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By *picknspan OP Man
over a year ago
North West Leeds |
I have a question that is a genuine enquiry.
As a Cross Dresser or TV (I am unsure if there is a difference or whether they are alternative names for the same) do you strive to feel like a woman or look like a woman?
Or is it both?
Or do individuals have different intentions?
I have never had a desire or inclination to cross dress and so I ask this question in the hope of some revelation.
Thank you |
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I once walked by the bedroom of my mate's sister, as she was fastening up her suspender clips to her stockings. She gave me a look I'll never forget. But the whole scene I witnessed was what made me fall in love with stockings. Out of nowhere the thought came of "how does it feel to be a girl being f*@%ed?" How i reached that point I cannot answer, it just happened. When I finally found out how it felt, I was addicted. In truth, it's nowhere near what a real woman feels. Biologically, why were men given a prostate? and when massaged can deliver a trembling orgasm? |
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For me it's simple... when I'm dressed up it does change my thought process into bi senareos... and would do all most anything sexuality, but I never think of trying to pass myself off as a woman !! I sure most lady's out there enjoy that sexy feeling of slipping into a nice pair of stockings  |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
Bristol East |
I strive to be myself.
There was a time I thought I could be a woman.
I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.
I realised I could not be anyone except me.
So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.
Now, every time I go out I succeed, because I understand who I am and who I am not.
And I have the confidence knowing I made the best job of what I have, not of what I don't have.
Hopefully this makes sense.
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"I have a question that is a genuine enquiry.
As a Cross Dresser or TV (I am unsure if there is a difference or whether they are alternative names for the same) do you strive to feel like a woman or look like a woman?
Or is it both?
Or do individuals have different intentions?
I have never had a desire or inclination to cross dress and so I ask this question in the hope of some revelation.
Thank you"
Me I just like going to my allotment dressed planting spuds. The sex part is a peripheral bonus.
Sex as a woman heightens the erotic factor , women are the personification of sex as far as I'm concerned.
Guess that's why Eve tempted Adam and not the other way round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dress because I choose to. I don't look or act like a woman, not do I want to. I don't do wigs or makeup. Iam a man who gets a thrill out of X dressing, I do it for me.
My wife likes it as well, which is a bonus as she sometimes buys me things to wear. |
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"I strive to be myself.
There was a time I thought I could be a woman.
I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.
I realised I could not be anyone except me.
So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.
Hopefully this makes sense.
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Exactly this  .
Thank you for putting it very eloquently.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married to a TV who is also on fabs (Jenny_TV) and for her it is both, but only in a sexual capacity. At all other times he is definitely a he, but talk about making Jenny get on her knees a suck cock and she's defo wanting to look and feel female. Some of it is the sensation of the clothing too. Tight dress, tights, high shoes. Her look is classy slut I'd say. |
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Suppose it's different for everyone, and it also changes over time.
As a young teen it was the feel of the clothes on my body, it was a huge turn on - it still is.
Over time the idea of having sex with a man came to the fore, and I found anal sex to be wonderful.
Now, I enjoy dressing for sex but I also enjoy dressing just to go out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I strive to be myself.
There was a time I thought I could be a woman.
I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.
I realised I could not be anyone except me.
So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.
Now, every time I go out I succeed, because I understand who I am and who I am not.
And I have the confidence knowing I made the best job of what I have, not of what I don't have.
Hopefully this makes sense.
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It makes perfect sense. Thank you for sharing. |
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By *picknspan OP Man
over a year ago
North West Leeds |
I appreciate the comments, views,thoughts, opinions and candid honesty of those who have answered.
If I have asked the question in a way that demeans or some how appears to lessen the desires or actions of an individual who explores their own life, personality or self through this 'fashion' then I apologise as it was never meant to be the case.
I simply wondered what the differing (or general) thought processes were/are since I have not experienced them.
It is not something that I am seeking detail of to judge, praise or criticise just to answer a curiosity that entered my mind.
Thanks to all |
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"I strive to be myself.
There was a time I thought I could be a woman.
I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.
I realised I could not be anyone except me.
So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.
Now, every time I go out I succeed, because I understand who I am and who I am not.
And I have the confidence knowing I made the best job of what I have, not of what I don't have.
Hopefully this makes sense.
It makes perfect sense. Thank you for sharing. "
I echo these thoughts too, put in a lovely way and mostly.... whether you have gender dysphoria or simply love the clothes its just us being us 
Being a girl or acting like one is a fun thing to do on many levels. |
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When I’m fully dressed (wig, make up etc..) I’m very much in my feminine self, enjoying feeling more softer and comfortable in myself.
As in bloke mode, enjoy the usual stuff, Motorbikes, Football and makeup ....sorry I mean grrr ..... meat |
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I’m a tv
Not a cd
I have my own clothes and a full range of lingerie, shoes, outfits, coats, make up, wigs etc
I love the feeling of women’s clothes, I love looking at myself as Stella
I’m amazed he w good it feels even if I’m not really that convincing..
Thing is I’m not into other men...
I just like sex and love dressing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I strive to be myself.
There was a time I thought I could be a woman.
I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.
I realised I could not be anyone except me.
So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.
Now, every time I go out I succeed, because I understand who I am and who I am not.
And I have the confidence knowing I made the best job of what I have, not of what I don't have.
Hopefully this makes sense.
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Makes a lot of sense to me Sara! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know, I'm honestly confused by all of the terms: CD, TV, TS, Gender Fluid, pansexual, etc, etc and Googling it doesn't help. As a male, I empathise with women a lot more and feel comfortable around them. I definitely don't look at men. When dressed as female, I love going out, shops, theatre, etc and it's not sexual but I feel so much more confident and comfortable in myself. I still don't find men attractive but I do think about sucking cock and being fucked. Not acted on it and don't know what that makes me but there it is! |
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"I still don't find men attractive but I do think about sucking cock and being fucked. Not acted on it and don't know what that makes me but there it is! "
Me neither, not attracted to men but love being fucked by them. It's an odd thing.
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"You know, I'm honestly confused by all of the terms: CD, TV, TS, Gender Fluid, pansexual, etc, etc and Googling it doesn't help. As a male, I empathise with women a lot more and feel comfortable around them. I definitely don't look at men. When dressed as female, I love going out, shops, theatre, etc and it's not sexual but I feel so much more confident and comfortable in myself. I still don't find men attractive but I do think about sucking cock and being fucked. Not acted on it and don't know what that makes me but there it is! "
A curious CD I'd say... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd say for me, I'm very aware of this female part of me, so naturally for me it's both. I feel female and I want to look how I picture my female self. So I strive as best I can to do that through my makeup, shaving everything, wig choice, outfit choice etc.
With the whole labels thing I struggle to think of something that I feel fits, many would say TV, I often say TS but that doesn't quite fit right. I've thought about using 'polar gender fluid' as I'm never in-between genders but very comfortable at either end. But that doesn't sound right either and kinda pretentious lol.
Sexually it's interesting, as we both identify as pansexual, but I'm very much bottom with guys, I just can't fuck guys, have tried. But he's probably a toppy switch as he's fucked guys, but yet to have been fucked by one... Oral, we are both really into mutual oral
With women and other trans we just go with the flow and happy for whatever role.
So yeah for me(us) it's a big mix of different things in one person that present in different ways, some are interchangeable, others are very specific to who is presenting
Hope that spew of thoughts makes sense lol x |
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I would say I'm CD, I like the feel of wearing female underwear, stocking, hold ups, knickers and a Basque. However when out that's under mail clothing. I have tried full T-Girl but shit at it to be frank. What I do now is a turn on for me and for some others, I accept not everyone.
I enjoy the feel of womens underwear far more than mens, far more sensitive and tactile. I would neverbe a convincing T-Girl whatever dresses or make up I wore.
I'll stick to what feeels good for me.
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I'm a man with a typical man's life to most people.
When I'm dressed, it makes me feel good, I love the feeling of wearing ladies cloths, gives me lots of confidence and turns me on. The sex I have as Alex is so much better than when I'm in male mode, plus I get to meet lots of great people. |
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Really interesting see what everyone else is going through. I love the feel and the taboo of dressing. I look ridiculous I know but it feels good. Exploring my bi side love cock but don’t find men attractive. I still need the female influence ie mmf of tv/cd.
Nice to know I’m not on my own thanks ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really interesting see what everyone else is going through. I love the feel and the taboo of dressing. I look ridiculous I know but it feels good. Exploring my bi side love cock but don’t find men attractive. I still need the female influence ie mmf of tv/cd.
Nice to know I’m not on my own thanks ??"
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As a teen I used to get comments that I looked like a girl I used to blush as I felt feminine but not a girl as the years went by I dressed and it felt and still feels normal for me .sex is like an exiting extra . |
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"I'm a man with a typical man's life to most people.
When I'm dressed, it makes me feel good, I love the feeling of wearing ladies cloths, gives me lots of confidence and turns me on. The sex I have as Alex is so much better than when I'm in male mode, plus I get to meet lots of great people. "
I know exactly what you mean about what you mean about the sex being better when you're Alex. Even though I'm only wearing lingerie I find it so much erotic especially with a woman. For me the turn on starts when I start to pull on the stockings, such a wonderful sensation  |
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Think of it like a rainbow.... there are very different reasons why Tgirls wish to present as female. I personally have felt in the wrong body since I was a child and I have very little in common with the male world. some girls like to dress because of how the clothes feel , others find the experience sexualy charging , some girls just like to be a girl every now and then and some Tgirls just feel happier and correct as a woman and wish to transition..... and everything inbetween. As with anybody else we are all unique xx xx |
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"Think of it like a rainbow.... there are very different reasons why Tgirls wish to present as female. I personally have felt in the wrong body since I was a child and I have very little in common with the male world. some girls like to dress because of how the clothes feel , others find the experience sexualy charging , some girls just like to be a girl every now and then and some Tgirls just feel happier and correct as a woman and wish to transition..... and everything inbetween. As with anybody else we are all unique xx xx "
This is such an astute post. Personally, I'm bi-gender and relish the opportunity to live two lives. Not many people take that opportunity but it's quite an experience to see life from differing sides. Unique indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think of it like a rainbow.... there are very different reasons why Tgirls wish to present as female. I personally have felt in the wrong body since I was a child and I have very little in common with the male world. some girls like to dress because of how the clothes feel , others find the experience sexualy charging , some girls just like to be a girl every now and then and some Tgirls just feel happier and correct as a woman and wish to transition..... and everything inbetween. As with anybody else we are all unique xx xx "
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