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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello 
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
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Over the last few years we have experienced the sharing process with great success, not only has it been fun to watch and be involved but we feel it’s been good for us as a couple !
Recently she has taken part in a few gangbangs and these have also been great fun, and she has been well received and given good veris .... long may it continue |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Long may it continue for us too
In a strange way, we've found that her being with another man actually brings us together even more than we are - especially the sex that follows between us after I've watched her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How well do you get to know your meets before hand?
We like to build up a good relationship with guys we would have fun with - we've found it adds so much more the experience especially repeat meets.
On the other hand we can see the attraction of meeting a "stranger" with too much build up - but we've not done any of this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How well do you get to know your meets before hand?
We like to build up a good relationship with guys we would have fun with - we've found it adds so much more the experience especially repeat meets.
On the other hand we can see the attraction of meeting a "stranger" with too much build up - but we've not done any of this."
Prefer chatting loads beforehand, makes it easier when meeting  |
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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago
Yorkshire - but we travel a lot |
"Long may it continue for us too
In a strange way, we've found that her being with another man actually brings us together even more than we are - especially the sex that follows between us after I've watched her."
Couldn't have put it better myself. Seeing her have pleasure gives me immense pleasure too. And the 'after show party' is awesome. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Couldn't have put it better myself. Seeing her have pleasure gives me immense pleasure too. And the 'after show party' is awesome."
It's a strange scenario - in the cold light of day it's something that "shouldn't work" ..... but does on so many levels. |
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We like watching each other play we both get turned on watching each other get satisfied . It’s one part of swinging we enjoy we do like the meets where arrange hotel few drinks and then sex something naughty about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
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Absolutely love it..turns me on.
Infact on her first fuck, I almost came in my shorts watching him cum over her face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs N doesn't really get it to be honest. Or says she doesn't. She doesn't quite understand how much I love seeing her with other men. I keep on trying though LOL. She is such a tease. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mrs N doesn't really get it to be honest. Or says she doesn't. She doesn't quite understand how much I love seeing her with other men. I keep on trying though LOL. She is such a tease."
Exactly this ... my wife doesn't get it either. But it is SUCH a turn on for me. She enjoys the meets we do, but doesn't get why it turns me on so much. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Me and my ex were discussing swinging. She was more willing to do it for my benefit ie ffm. I thought this would be rather unfair and i was toying with the idea of mmf in my head. In my mind i accepted this situation quite readily so then i wondered about the possibility of me being less active in the scenario. So in my scene i was imagining i was now more of a spectator and was fucking/being fucked in a different way and was responding in a new way. It was kind of hot to see her in a light which was different to how i would usually see her. It was all only in my head, granted, but i do get it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it *shouldn't* work but excitement can take place in many forms!
It took me a long while to see it from my partner's perspective, particularly as I'd rather burn my eyes out with hot pokers than see him with another woman! But we have entirely different mentalities about that and if he likes it then I'm happy to play. |
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One of the big things about swinging for us. When we started, it took a few club visits before she fucked another man (we soft-swung until that time). She thought I might go off her when I saw her enjoying another cock, but it had the opposite effect. Love standing back and watching her getting flushed and more and more excited, then seeing her face and hearing her noises as she cums. Guess most husbands don't get to see this! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I guess it *shouldn't* work but excitement can take place in many forms!
It took me a long while to see it from my partner's perspective, particularly as I'd rather burn my eyes out with hot pokers than see him with another woman! But we have entirely different mentalities about that and if he likes it then I'm happy to play."
We are in the exact same boat .... which I guess adds to the confusion from her perspective as to why I find it a turn on - because she would hate it sooooo much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are in the exact same boat .... which I guess adds to the confusion from her perspective as to why I find it a turn on - because she would hate it sooooo much!"
It's not easy but you just have to accept that other people see things differently. But if she's not into it that needs to be accepted too.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are in the exact same boat .... which I guess adds to the confusion from her perspective as to why I find it a turn on - because she would hate it sooooo much!
It's not easy but you just have to accept that other people see things differently. But if she's not into it that needs to be accepted too.
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Definitely, totally agree. I'm more than happy with our arrangement .... it works for both of us as I enjoy watching her, and she enjoys the attention she gets from the other guy |
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"Mrs N doesn't really get it to be honest. Or says she doesn't. She doesn't quite understand how much I love seeing her with other men. I keep on trying though LOL. She is such a tease."
My wife is similar I keep reassuring her that it's just sex and I love seeing her enjoy it which she obviously does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have watched each other and although I Defo like watching hotwife more, she did admit she enjoyed watching me but I’m only interested in watching her
All about hotwife though , I prefer watching her and she certainly can tease when talking about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big fan here too. Now experimenting on here with a single profile for hotwife do you prefer any young lad for your beautiful wife?"
Shouldn't you be asking what his wife prefers? |
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"Hello
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
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We’re the same! We’ve been enjoying this dynamic of play for the last few years.
Absolutely love watching her with others more than joining in. And she loves putting on a show for me.
We prefer to have our fun together after the guy (guys) have left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big fan here too. Now experimenting on here with a single profile for hotwife do you prefer any young lad for your beautiful wife?
Shouldn't you be asking what his wife prefers?"
100% , hotwife always says who we meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The trouble we find is that most men don't understand the dynamic and think this is a cuckold situation and that I need a 'real man' and to humiliate my partner.
If the single guy isn't respectful to BOTH of us and understanding of our dynamic, then he isn't getting so much as a sniff |
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"The trouble we find is that most men don't understand the dynamic and think this is a cuckold situation and that I need a 'real man' and to humiliate my partner.
If the single guy isn't respectful to BOTH of us and understanding of our dynamic, then he isn't getting so much as a sniff "
Couldn’t agree more with your statement. We find this quite frequently also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The trouble we find is that most men don't understand the dynamic and think this is a cuckold situation and that I need a 'real man' and to humiliate my partner.
If the single guy isn't respectful to BOTH of us and understanding of our dynamic, then he isn't getting so much as a sniff "
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"Long may it continue for us too
In a strange way, we've found that her being with another man actually brings us together even more than we are - especially the sex that follows between us after I've watched her."
Yep we love this to after a while I will join in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
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Best thing ever!!! |
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By *s1212Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
"Hello
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
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Love this too! Amazing experience.
Unfortunately it's getting harder to achieve recently  |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
"Hello
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
Love this too! Amazing experience.
Unfortunately it's getting harder to achieve recently "
Very true sadly |
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By *ENOMMMan
over a year ago
Good lovin |
It's never been hard for me to build up a rapport with both Male and female of the couple as I'm a very easy going guy . I find when I engage in normal conversation with both parties instead of letching after the lady things run smoothly. I've met some lovely couples along the way.  . Hoping to meet some more. |
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Just love seeing Goodgirl enjoying herself wether it be with one, two or more guys but no matter how much fun we having it will never beat the sight of the first time I saw another guy touch her,, even if it was only a grope of her tits. |
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"We regularly meet single guys for sex at clubs and privately. I enjoy seeing a guy we have only met a short time undress Sara and fuck her. To me it’s what swinging is all about. "
We do exactly the same. Last time we were also taking photos... I would say, apart of us, extra 3M is just right.
Best to organise in the club. |
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"Hello
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
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Yes. |
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"Hello
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
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Guilty as charged!!!! lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has any guy ever felt jealous while watching. For example if she's enjoying it a lot more with the guy?"
I wouldn't say I'm jealous to the point it effects the relationship - but in the moment that it's happening in front of me there is a small part of me that is jealous.
But that jealous feeling just adds to it for me - the mix of that feeling together with how turned on I am watching - is a VERY potent mix.
Once it's all over, being jealous doesn't enter my head.
Hard to explain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has any guy ever felt jealous while watching. For example if she's enjoying it a lot more with the guy?
I wouldn't say I'm jealous to the point it effects the relationship - but in the moment that it's happening in front of me there is a small part of me that is jealous.
But that jealous feeling just adds to it for me - the mix of that feeling together with how turned on I am watching - is a VERY potent mix.
Once it's all over, being jealous doesn't enter my head.
Hard to explain."
Very complicated |
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By *C2019Couple
over a year ago
packington nw leicestershire |
I just love to see Mrs C pleasured in front of me I think it’s only right for a real man to support their wife’s pleasure and especially sexual satisfaction!
I’m not cuck but our sex is amazing esp after she’s played. |
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As the male its such a turn on... really live the gasp as the other cock breaks her pussy seal.... that gasp when she feels how girthy it is really gets me going. Also love to watch her eyes roll when shes really getting into it and starting to lose her inhibitions |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
Been together for along time(20 years) and years ago the thought of anyone fucking my wife would send me crazy. Now it sends me crazy in a good way haha. Never thought id see the day where id let another man with a larger cock fuck my wife while she is in ecstasy and i have a smile on my face and a hard cock. Strange how times change. Its all wee think and talk about now when we are about to have sex.
Always play safe, always has to be a big cock and good stamina, always have a few just to settle the nerves then when the clothing is off, it just feels as natural as when we fuck only better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems like there are a lot of guys out there that enjoy this.
All ways wondered how the conversation comes up. Admitting to your women that you want to see another man fuck her |
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I didn’t understand the thrill of this til my gf suggested involving my mate n seeing her suck him was awesome after that she wanted a group so I sorted a lads night n she said whoever won the race on wii she’d suck n it was my best mate I said ok but had to be me too n in front of the lads n she went straight for it ended up sucking all four of us off. The fuck after was best ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just came up while we were d*unk one night
"It seems like there are a lot of guys out there that enjoy this.
All ways wondered how the conversation comes up. Admitting to your women that you want to see another man fuck her"
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
I, Mr love this, Laura did have some difficulty working out what I got out of it but I think after seeing my reaction the first few times she is happier.
I love the flirt and the tease leading up to the fun. |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
"It seems like there are a lot of guys out there that enjoy this.
All ways wondered how the conversation comes up. Admitting to your women that you want to see another man fuck her"
We are only here for a short time, make the most of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So true
"It seems like there are a lot of guys out there that enjoy this.
All ways wondered how the conversation comes up. Admitting to your women that you want to see another man fuck her
We are only here for a short time, make the most of it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has a ‘boyfriend’ somewhere we holiday frequently - even the sound of the bed going is pretty amazing and it’s super sexy when he gets jealous of other people showing interest in her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello
Over the years I've come to enjoy watching my wife with other men. In fact I love it. It's almost as if I enjoy watching her having fun, more than getting involved. Especially if we've built up a rapport with the guy (something that can be quite difficult to achieve on Fab, unfortunately)
As the female in the couple I agree but the opposite way round but I have found this less acceptable on here!!!
Just wondered if anyone else experiences this whilst watching their partner?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like watching each other play we both get turned on watching each other get satisfied . It’s one part of swinging we enjoy we do like the meets where arrange hotel few drinks and then sex something naughty about that "
Us too as the girl I'd love to see my bf fuck another girl as I know how good he is but to see him be that way with another girl would rock my world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve both played while the other has watched ...sometimes we join in sometimes we don’t ..as we are both bi we’ve both played with both sexes ...either way it never fails to be a very horny experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I’d find it a little odd if I was in the position of boyfriend wanting his partner to be fucked by me...I’d be happy to, but would rather we all kind of took part |
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"We’ve both played while the other has watched ...sometimes we join in sometimes we don’t ..as we are both bi we’ve both played with both sexes ...either way it never fails to be a very horny experience "
OMG that's so horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve both played while the other has watched ...sometimes we join in sometimes we don’t ..as we are both bi we’ve both played with both sexes ...either way it never fails to be a very horny experience
OMG that's so horny "
I’ve handcuffed hubby to a chair so he could only watch me with a lady. To “get me back” I was tied up with heavy rope and blindfolded the following week while he took the very same lady in our bed as I lay next to them |
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"We’ve both played while the other has watched ...sometimes we join in sometimes we don’t ..as we are both bi we’ve both played with both sexes ...either way it never fails to be a very horny experience
OMG that's so horny
I’ve handcuffed hubby to a chair so he could only watch me with a lady. To “get me back” I was tied up with heavy rope and blindfolded the following week while he took the very same lady in our bed as I lay next to them "
How did you feel at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve both played while the other has watched ...sometimes we join in sometimes we don’t ..as we are both bi we’ve both played with both sexes ...either way it never fails to be a very horny experience
OMG that's so horny
I’ve handcuffed hubby to a chair so he could only watch me with a lady. To “get me back” I was tied up with heavy rope and blindfolded the following week while he took the very same lady in our bed as I lay next to them
How did you feel at the time "
Wet ...very wet...I was only released after she left...the reclaim sex was mind blowing |
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"We’ve both played while the other has watched ...sometimes we join in sometimes we don’t ..as we are both bi we’ve both played with both sexes ...either way it never fails to be a very horny experience
OMG that's so horny
I’ve handcuffed hubby to a chair so he could only watch me with a lady. To “get me back” I was tied up with heavy rope and blindfolded the following week while he took the very same lady in our bed as I lay next to them
How did you feel at the time
Wet ...very wet...I was only released after she left...the reclaim sex was mind blowing "
Damn I wish I was there to see that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve both played while the other has watched ...sometimes we join in sometimes we don’t ..as we are both bi we’ve both played with both sexes ...either way it never fails to be a very horny experience
OMG that's so horny
I’ve handcuffed hubby to a chair so he could only watch me with a lady. To “get me back” I was tied up with heavy rope and blindfolded the following week while he took the very same lady in our bed as I lay next to them
How did you feel at the time
Wet ...very wet...I was only released after she left...the reclaim sex was mind blowing
Damn I wish I was there to see that "
He put me in my place ...hair pulling ...back scratching ...arse spanking....it’s a good job I’m his submissive. I know my place haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Weirdly my partner is happy for me to go off and play by myself but sadly has no interest in watching me play. Where as I don't like him having 121 with others I would much rather watch him or join in |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
"Weirdly my partner is happy for me to go off and play by myself but sadly has no interest in watching me play. Where as I don't like him having 121 with others I would much rather watch him or join in "
Thinking about this. Sending my wife and her best friend on a wknd away and permission to do whatever she wants.  |
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"Weirdly my partner is happy for me to go off and play by myself but sadly has no interest in watching me play. Where as I don't like him having 121 with others I would much rather watch him or join in
Thinking about this. Sending my wife and her best friend on a wknd away and permission to do whatever she wants. "
I'm in Glasgow Monday and Tuesday night if you want to try and see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr Ps fav thing over everything else
Hence why we video every Hotwife meet I get sent out on... if he can’t be there to watch it live he gets to watch it over and over
Mrs P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The trouble we find is that most men don't understand the dynamic and think this is a cuckold situation and that I need a 'real man' and to humiliate my partner.
If the single guy isn't respectful to BOTH of us and understanding of our dynamic, then he isn't getting so much as a sniff
Couldn’t agree more with your statement. We find
this quite frequently also. "
Definitely the same for us too we need to feel the connection and the personality of the other guy so bloody hard on here tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's one of the many scenarios we enjoy. T loves all of the attention on her and S likes letting go and watching T have fun and being naughty. The after sex is brilliant too. Love to experiment with the scenario a little more (tying up S or T or a date/meet alone for T) when we have time. Need to find a regular guy who doesn't get too needy and knows the dynamic. And also with the stamina! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's one of the many scenarios we enjoy. T loves all of the attention on her and S likes letting go and watching T have fun and being naughty. The after sex is brilliant too. Love to experiment with the scenario a little more (tying up S or T or a date/meet alone for T) when we have time. Need to find a regular guy who doesn't get too needy and knows the dynamic. And also with the stamina! "
Sounds like you have a good thing going xx |
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M here and I love seeing her having a good time and that’s what it’s all about, problem being as she cant work out why I get the enjoyment from it N can be a little hesitant with the real juicy details that I love, although the video her and her old FB sent to me is so hot it’s still on my phone
Totally agree with the OP though N will only play with someone that has a connection with us both and once we get to know them. |
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