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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard |
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard "
I'm afraid it's because you are in possession of a vagina. |
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard
I'm afraid it's because you are in possession of a vagina. "
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I do think some people post on the forums just for the sake of it, natural is best, fake and forced is unattractive. If you have nothing to say then don't bother ..... |
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As a woman your experience of fab will be considerably different to that of single men. These guys are always advised to put a bit more effort in and I can't see a problem with them trying hard really. |
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Yeah, I know plenty of guys with good profiles and pictures, who send good first messages, and struggle. I could remove all my pictures, change my text to "I like sex", and I'd still get more attention than I could handle. |
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"I do think some people post on the forums just for the sake of it, natural is best, fake and forced is unattractive. If you have nothing to say then don't bother ..... "
I like to chat randomly, I really don't see a problem with men doing that to generate some interest or even just because they enjoy posting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard
I'm afraid it's because you are in possession of a vagina. "
  Exactly that!! pmsl |
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard
I'm afraid it's because you are in possession of a vagina. "
Was about to say the same thing haha |
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"I do think some people post on the forums just for the sake of it, natural is best, fake and forced is unattractive. If you have nothing to say then don't bother .....
I like to chat randomly, I really don't see a problem with men doing that to generate some interest or even just because they enjoy posting."
This. I don't come to the forum looking for meets. |
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"I do think some people post on the forums just for the sake of it, natural is best, fake and forced is unattractive. If you have nothing to say then don't bother .....
I like to chat randomly, I really don't see a problem with men doing that to generate some interest or even just because they enjoy posting.
This. I don't come to the forum looking for meets. "
Neither do I and if I did I'm failing miserably  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do think some people post on the forums just for the sake of it, natural is best, fake and forced is unattractive. If you have nothing to say then don't bother .....
I like to chat randomly, I really don't see a problem with men doing that to generate some interest or even just because they enjoy posting."
I hear you and I have no problem with constructive posting but I do see people posting purely for the sake of it and I do think it's to keep their name / profile to the forefront. A middle aged man posting yummy or yucky is just cringeworthy. |
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"I do think some people post on the forums just for the sake of it, natural is best, fake and forced is unattractive. If you have nothing to say then don't bother .....
I like to chat randomly, I really don't see a problem with men doing that to generate some interest or even just because they enjoy posting.
I hear you and I have no problem with constructive posting but I do see people posting purely for the sake of it and I do think it's to keep their name / profile to the forefront. A middle aged man posting yummy or yucky is just cringeworthy."
Plenty of middle aged women post just to keep their profile to the forefront, just sayin'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do think some people post on the forums just for the sake of it, natural is best, fake and forced is unattractive. If you have nothing to say then don't bother .....
I like to chat randomly, I really don't see a problem with men doing that to generate some interest or even just because they enjoy posting.
I hear you and I have no problem with constructive posting but I do see people posting purely for the sake of it and I do think it's to keep their name / profile to the forefront. A middle aged man posting yummy or yucky is just cringeworthy.
Plenty of middle aged women post just to keep their profile to the forefront, just sayin' "
Ahhhhh sorry my post does come across as male focused, it wasn't meant to be gender specific, and yes I agree with you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is not a look at me thread
I repeat, this is not a look at me thread"
I repeat... This. Is because I'm bored shitless today and wanted to post something I teresting than the usual drivel which is posted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah, I know plenty of guys with good profiles and pictures, who send good first messages, and struggle. I could remove all my pictures, change my text to "I like sex", and I'd still get more attention than I could handle. "
The words 'nail' and 'head' come to mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It doesn't really matter how well written a profile is, or how appealing, once you fall foul of the age limits it's all over. At 55 I would receive plenty of attention. At 56 it slowed. Now I'm 57 I seem to have almost vanished; despite me being a lot fitter, I just don't show.
We all get older by one year in every twelve month period, but ladies do seem to keep the same upper age limit on filters. Men who lie about their age do well from this. Don't get me wrong, I'm still having fun, but please don't rule us out. The moral is to lie about your age when you first join. |
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"It doesn't really matter how well written a profile is, or how appealing, once you fall foul of the age limits it's all over. At 55 I would receive plenty of attention. At 56 it slowed. Now I'm 57 I seem to have almost vanished; despite me being a lot fitter, I just don't show.
We all get older by one year in every twelve month period, but ladies do seem to keep the same upper age limit on filters. Men who lie about their age do well from this. Don't get me wrong, I'm still having fun, but please don't rule us out. The moral is to lie about your age when you first join."
We know guys do this, though, and judge not only by stated age but also how old you look. Don't try to get around filters. They exist for a reason. |
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"Really? I think not. I make it 100% clear sex not on agenda"
You're a woman on a sex site wanting to do sex things with men. Ergo you're inundated with messages.
The fact that they don't get to put their penis in your vagina is a minor detail. |
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard "
You really believe that ??
Truly?
Come on you can’t be that naive!! |
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And just for the record.. I have a crap sarcastic profile and I don’t take all this seriously..
My messages are light and funny ..
I don’t struggle on here at all ..
Too many serious people on here I believe..
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"It doesn't really matter how well written a profile is, or how appealing, once you fall foul of the age limits it's all over. At 55 I would receive plenty of attention. At 56 it slowed. Now I'm 57 I seem to have almost vanished; despite me being a lot fitter, I just don't show."
Wow. And to think I was getting upset because at 41 literally half the profiles I was interested in messaging I couldn't because they'd set their upper limit to 39! |
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"And just for the record.. I have a crap sarcastic profile and I don’t take all this seriously..
My messages are light and funny ..
I don’t struggle on here at all ..
Too many serious people on here I believe..
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Enjoy the next 12 years, then reflect. |
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"And just for the record.. I have a crap sarcastic profile and I don’t take all this seriously..
My messages are light and funny ..
I don’t struggle on here at all ..
Too many serious people on here I believe..
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Over six foot and 'athletic' probably puts you in the top bracket of single blokes tbh. Being significantly under six feet doesn't stop you being attractive but it does skew the odds even further against you. Even more so if you're not athletic. |
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"And just for the record.. I have a crap sarcastic profile and I don’t take all this seriously..
My messages are light and funny ..
I don’t struggle on here at all ..
Too many serious people on here I believe..
Enjoy the next 12 years, then reflect."
You make no sense ?
I’ve been doing this a very long time .. left and returned on many occasions and start off where I left off ..
Make it fun and good conversation don’t make it about sex .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And just for the record.. I have a crap sarcastic profile and I don’t take all this seriously..
My messages are light and funny ..
I don’t struggle on here at all ..
Too many serious people on here I believe..
Enjoy the next 12 years, then reflect.
You make no sense ?
I’ve been doing this a very long time .. left and returned on many occasions and start off where I left off ..
Make it fun and good conversation don’t make it about sex .. "
I make perfect sense for men beyond mid 50's. We can be seen by about 5% of the females here, whereas you can probably be seen by all of them. That has a huge impact on how much fun you can have; it's like fishing in an empty pond compared to fishing in a well stocked barrell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard "
But you are a woman, women and couples do get loads of messages because there are that many guys looking for them, but when you are a guy there is so many guys out there couples and ladys hsve plenty to choose from, but yes I am a older guy and I still get meets you only have to look at my verifications. |
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"And just for the record.. I have a crap sarcastic profile and I don’t take all this seriously..
My messages are light and funny ..
I don’t struggle on here at all ..
Too many serious people on here I believe..
Enjoy the next 12 years, then reflect.
You make no sense ?
I’ve been doing this a very long time .. left and returned on many occasions and start off where I left off ..
Make it fun and good conversation don’t make it about sex ..
I make perfect sense for men beyond mid 50's. We can be seen by about 5% of the females here, whereas you can probably be seen by all of them. That has a huge impact on how much fun you can have; it's like fishing in an empty pond compared to fishing in a well stocked barrell. "
Ahhh get you ..
But the cream always rises and you look like you’re doing ok my friend.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is not a look at me thread
I repeat, this is not a look at me thread
I repeat... This. Is because I'm bored shitless today and wanted to post something I teresting than the usual drivel which is posted"
Oh.
No worries... I’ll look forward to that then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard "
you're lisainleather of course you'll get messages don't see the comparison between you and the 1000s of unsuccessful guys here |
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The reality is you could have nothing on your profile, no pictures, no text and still get inundated with messages OP. Yep because you have a vagina!! A man could have the best profile text and pictures to rival Channing Tatum and still get accused of being attention seeking......tho Channing if you are reading this - call me babe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reality is you could have nothing on your profile, no pictures, no text and still get inundated with messages OP. Yep because you have a vagina!! A man could have the best profile text and pictures to rival Channing Tatum and still get accused of being attention seeking......tho Channing if you are reading this - call me babe "
Yep
I had nothing on my profile and no photos for the first week I was on Fab and I still got over 1000 messages in that time!
Owning a vagina is what gets you noticed not anything you write on your profile or even a photo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reality is you could have nothing on your profile, no pictures, no text and still get inundated with messages OP. Yep because you have a vagina!! A man could have the best profile text and pictures to rival Channing Tatum and still get accused of being attention seeking......tho Channing if you are reading this - call me babe
Yep
I had nothing on my profile and no photos for the first week I was on Fab and I still got over 1000 messages in that time!
Owning a vagina is what gets you noticed not anything you write on your profile or even a photo. "
exactly some men don't even need to see your face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reality is you could have nothing on your profile, no pictures, no text and still get inundated with messages OP. Yep because you have a vagina!! A man could have the best profile text and pictures to rival Channing Tatum and still get accused of being attention seeking......tho Channing if you are reading this - call me babe
Yep
I had nothing on my profile and no photos for the first week I was on Fab and I still got over 1000 messages in that time!
Owning a vagina is what gets you noticed not anything you write on your profile or even a photo. exactly some men don't even need to see your face "
No just the fact that you have a vagina and boobs seems to be enough! (Or in some cases just claim to have without proving evidence) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reality is you could have nothing on your profile, no pictures, no text and still get inundated with messages OP. Yep because you have a vagina!! A man could have the best profile text and pictures to rival Channing Tatum and still get accused of being attention seeking......tho Channing if you are reading this - call me babe
Yep
I had nothing on my profile and no photos for the first week I was on Fab and I still got over 1000 messages in that time!
Owning a vagina is what gets you noticed not anything you write on your profile or even a photo. exactly some men don't even need to see your face
No just the fact that you have a vagina and boobs seems to be enough! (Or in some cases just claim to have without proving evidence) "
you saying they're a man pretending to be a woman .....to what end ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reality is you could have nothing on your profile, no pictures, no text and still get inundated with messages OP. Yep because you have a vagina!! A man could have the best profile text and pictures to rival Channing Tatum and still get accused of being attention seeking......tho Channing if you are reading this - call me babe
Yep
I had nothing on my profile and no photos for the first week I was on Fab and I still got over 1000 messages in that time!
Owning a vagina is what gets you noticed not anything you write on your profile or even a photo. exactly some men don't even need to see your face
No just the fact that you have a vagina and boobs seems to be enough! (Or in some cases just claim to have without proving evidence) you saying they're a man pretending to be a woman .....to what end ?"
Who knows but yes of course there are. |
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"The reality is you could have nothing on your profile, no pictures, no text and still get inundated with messages OP. Yep because you have a vagina!! A man could have the best profile text and pictures to rival Channing Tatum and still get accused of being attention seeking......tho Channing if you are reading this - call me babe
Yep
I had nothing on my profile and no photos for the first week I was on Fab and I still got over 1000 messages in that time!
Owning a vagina is what gets you noticed not anything you write on your profile or even a photo. exactly some men don't even need to see your face
No just the fact that you have a vagina and boobs seems to be enough! (Or in some cases just claim to have without proving evidence) you saying they're a man pretending to be a woman .....to what end ?
Who knows but yes of course there are. "
jeez it be muses me |
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Wait, people are on here for sex?
I had a decent write up on my profile, deleted it all as it was pointless. As a male: it’s significantly harder to get replies/views unless it’s from men offering to service you.
I really don’t understand what you consider “desperate” neither, I generally send a message out, only to find it’s deleted once read. Thus, I’m going to just converse on here from now on and forget about the sites supposed original purpose.
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard "
Nah that's utter bobbins.
People male or female should always put the effort in with their profile as I'd imagine that giving the best impression of yourself is pretty important? That way a male won't have a problem of getting interest and a female will get more interest of the quality she desires?
And going for a mailbox being full and having lots of views; You could remove all your pics in 10 years time, have the text of "I like willies in my fanny" and get a boatload of attention OP, because as other posters say you have a vagina.
Unfortunately most of that attention would be from spuds. |
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"The forums are full of anxious people(usually guys) who complain they are invisible.
A well written profile and bland pics will still ensure your mail box is full and you get lots of views. I am approaching 60 and still get lots of people keen to meet. Why? Probably because I am honest and upfront on my profile and DONT try hard "
I agree always be true to yourself too.
Nothing wrong with trying too hard though. It's how other people perceive you. With guys it's usually a good thing to avoid being obnoxious. That is probably the biggest turn off. |
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