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Question for single guys.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So single guys, if you were to start dating someone and it got to a serious level, would you leave Fab and the scene behind and stay faithful? How easy would that be if so? Or would you be a bad bad boy and stay? Oh and please lets be honest hehe

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By *dinSon99Man over a year ago

East Northants

"So single guys, if you were to start dating someone and it got to a serious level, would you leave Fab and the scene behind and stay faithful? How easy would that be if so? Or would you be a bad bad boy and stay? Oh and please lets be honest hehe

Have been through this & actually came off of fab

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

I would hope she would join me in the swinging adventure, but I would consider being faithful

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By *isser36Man over a year ago

fylde Coast

Well that would entirely depend on how serious! And also how honest your being with her, for instance if you'd had a conversation and told her you were on fab and if she'd like to join you on here? I'd probably keep the profile but not persue meets, which wouldn't be too hard as am not exactly fighting them off! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only fallen for one person since being on here. I put Fab on hold quite naturally.. She was the only woman who held my attention. I didn't miss this place at all.

Unfortunately I fucked it up a bit by freaking out a smidgen when she told me she was starting to fall in love.

I did love her, it was all just a bit too soon after my marriage ended. Put my kids and her kids above our potential happiness.

Fucking over thinking

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By *ty31Man over a year ago

NW London

If be happy to leave for the right lady. I think I'd be fine with monogamy. I just think I'd miss friends that I've made thru fab rather than the promiscuity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well in an ideal world if I found that special girl who's fun cheeky sexy and a good laugh I'd give up more than fab!! And hell no of course I wouldnt cheat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few years back I met someone, we even went to a couple of clubs together but it wasn't for her. I wasn't interested in carrying on without her, so I left Fab.

Then she left me, so I'm back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not a swinger, I could easily leave the app and be Faithfull.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if I’d found someone with the same interests and sex drive as me I’d like to think we would play together

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could walk away and never look back...

For......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would for a serious relationship, although maybe the odd fantasy in my mind every now and again lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

would happily give it up for the right women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Post divorce I’ve recently joined here and Tinder at the same time. If both take off I guess I’ll either have to explore the new partner’s thoughts of joining me, or otherwise, if it’s love, leave (which would be a shame ??). Hopefully the former ??

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

I enjoy Fab, so would prefer a lady that had the same interest,would I leave? Probably not, faithful? Probably not

There’s some honesty for the thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As it happens myself and the ex-wife talked a lot about swinging, but never got up the courage. Probably something that contributed to the divorce!

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By *uck427Man over a year ago

wales

Yes I would and have done it but she couldn't so it got to the point I left her to carry on cheating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the past I've always deleted my account.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leave Fab and be 100% faithful. Everybody is different though...

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By *an_WoodMan over a year ago

Stafford

It's a dilemma as I don't know if I can give up ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely. Unless they were bisexual and comfortable with one or both of us seeing other women, then my account would be gone.

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By *aptain VMan over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

I would happily leave this site if I were in a serious relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can I ask about what if you met on here? Would you couple up?

Leave?

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By *an_WoodMan over a year ago

Stafford

"Can I ask about what if you met on here? Would you couple up?

Leave? "

If you met here or swinging then why leave ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I ask about what if you met on here? Would you couple up?

Leave?

If you met here or swinging then why leave ?"

Yes exactly would you make a couples profile?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got into a serious relationship... and I left fab, it collapsed, I came back

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By *an_WoodMan over a year ago

Stafford

"Can I ask about what if you met on here? Would you couple up?

Leave?

If you met here or swinging then why leave ?

Yes exactly would you make a couples profile? "

Me being dense. Yes a couple profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I ask about what if you met on here? Would you couple up?

Leave?

If you met here or swinging then why leave ?

Yes exactly would you make a couples profile?

Me being dense. Yes a couple profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I probably wouldn’t leave, in fact probably couldnt leave and yes would be a bad boy

There now you can all slate me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unfortunatrly if she ends up dirtier than you want. Most men find that hard to handle. Be careful what you wish for

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By *laytime432Man over a year ago

Swindon

Had a couples profile with a partner i introduced, she then uswd the site against me when we split, but wouldnt say no to a couples profile again, much more fun than a single profile, would be cool to meet more couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hide my profile to stay on the forums but not message anyone

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By *redjMan over a year ago

gloucestershire

Honestly

I don’t think i could have a vanilla relationship at this point in my life ! But in time and if the prospective woman was enough for me, then yeah i think i could leave it all behind, but at the moment while i still have the sex drive i do and the desires i feel the need to satisfy the thought of it scares the shit out of me

hehehe x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely leave this behind. Maybe have a sneaky peak naw and then but wouldn’t meet...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agreed

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By *igmancMan over a year ago

poulton

Depends if she was as fruity as I was.. then it would be fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the unlikely event that I met a girl away from FAB, then yes, I would keep my profile but not meet anyone, and be 100% faithful to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes im only here for forum banter now

Im exclusive now anyway but we dont date tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would leave in the blink of an eye. But as i've not been meeting anyone on here it wouldn't make a difference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would leave if loved her and that’s what she wants,but unlikely to meet on here as most people after nsa

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

I’m really only here for the forum these days anyway. Is there any harm to a LTR if just using Fab for ‘educational purposes ‘?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I left last year cus of meeting someone, out of respect to her, but now returned as not together anymore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have actually done this and came off fab .. I still go on the odd date now and then. When i

I date a lady and think it's going somewhere, Out of respect I won't arrange a meet. Believe it or not if I'm in a relationship I'm as loyal and faithful as can be. As a single male I like to have lots of fun as I'm not hurting anyone or promising anything

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"I probably wouldn’t leave, in fact probably couldnt leave and yes would be a bad boy

There now you can all slate me "
why you are being honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I did find myself in a serious relationship with a lady and she knew I was on fab at the start I'd have to be honest and faithful and leave unless she was wanting this kind of life style.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely leave. What’s the point in ruining the potential?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I met a vanilla girl and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her then it's a tricky decision, i.d prefer to meet a swinging girl I think. I haven't given it too much thought.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It entirely depends on where you meet. If it's through here then that's ideal as you don't have to explain your sexual history.

There are an awful lot of unknowns though, how your 'partner' will feel about swinging, how you feel about swinging with them, etc. It's great talking in theory about the magical 'what if' but until you're presented with that person, no one really knows how they will react.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My gf is the best thing that's happened to me. She was aware of my time on fab from the beginning. We made a couple's profile with the intention of progressing from there, but eventually decided that the lifestyle isnt for her.

Deleted the couple's profile, still have my single profile, with zero intention of meeting anyone. Be that social or for fun. No messages, no likes, no winks, no pictures etc... She deserves that respect. If she asked me to delete fab completely, I'd have no issues.

I now solely use the site for entertainment by reading the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leave or just stay for occasional forum use.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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your profile is hidden why are you here ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would come off fab and hope to develop something with them and maybe play together as a couple however I have experienced it before and was saddened in the end to find she was still active on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would leave fab.

I used to cheat on my girlfriend all the time.

At first I didn't care but then I got feelings for her later on.

She never found out but it wasn't worth it to be in that position.

You walk with her in town past women you fucked and feel like shit about yourself.

You feel horrible....or i did...

At first I thought it was fun but later I thought I was stupid for doing it because my feelings for her grew stronger and to see her cry would make me cry.

I must have cheated on her alot and treated her like shit. I will never find anyone like her again.

She was better than I deserved.

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By *r GreyfoxMan over a year ago

Newport

I have been on fab a few weeks since the break up of the relationship I was in I came off fab 2 years ago because of this reason

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By *JohnMan over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It was before I was on Fab (I think it was before there was a Fab, actually), but I was in that situation. I stopped visiting the site I was on and didn't return until the relationship had collapsed and she had gone.

That was one of the experiences that persuaded me that full time relationships are not for me. I won't need to leave the scene again, as the people I get involved with now are part of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Without the slightest hesitation. I have a real problem with infidelity, as I've been on the receiving end. It's totally unnecessary and I don't get it!?

If at a later date, the subject was to come up and she wanted to try swinging, great! Otherwise, if the relationship works, I've got no need to swing. If it doesn't work,it ends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I would

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