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Want the mrs to be more slutty
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over a year ago
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Hi everyone so I've been with my partner 6 years and recently have had a real urge to see my mrs being real slutty for me she finds it weird that I like her dressing and acting slutty as all past partners would go mad at the sight of a short skirt of low cut top but I love it I know want her to start bringing other people especially other guys into the bedroom so I'm currently working on building her confidence with sexual challenges while I'm at work and all seems to be heading to my final goal of us becoming a swinging couple. So who else loves there partner dressing and acting extremely slutty for them ????!!! |
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"Hi everyone so I've been with my partner 6 years and recently have had a real urge to see my mrs being real slutty for me she finds it weird that I like her dressing and acting slutty as all past partners would go mad at the sight of a short skirt of low cut top but I love it I know want her to start bringing other people especially other guys into the bedroom so I'm currently working on building her confidence with sexual challenges while I'm at work and all seems to be heading to my final goal of us becoming a swinging couple. So who else loves there partner dressing and acting extremely slutty for them ????!!!"
Ooo sounds like a bit of a mission you're on, hope it goes to plan.
Slutty housewives are a real turn on.
Keep us posted on how it goes.
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"Hi everyone so I've been with my partner 6 years and recently have had a real urge to see my mrs being real slutty for me she finds it weird that I like her dressing and acting slutty as all past partners would go mad at the sight of a short skirt of low cut top but I love it I know want her to start bringing other people especially other guys into the bedroom so I'm currently working on building her confidence with sexual challenges while I'm at work and all seems to be heading to my final goal of us becoming a swinging couple. So who else loves there partner dressing and acting extremely slutty for them ????!!!
Ooo sounds like a bit of a mission you're on, hope it goes to plan.
Slutty housewives are a real turn on.
Keep us posted on how it goes.
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yeah will do she's proving a hard nut to crack but I'll get there |
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Wish my husband would. He isn't into swinging, I am lucky he is supportive but I do hope one day he will join me and enjoy it. Good luck op, every wanna be hotwife's dream xxx |
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"Wish my husband would. He isn't into swinging, I am lucky he is supportive but I do hope one day he will join me and enjoy it. Good luck op, every wanna be hotwife's dream xxx "
OMG can't be many male partners that ain't up for it well I certainly feel your pain it can be so frustrating not getting what you desire
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"Hi everyone so I've been with my partner 6 years and recently have had a real urge to see my mrs being real slutty for me she finds it weird that I like her dressing and acting slutty as all past partners would go mad at the sight of a short skirt of low cut top but I love it I know want her to start bringing other people especially other guys into the bedroom so I'm currently working on building her confidence with sexual challenges while I'm at work and all seems to be heading to my final goal of us becoming a swinging couple. So who else loves there partner dressing and acting extremely slutty for them ????!!!
Ooo sounds like a bit of a mission you're on, hope it goes to plan.
Slutty housewives are a real turn on.
Keep us posted on how it goes.
yeah will do she's proving a hard nut to crack but I'll get there "
Does she want to and is just worried about your reaction? Or is it not for her and all about your fantasy? Very different scenarios. |
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yeah will do she's proving a hard nut to crack but I'll get there "
There are a number of ways to get a partner to swing. Keeping apply pressure until they give in really isn't one of them.
Does she want to swing? |
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"Hi everyone so I've been with my partner 6 years and recently have had a real urge to see my mrs being real slutty for me she finds it weird that I like her dressing and acting slutty as all past partners would go mad at the sight of a short skirt of low cut top but I love it I know want her to start bringing other people especially other guys into the bedroom so I'm currently working on building her confidence with sexual challenges while I'm at work and all seems to be heading to my final goal of us becoming a swinging couple. So who else loves there partner dressing and acting extremely slutty for them ????!!!
Ooo sounds like a bit of a mission you're on, hope it goes to plan.
Slutty housewives are a real turn on.
Keep us posted on how it goes.
yeah will do she's proving a hard nut to crack but I'll get there
Does she want to and is just worried about your reaction? Or is it not for her and all about your fantasy? Very different scenarios. "
she's just very body contious she thinks cos she's not stick thin she won't look sexy in slutty clothes she's not a slutty girl at all in general so struggling to get her to realize just how sexy she is |
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yeah will do she's proving a hard nut to crack but I'll get there
There are a number of ways to get a partner to swing. Keeping apply pressure until they give in really isn't one of them.
Does she want to swing? "
I'm not going on at her to swing all the time or anything like that we have played before but I did something stupid that has set us back a few years recovering from my fuck up and just trying to get her back into the swing of things |
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"Hi everyone so I've been with my partner 6 years and recently have had a real urge to see my mrs being real slutty for me she finds it weird that I like her dressing and acting slutty as all past partners would go mad at the sight of a short skirt of low cut top but I love it I know want her to start bringing other people especially other guys into the bedroom so I'm currently working on building her confidence with sexual challenges while I'm at work and all seems to be heading to my final goal of us becoming a swinging couple. So who else loves there partner dressing and acting extremely slutty for them ????!!!
Ooo sounds like a bit of a mission you're on, hope it goes to plan.
Slutty housewives are a real turn on.
Keep us posted on how it goes.
yeah will do she's proving a hard nut to crack but I'll get there
Does she want to and is just worried about your reaction? Or is it not for her and all about your fantasy? Very different scenarios. she's just very body contious she thinks cos she's not stick thin she won't look sexy in slutty clothes she's not a slutty girl at all in general so struggling to get her to realize just how sexy she is "
Maybe it just doesn't come over too well, maybe it's me but this smacks of being all about your fantasy - if she isn't comfortable, she isn't comfortable. What she wears is none of your business and entirely hers. |
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No judgement but your post 9 weeks clearly explains what's the problem. Women, men also, take a lot to forget / forgive those actions especially when occuring more than once. To get anything other than a kiss and staying in the same bed is bloody good going considering.
Best of luck at making your lady happy and trusting again. |
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"No judgement but your post 9 weeks clearly explains what's the problem. Women, men also, take a lot to forget / forgive those actions especially when occuring more than once. To get anything other than a kiss and staying in the same bed is bloody good going considering.
Best of luck at making your lady happy and trusting again. "
I understand my mistakes aren't an easy thing to get over but recently we've been doing very well and slowly getting back to how we used to be |
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Reading between the lines, and please correct me if im wrong but did you go elsewhere because she wouldn't join you in your swinging quest? Im guessing this is something that you want and she is reluctant but sticks by you because she loves you, you need to decide if you want to swing and risk losing what you have or make a break and start a fresh with someone who is willing to join you in this lifestyle. Im Lucy that my Mrs was already a slut when we met 
But please accept my apologies if I've got this wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Reading between the lines, and please correct me if im wrong but did you go elsewhere because she wouldn't join you in your swinging quest? Im guessing this is something that you want and she is reluctant but sticks by you because she loves you, you need to decide if you want to swing and risk losing what you have or make a break and start a fresh with someone who is willing to join you in this lifestyle. Im Lucy that my Mrs was already a slut when we met
But please accept my apologies if I've got this wrong "
Yeah you have pretty much hit the nail on the head but not as easy as break away and find someone who's more willing as we have a family together its not like she doesn't want the lifestyle she's just petrified I'm gonna fuck up again |
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If she is 100% sure she wants to join you in this lifestyle then you need to sit down and set out some basic rules ie
Do you only play as a couple or separately.
Is she allowed to play alone but wouldn't want you playing alone (it happens)
Do you only arrange meets through a joint couples account so you both have access to what is being arranged.
Theres lots to discuss and some rules are made up as you go along when you find something your not comfortable with.
Never force anything you are both not comfortable with, its about mutual enjoyment. If there's something she isn't comfortable with doing then respect that and avoid it
Be 100% honest with each other, even little things such as a msg you got on fab that didn't materialise to anything, might not be important to you but could be a big issue to her.
I would suggest the first step of suggesting going to a club on a newbie night, with no preconceptions of playing at all, not even dressing down, just go to watch, you dont have to play, anf she feels comfortable with dressing down or just playing together with no interaction with others, just let her decide how the night goes.
Anyway thats how i would go about it, if its not for her fine
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone so I've been with my partner 6 years and recently have had a real urge to see my mrs being real slutty for me she finds it weird that I like her dressing and acting slutty as all past partners would go mad at the sight of a short skirt of low cut top but I love it I know want her to start bringing other people especially other guys into the bedroom so I'm currently working on building her confidence with sexual challenges while I'm at work and all seems to be heading to my final goal of us becoming a swinging couple. So who else loves there partner dressing and acting extremely slutty for them ????!!!"
did you take veris home to meet wife was that her first experience?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If she is 100% sure she wants to join you in this lifestyle then you need to sit down and set out some basic rules ie
Do you only play as a couple or separately.
Is she allowed to play alone but wouldn't want you playing alone (it happens)
Do you only arrange meets through a joint couples account so you both have access to what is being arranged.
Theres lots to discuss and some rules are made up as you go along when you find something your not comfortable with.
Never force anything you are both not comfortable with, its about mutual enjoyment. If there's something she isn't comfortable with doing then respect that and avoid it
Be 100% honest with each other, even little things such as a msg you got on fab that didn't materialise to anything, might not be important to you but could be a big issue to her.
I would suggest the first step of suggesting going to a club on a newbie night, with no preconceptions of playing at all, not even dressing down, just go to watch, you dont have to play, anf she feels comfortable with dressing down or just playing together with no interaction with others, just let her decide how the night goes.
Anyway thats how i would go about it, if its not for her fine
Good luck"
thanks for the great advice were gonna sit down tonight and have a long talk about what both of us want |
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"Hi everyone so I've been with my partner 6 years and recently have had a real urge to see my mrs being real slutty for me she finds it weird that I like her dressing and acting slutty as all past partners would go mad at the sight of a short skirt of low cut top but I love it I know want her to start bringing other people especially other guys into the bedroom so I'm currently working on building her confidence with sexual challenges while I'm at work and all seems to be heading to my final goal of us becoming a swinging couple. So who else loves there partner dressing and acting extremely slutty for them ????!!!"
put up some public pics of her so we can erm make constructive suggestions  |
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"Wish my husband would. He isn't into swinging, I am lucky he is supportive but I do hope one day he will join me and enjoy it. Good luck op, every wanna be hotwife's dream xxx OMG can't be many male partners that ain't up for it well I certainly feel your pain it can be so frustrating not getting what you desire"
I think the vast majority of the male population would be against their wives sleeping with other dudes 
Of course not in the swinging world, though in general, it’s a no go. |
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Red flag red flag red flag
No offence but I’m about to be honest and will likely offend you but you need to hear this if you’re going to continue as you are...
To me, in my opinion granted based on previous and current posts, you sound like someone who is incredibly self centred and pushy towards your wife and this lifestyle.
I’ve met couples like you and it’s horrible not only for your wife but also for people like me who come to what is seemingly a great swinging couple but turn out to be a pushy husband who just wants to get his dick wet without a care towards his wife. It’s bordering on absuive and it’s definitely something I see way too often.
I know your type and they’re not welcome in my world buddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Red flag red flag red flag
No offence but I’m about to be honest and will likely offend you but you need to hear this if you’re going to continue as you are...
To me, in my opinion granted based on previous and current posts, you sound like someone who is incredibly self centred and pushy towards your wife and this lifestyle.
I’ve met couples like you and it’s horrible not only for your wife but also for people like me who come to what is seemingly a great swinging couple but turn out to be a pushy husband who just wants to get his dick wet without a care towards his wife. It’s bordering on absuive and it’s definitely something I see way too often.
I know your type and they’re not welcome in my world buddy"
I really feel for the poor woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wish my husband would. He isn't into swinging, I am lucky he is supportive but I do hope one day he will join me and enjoy it. Good luck op, every wanna be hotwife's dream xxx OMG can't be many male partners that ain't up for it well I certainly feel your pain it can be so frustrating not getting what you desire"
Really? I would imagine the vast majority of male partners would be horrified at the idea of thier wife being with other men |
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