion it is a matter of inhibit sex drive or not. I believe that some women are able to carry on with a huge sex life while others decided they are too old and inhibits it.
What do you think?
Too a certain extent yes, but alot of the time mother nature has effect on matters, and you can't fight human biological changes.
Diet too, some foods and drinks help boost the sex drive regardless of age.
Women have a very complex system, I think all the changes they go through both physically, mentally and emotionally govern their ability to enjoy sex too.
I do find the sexuality of the mature ladies alluring."
Thanks for this |
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"I’m peri menopausal and have a high sex drive. It’s the reason I’m single. Most men think they can keep up but the can’t "
It's us ladies that can out sex the men! I know I can. I'm not menopausal thou. Or don't think I am. I want it morning noon and night. Not to mention 11's, mid afternoon, ect. |
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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m peri menopausal and have a high sex drive. It’s the reason I’m single. Most men think they can keep up but the can’t
It's us ladies that can out sex the men! I know I can. I'm not menopausal thou. Or don't think I am. I want it morning noon and night. Not to mention 11's, mid afternoon, ect. "
Ha that sounds familiar! I’m a 4 times a day girl if I get the chance. Bit in the morning, love it in the afternoon, after tea and then at bed time ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m peri menopausal and have a high sex drive. It’s the reason I’m single. Most men think they can keep up but the can’t
It's us ladies that can out sex the men! I know I can. I'm not menopausal thou. Or don't think I am. I want it morning noon and night. Not to mention 11's, mid afternoon, ect.
Ha that sounds familiar! I’m a 4 times a day girl if I get the chance. Bit in the morning, love it in the afternoon, after tea and then at bed time ??"
Wow
Have you got anybody for that job? |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
Camberley/Middleton |
" Talking to a friend yesterday he was just kind of saying that his libido was not so good because he is becoming old and for women is worst... he thinks that women libido is gone after menopause and that middle age and mature ladies who want to fuck a lot is because they didn’t have enough sex when they were young...
In my opinion it is a matter of inhibit sex drive or not. I believe that some women are able to carry on with a huge sex life while others decided they are too old and inhibits it.
What do you think?"
I think your friend is very naive but then lots of people really struggle to understand others motivation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Talking to a friend yesterday he was just kind of saying that his libido was not so good because he is becoming old and for women is worst... he thinks that women libido is gone after menopause and that middle age and mature ladies who want to fuck a lot is because they didn’t have enough sex when they were young...
In my opinion it is a matter of inhibit sex drive or not. I believe that some women are able to carry on with a huge sex life while others decided they are too old and inhibits it.
What do you think?
I think your friend is very naive but then lots of people really struggle to understand others motivation. "
Well, his experience with mature ladies isn’t good... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm menopausal and I don't want sex, no sex drive at all. Just started HRT so fingers crossed x
How do you experience this site so far then ?
Because this site isn’t just about sex !!
Swinging is a social activity too ..
This
I use fab for chatting and the forums until I'm in a better place. Swinging is a sociable thing. I've been to a club already this year and no I didn't play but wanted to meet friends etc. "
I am menopausal and take HRT. I get it off the internet coz my GP gave me 3 months worth and then refused to give it me again. (I dont have any medical reasons for not having it fyi). I have stopped hot flushes and night sweats,and am not quite so cranky as I was. Sex drive is just fine thank you. No additional lube required either. My ex had to take Viagra! |
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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago
North West |
"I'm menopausal and I don't want sex, no sex drive at all. Just started HRT so fingers crossed x
How do you experience this site so far then ?
Because this site isn’t just about sex !!
Swinging is a social activity too ..
This
I use fab for chatting and the forums until I'm in a better place. Swinging is a sociable thing. I've been to a club already this year and no I didn't play but wanted to meet friends etc.
I am menopausal and take HRT. I get it off the internet coz my GP gave me 3 months worth and then refused to give it me again. (I dont have any medical reasons for not having it fyi). I have stopped hot flushes and night sweats,and am not quite so cranky as I was. Sex drive is just fine thank you. No additional lube required either. My ex had to take Viagra! "
Can you let me know what you take? I stopped night sweats after 2 years not long ago and got flushes have stopped now. According to the docs it’s all due to depression which is weird considering it’s my body and you’d think I would know what is up with me. |
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"I'm menopausal and I don't want sex, no sex drive at all. Just started HRT so fingers crossed x
How do you experience this site so far then ?
Because this site isn’t just about sex !!
Swinging is a social activity too ..
This
I use fab for chatting and the forums until I'm in a better place. Swinging is a sociable thing. I've been to a club already this year and no I didn't play but wanted to meet friends etc.
I am menopausal and take HRT. I get it off the internet coz my GP gave me 3 months worth and then refused to give it me again. (I dont have any medical reasons for not having it fyi). I have stopped hot flushes and night sweats,and am not quite so cranky as I was. Sex drive is just fine thank you. No additional lube required either. My ex had to take Viagra!
Can you let me know what you take? I stopped night sweats after 2 years not long ago and got flushes have stopped now. According to the docs it’s all due to depression which is weird considering it’s my body and you’d think I would know what is up with me. "
There are risks to HRT, mainly female cancers, DVT and strokes and once you stop taking hormones, you go perimenopausal again.
Please, be extremely careful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not as energetic as I once was and need a breather after I come but can usually perform again after about 15 minutes."
Hadnt finished typing there
I haven’t noticed away difference in women’s sex drive as they age though!
If anything it increases? |
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